What normally causes you to break up with others?

Do you wait for the other person to break up with you?

Do you purposely sabotage relationships when you are not feeling it any more?

Sex is what usually causes them to break up with me and I can't say I blame them, I'm so bad I don't even enjoy it.

I call it "no hope".
I normally sabotage the relationship when waiting doesn't work.

I am usually patient with my previous relationship, I stick as long as I know there is love and my better half is willing enough to work out our relationship. But when I feel that my bf is confused with his feeling and is not sure about me, then it's all or nothing......I don't want a half baked relationship , love me completely , when you commit to me do it with all your heart and mind into the relationship, no ifs and buts...... fears and doubts are normal but when I ask you if you really love me or not and you tell me you don't know.......what is that???!!!! Lol! Don't hang me and keep me waiting in vain for you to decide what you want in your life.......if you don't know what you want and not sure of how you feel......then that means you don't love me.....so why would I stay? Find yourself first and know the desires of your heart ......no problem with me, I will immediately give you your freedom I don't want to live in misery thinking if you'll gonna love me tomorrow or not.....make up your mind before you commit to someone.... don't play games with anyone's feelings.

Mmmm well I always let them think they called it quits.
Good for their ego and a small price to pay for unloading them :-)

If I thought someone wanted to end it with me, I would be long gone
already..so no, I would not wait for them to break the news.

Of course I would sabotage it if it needs doing :-)

My current relationship is falling apart,
and it's because of the lies and false promises.



What I don't understand us why get into a relationship if you can't be honest yo the one you supposedly love?

no , de hecho no lo espero, pero si ella toma la desicion de hacerlo , como evitarlo?

Y creo que no tiene sentido sabotear la relación.

basta con decir que simplemente no la amas mas ...

I hope you meant to be funny!

this...

Funny stupid guy story....

A past girlfriend told me she NEVER breaks up with guys. They always break it off with her. I was thinking, that's cool, I get to decide if and when we are done. After a while she started acting totally crazy and doing really irritating stuff. I just couldn't take it any more. So I broke up with her. A few weeks later, I realized she decided she was done with me and sabotaged the relationship. I always thought that she was crazy for doing that. But, apparently it's at least somewhat normal.

Isn't this taught in the movie "How to lose a guy in 10 days"???

I would say they are crazy if they feel they need to sabotage a relationship instead of just talking and ending it like an adult. Why can't "She" end the relationship? Sounds crazy to me.

For myself it is when the other person has put so much stress on you that you eventually snap and then for myself there is no coming back. I like to believe I have a deep snapping point but when it comes to that moment when the stress overcomes me I make the break.If someone truly loves you they know when to back off and let you breath.

I don't easily pull the plug out of a relationship, but if need be I do. Have done so with both my LTR.
When I do, I've given it more than its fair chance, gone farther than most would've gone. Meaning by the time I decide I want to end it, there's no way back. Ever.
And yes, I do break the news. If I want it to end, I want it to end, sooner rather than later. So I won't play games and sabotage it or them.

Thank You Blondie

When she stops giving me road head.

boredom

No, unfortunately I wish it was a joke but the sad fact is it's the truth.

gosh, your comments made me look at your profile..
I must say, you have a very negative style (your worded profile), to which most would not be attracted to, but if I chose to send you a (friendly) message, your filters only allow from 31 - 44 or something. you are limiting your friend zone?

I liar..I would break up with a liar.

I seem to always be the one that ends the relationship. The last two I ended because the men were playing games regarding phoning... I can't be with someone who I can't be myself with.