It depends on how powerful the attraction is and if it is mutual. If you feel strongly enough you are happy to move fast. I met and got engaged within a month and married 5 months later - it lasted 21 years so don't think it was a mistake. It was an unstoppable force

Depends what you mean by "accelerate".
If she wants to move in after a few month = turnoff.
If she wants to have sex after a few months = turnoff.
If she wants to dress me up to HER liking anytime = turnoff.
If she start treating me like her hubby aftera few months = turnoff
Basically, if she doesn't consider herself on a trail basis and starts getting pushy about "commitment" then it's turnoff.
Turnoff turnoff turnoff

When you're young you got plenty of time to avoid commitment or just take it slow if that's what you want. Personally at my age I can't be bothered *****-footing around. I'm likely to just say exactly what I want and if he feels the same it's all good. So what if it doesn't work out? Just grab the moment and be happy - and remember to always be honest

is it really possible to fall head over heels in love after a week of non stop chatting only that is in relation to this topic albeit very specific . this goes out to the men pls.

need
honesty
and
commitment
otherwise cause of accident

If the dude, turns-me-on?
I'm with-------->HER [Ms.Janis, RIP] on the topic;}

Janis Joplin - Get it while you can
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ju9yFA1S7K8

Not to me.. But then again love is a deal breaker what I'm looking for.

I've never used nipple clamps.....so perhaps I've still to had a real relationship?!

Nothing is too fast if both want the same. It's a feeling.
When one of partners has "Its not the right time! We must get to know each other better etc" then it can be sign of different feelings.
If my relationships are stuck in the same place for longer then 1 year I am considering them as "without future "
Not so young and naive to waste my time with someone who doesn't make a move...

I like this.

Depends on how they're communicating it.

Some people just go with it, things accelerate quickly, and they're fine with it, and adapt.

Other people just burn through the beginning and then start feeling regret, or unsafe, or insecure, and then start resenting their own behavior and look to blame me for not stopping them, or not being able to provide them the safety net after they start falling after their high.

Other people "go too fast" but pretend they aren't, and they'll say things like so many other people have said before; "omg, I've never felt this way about anyone, omg you're so hot I can't help myself, omg we should just do this I don't care anymore, omg I've never done anything like this it's not like me," or something that sounds like the script that dozens of people have said before, or from a bad t.v. show.
And being a script it follows a certain path and usually certain motives that pushed it into that script/path.
Like they're lonely, it's the weekend, and they want to hurry up to the "good" part of the relationship and rush through the awkward dating stage, and they found someone they think is attractive, and as soon as responsible life starts needing attention it snaps into "oh no, we moved too fast, we need to take it slow."
But it's not really "we moved to fast" so much as "okay, I got what I wanted in the time I wanted it, now I want to put you the toy away."
Only they've rationalized everything and don't see it as such or refuse to see their own behavior as such, turning themselves into the victim of "moving too fast."


So, sometimes I'm put off when things "move too fast" and it conforms to certain scenarios as evidenced by how they're communicating their understanding of what's going on.

I have had 2 women tell me that they love me... without ever actually meeting me. They saw me.. we spoke many times.. but never met.

Was that a turn off... yep.

..well.. you don't know what you're missing..lol..

.. I don't know!!.. I just attract stalkers..
Lol.. and they fall in love on the turn of a dime..lol.. and then for some reason they turn crazy((( crazy)))..lol

No1... shouldn't you be working instead of playing around with them toys again?

.. a fellow needs something to do on his brakes..lol..wink.. besides were just talking about nipple clamps not... Mouse traps..lmao