Topic: Is "love" really even possible?
JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:15 PM
I've been signed up to most of my sites for over a year...lol, and I keeeep meetin the same type of man. The type that sucks.

no photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:17 PM
Ahhhh...life....and love....but a roll of the dice.......snake eyes........DAMN..........roll again

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:23 PM
LOL... yeah, I KEEP gettin those damned ole' snake eyes... every freakin roll is somehow not right...lol...

misswright's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:25 PM

I keeeep meetin the same type of man. The type that sucks.


Are there any other kinds? laugh laugh laugh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:27 PM
LMFAO... I have no clue if there is or not, let me know if you find one who only mildly sucks...

BearBait's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:29 PM
Love:
According to what my papaw use to say love is something you can't define, but when it hits you will know it. You will have a feeling of euphoria, nothing no matter how good or bad can make you stay away

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Wed 11/21/07 05:30 PM
just wait till you meet the one you like a lot and see if that person says what they says-----

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:32 PM
yea love is real
just some humans lie about it to others
i believe in true love!love

but right now im in a angry mood so i dont feel happy much
grumble

geektothetenth's photo
Wed 11/21/07 05:42 PM

I just have to wonder. Here I sit, single and no end in sight... I've been trying to not worry about it but it keeps sneaking up on me. I then have to wonder, does love even exist? Do we fool ourselves? I mean, isn't it possible that we watch the fairy tales when we're small and get false hope about someone loving us whole heartedly? I mean... how do we know its real? We can say "oh, when you find it, you'll 'know' its real". But do we REALLY know or just make ourselves think its real to ease our simple minds? If love is real, why is it so hard to find and so rare? Why does it seem the only ones who find it are the ones you KNOW are going to just pi$$ it away? I really don't think it exists anymore. I guess I'll just be me and enjoy my life. I don't think I even want to meet anyone anytime soon. It will all just lead to false hope.


Yes to the fairy tale question. Chick flicks have perverted the entire idea of what love and relationships should be. Romeo and Juliet is only a romantic story cause both of them die, they didn't have a chance to argue about mortgage or how to discipline their kids.

In a chick flick the "hero" acts like a complete stalker the whole time even running up to the girls wedding and ruining it.

First off unconditional love is reserved for your kids and your dog. Relationships between men and women are always conditional. They are conditional upon neither party cheating, or developing a server coke addiction or whatever else is a deal breaker for you.

I think love exists, but it doesn't wear the same disguise as what the movies show. Love is being able to make up after the argument, love is enjoying the flaws that people have and being able to laugh at them, love is being willing to compromise rather than just have it your way. Love is feeling like crap after you hurt the other person. It's just as much about dealing with the bad together as it is about enjoying the good.

Perhaps you're not selecting the right guys, perhaps you don't know exactly what you're really looking for or maybe what you're looking for isn't realistic and no guy can live up to your expectations.

BTW, things worth having usually are rare and usually are hard to get.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:00 PM
LOL... my 'expectations' are impossibly hard to NOT find... I just ask for honest and for him to be taller than me...lol. I'll even go for not taller than me if he knows his a$$ from a hole in the ground.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:01 PM
and all i ask is if her persona is real and is really sweet not fake bittersweet

grumble

Totage's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:06 PM
Yes it does exist, you just have to be open to it. If you don't beleive and are not open to it, you will not find it.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:09 PM
I'm open to whatever happens, I'm just not going to push myself on anyone who isn't mature enough to know what they want. I tend to go for men who are between 25 and 35, and sadly even THOSE guys have no clue what they want... I don't wait around when I feel that they are just playing games.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:21 PM
Edited by CaRisLOVE on Wed 11/21/07 06:21 PM

I'm open to whatever happens, I'm just not going to push myself on anyone who isn't mature enough to know what they want. I tend to go for men who are between 25 and 35, and sadly even THOSE guys have no clue what they want... I don't wait around when I feel that they are just playing games.


haha dats how i feel towards girls lol
im sick of girls sayin they "dont know wat they want" so i aint a fool to to be fooled and have my time wasted
i want a girl who is real loving sweet and knows wat she wants and want tha good type of guy to actually be there for her

Jess642's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:22 PM
Maybe there is, maybe there isn't...but there appears to be plenty of LUST about..bigsmile devil :wink: laugh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:25 PM
And YOU live so freakin far away WHY? LOL... ur not seemingly half bad ur just too damn far away...

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:25 PM
i always seem to find love under rocks..grumble

Jess642's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:27 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh Is that love rocks or lust rocks?

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:27 PM

And YOU live so freakin far away WHY? LOL... ur not seemingly half bad ur just too damn far away...


who?

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Wed 11/21/07 06:31 PM


And YOU live so freakin far away WHY? LOL... ur not seemingly half bad ur just too damn far away...


who?


DUH! LOL... Y O U