Well in my honest opinion,

Talking with a man is like talking to a bag of Hammers.. Most guys just want to eat,boink,watch TV and then take a nap, not necessarily in that order..

That could lead to forming an opinion when such a high percentage of experiences lead to that conclusion that "It's his fault"

So all others will work on making her happy by blaming him...not fair

...it is the blaming part by all people not just fight

Bro you have settled with your feelings...I can understand being blamed so many times guys normally settle with it

Just to keep her happy, why to take all the blame...we men too have voice and heart

Lot of women feel that way too. In that sense it's a surprise nobody's started a "Why do women always get blamed?" topic yet (okay, I haven't checked, I was watching a series, so maybe it is there by now).

All that blaming and pointing fingers is not getting you anywhere, it's what kids do. Take a good look at whatever happened when your not emotional anymore, take responsibility for your part in it, and work it out with your partner. And if you can't see eye to eye, well, then you're prolly not right for each other.

God created man just like that, in order to function & produce... blood has to leave the head

Right or Wrong....we guys always are to blame....thats why we get to be Saints......how many women saints come to mind, when we talk saints...just saying...

I don't settle for taking blame when I'm not wrong.. I can admit my faults when needed, it may take me a bit but I always try to remain right size,,, The great I AM days are long gone.. But thanks for your assumptions..

I have never seen anyone blaming the women (except from the partner), it is always the guy who gets the blame. He was not good, he can`t handle her, etc etc...even when she cut loose it is guys fault, she can`t take the blame so guy has to say its me..Poor guy

Well blood also needs to reach the other head to make wise decisions..anyway nice one

Thats true..they will again find a way to blame it on guys..woman saints

This is like ....if a tree falls in the forest and no-one is around to hear it, is the man still wrong?
lol...Saw that posted somewhere over the years.

I agree this post is silly. The battle of the sexes has always been fun. But it is the ying and the yang. The sweet and the sour. The true the false. The one and the zero. The alpha and the omega. One side will always blame the other.

You know what? We forget what makes us human. That's why I used humor in this post. Ugg is the primal human trying to understand. All human beings are 50% female and 50% male. All you macho men and you women libbers. 50/50, you must agree. Even if it makes you angry. You must agree.

This is why men and women fight the battle of the sexes. So staunchly defending each side, not noticing that the battle is really a struggle within ourselves. Well that's all the time we have. Hope I've given you food for thought.

Well said!

I get the feeling that many of your friends are women jimmy . If you share the story of a couple's break up with your women friends, they are likely to defend the woman in the relationship .If you share the same story with your male friends, the majority of them are likely to defend the man in the relationship. I dont agree with the bias of it all , but people generally have a blind loyalty to the gender they belong to when it comes to debates like this. It is just how the world works

Yup, and then there are always the users...who will side with the opposite sex, if they see a chance of making in-roads and gaining mutual benefits ....just saying...you can call em what you want, I call em ...losers....

I say talk about the issue at hand, Pretend you are a Judge. You are sitting on the bench... The case is presented..

Hear the "Facts" of the case..

"He is never home,he is always out with his friends" out playing cards with his friends 3 nights a week.. he comes in drunk smelling like beer making noise etc...

Now he is entitled to go out have fun, but does he consider her? Is he wrong?
What would his friends say about his situation? He himself knows..

Sometimes he get really buzzed, and would like to knock her bottom out..
Now she been sitting watching Real Housewives of Atlanta.. It's her favorite show's... What is she supposed to do? Assume the position? NO! take your drunk butt to bed...
But It's his wife she is supposed to be there for him.. It's only a couple nights a week.. Sometimes he is hungry when he comes home.. The guys only have chips and snacks.. Besides all she does is sit there and watch TV.. he says "We haven't even BEEN together" (Ya know BOOM Boom's)

Each player can make their own assessment of the situation..


Does he need 3 nights a weeks?
Can they make Date night?
Can she record ROA? and watch it when he is playing cards?

It's all a matter of those individuals, are they willing to look at their own part in that situation, Usually there are several issues and it is not so easy.. so rather do the work or let these issues continue to fester and accumulate the easy thing is to say "she is a *****" or whatever her fav name for him is..

"GOOD LUCK"

I say talk about the issue at hand, Pretend you are a Judge. You are sitting on the bench... The case is presented..

Hear the "Facts" of the case..

"He is never home,he is always out with his friends" out playing cards with his friends 3 nights a week.. he comes in drunk smelling like beer making noise etc...

Now he is entitled to go out have fun, but does he consider her? Is he wrong?
What would his friends say about his situation? He himself knows..

Sometimes he get really buzzed, and would like to knock her bottom out..
Now she been sitting watching Real Housewives of Atlanta.. It's her favorite show's... What is she supposed to do? Assume the position? NO! take your drunk butt to bed...
But It's his wife she is supposed to be there for him.. It's only a couple nights a week.. Sometimes he is hungry when he comes home.. The guys only have chips and snacks.. Besides all she does is sit there and watch TV.. he says "We haven't even BEEN together" (Ya know BOOM Boom's)

Each player can make their own assessment of the situation..


Does he need 3 nights a weeks?
Can they make Date night?
Can she record ROA? and watch it when he is playing cards?

It's all a matter of those individuals, are they willing to look at their own part in that situation, Usually there are several issues and it is not so easy.. so rather do the work or let these issues continue to fester and accumulate the easy thing is to say "she is a *****" or whatever her fav name for him is..

"GOOD LUCK"

I think you listen/read very selectively ...
I believe you are a nice guy, but as long as you don't get a more mature and broader understanding, you will likely keep suffering in relationships. With your attitude you are prone to attract women with a similar attitude or women who will confirm your skewed views, making you even more convinced you are right. You are creating your own perpetual negative spiral ...
You can go on reveling in your sob story, or break out of the cycle, so you will also become happier in relationships.
Don't mean that in a harsh way, but you put your foot in a hole you dug yourself, and you're the only one who can pull it out so you can happily walk on your path again.

Partially agree ... we're not all 50% female and 50% male... like Yin doesn't hold 50% Yang and Yang doesn't hold 50% Yin.
I also don't believe we are fighting a battle of the sexes. We are simply working on finding a new balance, both in society and as individuals.
Possibly some people see it as a fight, those are usually not the ones that are doing well with this entire global process that's going on ...
It's not just a process within ourselves. You cannot disconnect society & individual as an individual is always part of a society and thus influenced by it. Even -maybe esp- the ones who rebel against it.
For some it may work from the inside out, for others from the outside in, but it's likely a combination of the two.