Being fat or thin has nothing to do with it. Yes, some women tend to gravitate to the men that treat them like crap. There's plenty of books on the subject but this is not a therapy session. It's about being a good human being. Women tend to not be as obsessed with the physical appearance of the opposite sex as men are. We tend to gravitate to those that appeal to our other senses. Keep in mind I am generalizing here and it doesn't fit all.

Nice answer nice to hear from a women. not a guy what better to give the answer about this a women.

agian you people fail to grasp that there are players that are just good at getting women. im not talking about the ones that cheat. i dont treat my girl like crap. and i know why my friend gets all the women he has "game" join the darkside

i dont think women are attracted to men that treat them like crap. its the lil edge that we have thats all.

playersbb.com does not teach men how to cheat treat women bad. it is basic things to help any man. i bet if one guy from here go on there and read for a month he will have a girlfriend and she will be happy. as i can get any woman i want so can others

Okay, I can resist no longer. We all want the same thing. Unconditional love, whethter you're a man or a woman, it matters not. We want someone to "complete us". Or at the very least compliment us and I'm not talking "Hey baby, ya got a great a**!"

I don't believe girls want players, though I admit we're attracted to them. Why? Bob may actually have a point in that women tend to be nurturing, want to "fix" things. But a player only lasts so long because they aren't looking to be fixed, they're looking to play the game. A player for fun, yeah maybe but not for future husband material.

And to you Bob...you seem to have an answer to everything. Sometimes a closed mouth says more than a million words. For every point offered up, you've got a counter point. Makes me think you can't just accept things the way they are, must convert others to your way of thinking, be "right". If I were to tell you the sky is blue, you'd probably tell me no, it's actually white because it's cloudy today. While you are right, you have negated my feelings even though what I said was true as well. I'm sure you'll come up with some smart comeback like now I'm advising you not to reply at all, which isn't the case. Lose the tunnel vision and what you're looking for may be right in front of your eyes. Good luck.

misswright what you said sounds right unconditonnal love.If you love them and want them to stick around you make the conditions great because, as a man I dont want a pushover eather.

Women want one simple, single, solitary thing. Drumroll please.........................

They want a man with a HUGE ****!!! That is all!!!!

Okay, so that helps too goof. But you do know it's the magic in the wand not the size of the stick right?

"Whew" That's good to hear, cause I have a small...............bank roll. Yeah....that's it!

Ya might wanna save that info until AFTER ya bag the chick goof. Some of 'em don't like a small....bank roll!

Truck?

you got a point some players tend to get boring but at the same time he should keep her interested. i keep my girl on me. agian you would have to be with a player that knows the game like me and you will see what i mean you will love this guy

i feel all women are the same they just have the different personalitys

That's funny, because I feel all players are the same, they just have different self-delusions.

A soft place to fall.

Bob, you seem to be a very angry, bitter person inside. Your posts claim you don't understand why women always pigeonhole you in the friend corner but, I can tell you why that is...nobody wants to date someone who is so angry at the world and themselves. You have an answer for everything, how do you think that makes a young lady feel? Frustrated, and negative towards you. Normally you would be the very type that I'm attracted to; an intelligent guy and cute. But your posts reveal such a jaded, cynical person and a guy who ALWAYS has to "one up" everyone else. Girls aren't stupid, you might put on a certain face with them, but their gut feeling will tell you that something is off, and that you aren't relationship material. I think maybe you should go talk to a counselor about your issues.

Im still looking for my lighter.......so basically Im looking for a new lighter!!!

honestly, i don't think we really know sometimes

Someone who is nice and treats us like gold and is a madman in the bedroom!!!!