Topic: Does anyone here have an interest...
mightymoe's photo
Fri 05/27/16 06:15 PM

MightyMoe: I totally agree with you.. but if your a person who doesn't go out much plus I live in a small country town it is harder to meet face to face.

I think many people won't contact others because they feel they aren't good enough or there is the rejection factor.


i've been in sales to long to worry about rejection... nobody ever bats 1000... most women(that are worth the effort) are going to reject the first few times anyway, it's the keep trying part they like...

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Fri 05/27/16 06:19 PM
I for one would give up if I was rejected the first time as I would feel I would be a nuisance if I kept trying.. It's a fine line.

I read on a profile sometime ago.. If you don't ask the answer is always no!

mightymoe's photo
Fri 05/27/16 06:32 PM

I for one would give up if I was rejected the first time as I would feel I would be a nuisance if I kept trying.. It's a fine line.

I read on a profile sometime ago.. If you don't ask the answer is always no!


lol, very true, about the asking... but you should at least keep going till they either block you or report you to the mods... then it might be time to put your focus on the next women in line...

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Fri 05/27/16 06:34 PM

MightyMoe: I totally agree with you.. but if your a person who doesn't go out much plus I live in a small country town it is harder to meet face to face.

I think many people won't contact others because they feel they aren't good enough or there is the rejection factor.
rejection sux!
And just so nobody feels rejected by me...I really don't answer emails because I find it pointless at this time to start anything unless of course it's from a woman about juicy forum gossip hehe ! Juuuuuuust keeeeeeding :tongue:

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Fri 05/27/16 06:51 PM
hi, trust on me..and chat plz

brishi534's photo
Fri 05/27/16 06:53 PM
hi, plz take a chance with me, you will got true satisfaction, trust me and chat please.

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Fri 05/27/16 07:10 PM


Yeah, I take that chance sometimes. I always get rejected.



(((catinidaho)))
What do you mean you always get rejected?
You mean the ba#tards didn't answer your emails?
How many did you send?
What?
Too nosy?

wanna watch "Hachi: A Dog's Tale" and cry our eyes out?
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I haven't rejected catinidaho. Then again, she doesn't write to me. indifferent

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Fri 05/27/16 07:11 PM


MightyMoe: I totally agree with you.. but if your a person who doesn't go out much plus I live in a small country town it is harder to meet face to face.

I think many people won't contact others because they feel they aren't good enough or there is the rejection factor.


i've been in sales to long to worry about rejection... nobody ever bats 1000... most women(that are worth the effort) are going to reject the first few times anyway, it's the keep trying part they like...

ha, ha,... persistence pays off?

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 05/27/16 07:11 PM

hi, plz take a chance with me, you will got true satisfaction, trust me and chat please.


brishi534, calm down. Here is plenty of chat for you.


mightymoe's photo
Fri 05/27/16 07:25 PM



Yeah, I take that chance sometimes. I always get rejected.



(((catinidaho)))
What do you mean you always get rejected?
You mean the ba#tards didn't answer your emails?
How many did you send?
What?
Too nosy?

wanna watch "Hachi: A Dog's Tale" and cry our eyes out?
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I haven't rejected catinidaho. Then again, she doesn't write to me. indifferent


lol, she thinks i'm an ahole... so, she hasn't been rejected by everyone...yet

mightymoe's photo
Fri 05/27/16 07:26 PM



MightyMoe: I totally agree with you.. but if your a person who doesn't go out much plus I live in a small country town it is harder to meet face to face.

I think many people won't contact others because they feel they aren't good enough or there is the rejection factor.


i've been in sales to long to worry about rejection... nobody ever bats 1000... most women(that are worth the effort) are going to reject the first few times anyway, it's the keep trying part they like...

ha, ha,... persistence pays off?


never know if we don't try, right? try and try again, the first no is always meaningless, unless they block ya right away...ohwell

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Fri 05/27/16 07:33 PM
I like catinidaho, I've read her profile but I don't meet her criteria. I can't believe guys rejecting her unless it's the small town thing.. anyway, I think she's nice.

