Topic: cards
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Tue 12/13/16 03:43 PM
Why when you say to a woman I HATE CARDS AND CARD SHOPS they always think you are joking :/
so when you get a card for your birthday you look at it like what do I do with is what a waste of money
they get upset and they are always saying we should always tell the truth

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Tue 12/13/16 03:48 PM
It's out of what society has deemed to be normal behavior. Is my guess.

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Tue 12/13/16 04:19 PM

Why when you say to a woman I HATE CARDS AND CARD SHOPS they always think you are joking :/
so when you get a card for your birthday you look at it like what do I do with is what a waste of money
they get upset and they are always saying we should always tell the truth

As her opinion on cards/cardshops matters little
to you I would just throw it in her face..maybe she will
get the point.

And it will free her up for a reciprocal relationship..
one where each recognizes the others needs.

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Tue 12/13/16 04:31 PM
I don't even understand the question. Was there a question?

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Wed 12/14/16 08:41 AM
No question at all.
The point is most woman love them and most men don't !

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/14/16 08:53 AM


Why when you say to a woman I HATE CARDS AND CARD SHOPS they always think you are joking :/
so when you get a card for your birthday you look at it like what do I do with is what a waste of money
they get upset and they are always saying we should always tell the truth

As her opinion on cards/cardshops matters little
to you I would just throw it in her face..maybe she will
get the point.

And it will free her up for a reciprocal relationship..
one where each recognizes the others needs.

Yup...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/14/16 09:01 AM

It is not about the card .. She is expressing something to you ...sure honesty is important ... So is respect and sensitivity .... . Sounds like you two are not a match pitchfork

Yup ...
Always a mystery to me why some men think that being honest equals being rude.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/14/16 09:02 AM

No question at all.
The point is most woman love them and most men don't !


No, the point is most women love them and YOU don't. You are NOT most men.

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Wed 12/14/16 10:39 AM
I love getting cards. Kind of takes away the sting of just getting bills in the mail happy

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Wed 12/14/16 10:56 AM
Why when you say to a woman I HATE CARDS AND CARD SHOPS they always think you are joking

Maybe they just aren't agreeing.

they get upset and they are always saying we should always tell the truth

Big difference in "truth" between:
"I HATE CARDS AND CARD SHOPS" so I will never go in there and spend my money to buy you something. What you do with your own money is your own affair. You may see cards and card shops differently and I should respect that.
vs.
"I HATE CARDS AND CARD SHOPS" and I expect you to adopt my view. At least in your behavior in that you never spend your own money doing something I wouldn't do, like buy cards or go into card shops. And if you behave in a way that disagrees with my opinion about something, then I'm going to tell you that you're wrong.