Topic: putting a ring on it..?
no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:36 PM
Yhea ohh k.. I guess scared is the right term..scared

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:37 PM

I just go moment by moment ... 18 months later still going strong.
..show off...lol

soufiehere's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:38 PM



Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger
hahaha editor :-)
(And4yourinformationIgotawrinklestartingonmyneckthatisstartingtopissmeoff.)
.Ohh.. pish-tosh.. it was probably just the lighting in the room..lol.wink
Okay you..get that ring finger out..

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:40 PM




Because let's face it apart from Blondie and Sofia.. none of us are getting any younger
hahaha editor :-)
(And4yourinformationIgotawrinklestartingonmyneckthatisstartingtopissmeoff.)
.Ohh.. pish-tosh.. it was probably just the lighting in the room..lol.wink
Okay you..get that ring finger out..
..Ohh.k. . But why do I get the feeling you just want to chop it off...lol

no photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:42 PM
Marriage fun... fiddlededee.
Never was I married and never will I marry. I'm pretty much married to my job and myself right now.

no photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:50 PM
i want an interesting ride going to a happy ending and someone who would take that ride with me over and over again till either our car lets up then we just buy a new one:joy:

soufiehere's photo
Tue 10/25/16 04:52 PM


Ohh.k. . But why do I get the feeling you just want to chop it off...lol

The blingy knife?

no1phD's photo
Tue 10/25/16 06:18 PM



My tip of the day ... always size up a man before putting a ring on him otherwise his circulation may be compromised laugh laugh waving
..well.. aren't you just a smarty pants. .lol..love that about you..lol..but come now.. I'm sure all your fans are dying to know..
Are you looking for a ring or just a companion..hmmm.
oh .. Without a doubt ...I want a husband .. One man who belongs to me bigsmile
..like your very own Ken doll..lol.. you can dress him.up..
And..undresse..him...ok.. who are we kidding..he would never be wearing clothes..lol..wink.

inni_dreamz's photo
Tue 10/25/16 06:30 PM
I'm not perfect, so I'm not looking for perfect....it's impossible to find someone that is going to like everything you like, that's why we should be comfortable with compromise. Having different interests and tastes can add flavour to a relationship, plus you never know you might actually like something you thought you didn't.


Well said!!


Candiapples's photo
Tue 10/25/16 08:02 PM
I was married for many years and had no interest in marriage after my divorce. Been divorced 16 yrs now.

Lately I am thinking that it would be so nice to settle down again before I'm too old. But.....at my age its not easy to find that perfect guy for me.

Oneec's photo
Tue 10/25/16 08:18 PM

Yhea ohh k.. I guess scared is the right term..scared


pitchfork

Candiapples's photo
Tue 10/25/16 08:34 PM

If you want a good relationship with a man don't ever ask them for marriage cause it will scare them away lolz...
I would never ask a guy to marry me. I would find out his views on marriage long before we got too serious and decide if I want to stay (if marriage was on my mind that is)

Oneec's photo
Tue 10/25/16 10:19 PM


If you want a good relationship with a man don't ever ask them for marriage cause it will scare them away lolz...
I would never ask a guy to marry me. I would find out his views on marriage long before we got too serious and decide if I want to stay (if marriage was on my mind that is)


Yes... You are darn right miss :smile:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/26/16 04:51 AM

Soo.. it seems as we get older and wiser or expectations become more realistic.... are needs of yesterday are no longer the needs of today..hmm..
Do you think stability and Financial Security play a bigger role in your decision-making

My needs are the same as yesterday's, the only exception being that I don't want children anymore.
Apart from that I still want what I always wanted: love and happiness with a great man.
I believe that a relationship can be a lot deeper -and thus better- when you're older, simply because you're wiser and have more relationship experience under your belt.

TMommy's photo
Wed 10/26/16 05:02 AM
nope nope nope

here is what I want

to graduate, go to work

make sure kids are doing ok

I want a paved driveway and a garage

no more chipping ice off car in the winter

want to pull in and be able to bring groceries right in house

I want to be in town, not the country

I want stuff to work when it is supposed to

that means the roof, windows, garbage disposal, dishwasher

if it doesn't then I want to pick up phone and call someone else to do it

I am not interested in home repairs or ripping down ugly wallpaper

or painting or old ugly carpet so the place better be in good shape

I want my privacy

to de-compress when I get home everyday

I do not want someone calling and pestering me at all hours

I will decide when to pay my bills and how much I send where

I will decide what kind of car I drive

what I am cooking for dinner or if I am going to go out

without needing or asking for anyone's permission


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 10/26/16 05:26 AM

nope nope nope

here is what I want

to graduate, go to work

make sure kids are doing ok

I want a paved driveway and a garage

no more chipping ice off car in the winter

want to pull in and be able to bring groceries right in house

I want to be in town, not the country

I want stuff to work when it is supposed to

that means the roof, windows, garbage disposal, dishwasher

if it doesn't then I want to pick up phone and call someone else to do it

I am not interested in home repairs or ripping down ugly wallpaper

or painting or old ugly carpet so the place better be in good shape

I want my privacy

to de-compress when I get home everyday

I do not want someone calling and pestering me at all hours

I will decide when to pay my bills and how much I send where

I will decide what kind of car I drive

what I am cooking for dinner or if I am going to go out

without needing or asking for anyone's permission



Geezz ((((Trish))))... sounds like you felt real restricted and confined in your relationship...

no photo
Wed 10/26/16 06:08 AM
I'm not looking for a relationship anymore. I can't even seem to get a date. At this point, I'd take companionship and see what the hell happens.

no photo
Wed 10/26/16 07:29 AM

I'm not looking for a relationship anymore. I can't even seem to get a date. At this point, I'd take companionship and see what the hell happens.

like a bodyguard or assistant or a caregiver? :wink:

peggy122's photo
Wed 10/26/16 09:08 AM
I think I want the same thing at this age that I wanted in my 20s , which is that elusive combination of lover and best friend in the man that I marry.

But I know how challenging that is to find, so I would be contented to embark on a journey with someone compatible and special , and enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts :)

Oneec's photo
Wed 10/26/16 09:29 AM


Soo.. it seems as we get older and wiser or expectations become more realistic.... are needs of yesterday are no longer the needs of today..hmm..
Do you think stability and Financial Security play a bigger role in your decision-making

My needs are the same as yesterday's, the only exception being that I don't want children anymore.
Apart from that I still want what I always wanted: love and happiness with a great man.
I believe that a relationship can be a lot deeper -and thus better- when you're older, simply because you're wiser and have more relationship experience under your belt.



:thumbsup: winking