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Sat 05/28/16 03:08 AM
If you're talking about the forums (I don't check anyone outside of that) ... yes, there are a couple that interest me.

And no, I don't approach them, because I don't think they have interest in me. I mean, they know me from the forums, should have a pretty good idea of what I'm like, I'm pretty much open. So had the interest been mutual, I suppose they would've made it clear, even if it was just in the forums with their reactions, flirty li'l things.

Apart from that I don't actively look for anyone here (outside of the forums) because most live in the USA. Not easy to say "Hey, let's go grab a cup of coffee and see how things go!"


Newuwood's photo
Sat 05/28/16 03:14 AM
dont ever fear...fear stunts you...and prevents the expansion of an ever growing life...live with no regrets but not carelessly.

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Sat 05/28/16 05:42 AM
Nah. there is no one I am afraid to approach if I like them.

Maybe it's because my expectations are low.

I never assume that everyone will like me or want me , so the idea of rejection from a stranger doesn't bother me all that much laugh

mightymoe's photo
Sat 05/28/16 06:07 AM

If you're talking about the forums (I don't check anyone outside of that) ... yes, there are a couple that interest me.

And no, I don't approach them, because I don't think they have interest in me. I mean, they know me from the forums, should have a pretty good idea of what I'm like, I'm pretty much open. So had the interest been mutual, I suppose they would've made it clear, even if it was just in the forums with their reactions, flirty li'l things.

Apart from that I don't actively look for anyone here (outside of the forums) because most live in the USA. Not easy to say "Hey, let's go grab a cup of coffee and see how things go!"




well, you could have, you were just here...:wink:

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Sat 05/28/16 06:10 AM

In someone on Mingle but is too afraid to approach that one?
I mean a potential mate interest..not sexual.

Disclaimer: In no way, shape or form has this got anything to do with me personally blushing


I have sent messages out but not all have been to someone I would consider a potential mate.. sometimes it is just I like something they said in their profile.. but even to those that I take an interest in... if they don't respond back.. I take it they are not interested and move on...
People face rejection every day in life... this is no different..
By the way I like your disclaimer...lol

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Sat 05/28/16 07:08 AM
hi

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 05/28/16 07:22 AM


If you're talking about the forums (I don't check anyone outside of that) ... yes, there are a couple that interest me.

And no, I don't approach them, because I don't think they have interest in me. I mean, they know me from the forums, should have a pretty good idea of what I'm like, I'm pretty much open. So had the interest been mutual, I suppose they would've made it clear, even if it was just in the forums with their reactions, flirty li'l things.

Apart from that I don't actively look for anyone here (outside of the forums) because most live in the USA. Not easy to say "Hey, let's go grab a cup of coffee and see how things go!"




well, you could have, you were just here...:wink:

Yeah indeed ...
You could've picked me up for a drink, lol. Okay, I was pressed for time, haha, had to get the connecting flight, but on the way back, I had three and a half bleedin' hours to kill!

mightymoe's photo
Sat 05/28/16 07:24 AM



If you're talking about the forums (I don't check anyone outside of that) ... yes, there are a couple that interest me.

And no, I don't approach them, because I don't think they have interest in me. I mean, they know me from the forums, should have a pretty good idea of what I'm like, I'm pretty much open. So had the interest been mutual, I suppose they would've made it clear, even if it was just in the forums with their reactions, flirty li'l things.

Apart from that I don't actively look for anyone here (outside of the forums) because most live in the USA. Not easy to say "Hey, let's go grab a cup of coffee and see how things go!"




well, you could have, you were just here...:wink:

Yeah indeed ...
You could've picked me up for a drink, lol. Okay, I was pressed for time, haha, had to get the connecting flight, but on the way back, I had three and a half bleedin' hours to kill!


and i'm just now hearing that part? ... :wink: laugh i would have, but the beers would have been chilled...