FIND IT .....L.M.A.O.

Sugar Daddy (Bellamy brothers)

https://youtu.be/4MuUD-dEfbc

I go for the healthy ones.. so I am a carrot Daddy

The sugar daddy thing is not for me because I value my financial independence highly.

But I dont have an issue with it for consenting adults who are honest enough and smart enough to know what they are getting into.

It blows my mind how many sugar daddies and sugar mommies convince themselves that their financially dependent younger partner is with them for love.

Dont get me wrong. I do believe that there are some exceptions to the rule and that genuine love sometimes blossoms in the heart of the financially dependent partner, but it would be naive to believe that the majority of sugar daddy/mommy cases are generally void of emotional depth.

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Not my cup of tea either,
I DON'T BELIEVE IN IT AT ALL.

But I accept it as a different form of
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS for a PURPOSE.

And if it fits, then, it can also match .

A stevia uncle.
Sweeter...but no crunch.

Nah I am not into the whole sugar daddy thing.

He would end up dumping me or super gluing my mouth shut...
Heck I don't even like the sugar daddy, or babies they stick to my teeth
Ick

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LOL " panchovanilla " Great comparison

I grow Stevia just as
ALTERNATIVE for sweet
300% more sweet than refined sugar.
Most of all is natural

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LOL " SitkaRains "

You are just AFRAID of the Unknown ??.

I suggest that Sugar Dads
DON'T HAVE TO BE TOO OLD either

Find a Sugar daddy which is only 5, 8 or 10 years older
and you have it all.

Then I would have bigger issues Pancho would be skinning me alive.
Nah I will stick with my Canuck...

I think being afraid of the unknown past me by when I hooked up with the Farmboy snicker

Funny how you put 'financially dependent' and 'looking for a sugar daddy' on the same tier...
I doubt I can ever be financially independent, but I am not looking for a sugar daddy. To me those are two different things entirely.
Due to my physical ailments I cannot work. I am working on generating an income another way, but it's not a given that that will truly pay off and make me financially independent. But all that still doesn't mean that I am looking for a sugar daddy.
Neither would I mind if a man had to provide for me, as long as he doesn't make me feel disrespected because of it. It's a man's natural instinct to want to provide and protect, if he'd want to do that from that tendency, it will respectful, loving and caring.
I don't mind being financially dependent, as long as I don't get knocked because of it. I don't need the status of a career and financial independence per say. Because I'm not a masculine energy woman and because I don't have much choice. Career means nothing to me, never did. Happiness does.
In my first relationship my husband was the breadwinner, I stayed home with the kids. Did that make him a sugar daddy? I think not.
When a man is a real man, an empowered man, he won't mind to provide. But it's usually the not-healed men, damaged by exes and not recovered or otherwise not empowered men, that have a problem with it. Doesn't mean that a woman should do a Peggy Bundy and do nothing. But then you get to the point where doing other work than a job doesn't get any respect in this masculine society.

Long story short.... please if you're going to judge, make some better distinctions whom you judge and why.

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Take it from an EX farmer DEAR

STICK to THE FARMER BOY ya have now ( If you do )

These FAIRDINKUM COWBOYS may be slow or boring sometimes
but they are STEADY and can STAND THE STORMS

LOL

im following silently

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me too

Sugar Daddies and the ladies they attract crack me up.

I remember Tony Randall ( the actor), he was about 85 and madly in love with some 20ish blonde bombshell. According to her, she was deeply in love with that fossil.

they get married.. immediate she gets pregnant.

Of course he dies a year later of old age.

And she lives happily ever after.. very very rich.

For every Sugar Daddy there is 10 woman who will jump at the chance.

$$$$$$$$$$$ talks

I agree with absolutely everything you addressed in your comments Crystal, but I am confused by your interpretion of the judgment I was making.

The only judgment I made, was of people who get involved in a sugar daddy relationship, thinking that the financially dependent partner enters THAT type of relationship out of love. I NEVER made a judgment about women who are financially dependent IN GENERAL or about women who didn't have jobs, and I never said or implied that all financially dependent women are in search of a sugar daddy.

As far as I know, a "sugardaddy" is commonly perceived as someone who primarily uses his money to seduce and keep a woman in a relationship with him.

By that definition , such a man attracts women who are SOLEY concerned with the material benefits of being with him.

I stated in my post that the sugar daddy thing is not for me because I value my financial indepedence highly, which means that a sugardaddy's main selling point , which is his finacial care, wont hold any appeal for me.

I assumed in my post that most people view the "sugar daddy" as a man who seduces a woman with material comforts, and generally ends up in a relationship with someone who is MAINLY with him for his money , which is completely different to the kind of woman you alluded to in your post.

The woman you described, is someone who is NOT SOLELY in a relationship for financial gain ,and the man SHE is with CANT be defined as a "sugar daddy". He can be called the "breadwinner" or the primary income earner , and he takes care of his mate financially out of love for the most part, and not as a means of buying her affection or loyalty as a sugar daddy does.

I don't remember making any of the judgments you interpreted, but I am in total agreement with all of the separate issues you raised .

Maybe you can give us some of the pointers from these sites. They'd be interesting.

lmao! Sorry but that's a crock of chit.

-A real man will provide for his FAMILY... Absolutely
-A lonely man will provide for the do-nothing but be happy types of women.

Empowered men, know the difference.

Ah, yes, that is the key point--to be an empowered man.