ok so.. I havent talk 2my ex girlfriend in almost 2months, then she calls me n says she hasnt told her family that we broke up n wants me 2go with her 2morrow. is she just sayn this 2 be nice? is she tryn 2get back with me? Im confused right now I dont want 2get back 2gether but it was nice 2talk 2her n Id rather be out eating good with people then sittin home alone on the holiday when every1 else is with there fam. help me out here people what would u do?

well........

do you want to get back with her or no?? why did the two of you break up in the first place??

I would rather be sitting home ALONE than back with my EX. Why would I want to be with him, we are NOT together anymore for a reason....

That's up to you really. As for me, I'm looking forward to some ME time. I'm staying home alone baking and getting baked all day long haha. I'm going to buy a couple movies in the morning, come back, start the turkey and stuffing and smoke out all day...

Why would you do that.

If you still love her, then you should go.
If you dont want her, then just say no.

Unless you plan on getting bak together with her, don't go. You're not together anymore, she's goning to have to accept that, and deal with it.

Dave...NO...move on buddy...move on to someone who wants you there for the simple times, too...not just for show.

If anything...spend time with your OWN family, tomorrow. They're the ones that'll be there for you.

I dont wanna get back 2gether with her but who wants 2b alone on a holiday? n illusion it would b sumthing like that but id order a pizza, i cant cook

Just from a girls perspective, she's doing this as a ploy. Just tell her to own up to the break-up. Family will understand. She is probably wanting you back or not finding someone else to move onto. Just enjoy the holiday with friends who actually want you for you.

hey..it is a free meal...booze included?

<<<<<<<<<< Id rather be alone than to give my x a second of my time.

Cant stand er, thats why we split, would pi55 on her if she was on fire.

Id say go ALONE! Dont ask me to go!

haha... yeah pizza sounds good, but meh, I love a good turkey dinner and I haven't cooked for awhile like this. I'm really looking forward to it. i can understand not wanting to be alone though. I usually love Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner with the whole family, but my family really is all doing there own things, and I want some time to chill by myself.

Honestly I would say, it can't hurt to be friends with an ex. If you're still cool with her atleast, then go for it. However, if you think she's doing it to possibly try to get back together, then I would say no.

Psh...

Man go eat some food.

And pick of a chick there!

That's what she gets for lying to her family AND you get some good food.

Heyalls yeah!

I got no close family except my mother who is workin 2morrow. I agree with every1 that told me 2move on,but thats not gonna happen by 2morrow. n her dad makes th best turkey.

If you do decide to go, make sure you're very clear with her about why, if you just want to go as friends. You don't want her to think you're getting back together if you have no intentions of doing so. But I wouldn't go no matter what.

Whatever you decide...Happy Thanksgiving!!

all them people that said free food yall know what Im thinkin n Id probally get lucky 2.. but that would put me on that lower level, so I dont think Im gonna go

Turkey!

FREE TURKEY!


You don't HAVE to have sex ya know. LOL.

uhhh skip it if she is thinking your gonna get back together and you have no intentions then don't send mixed messages

yeah but when in rome , im a man its hard 2control myself.