I met a guy last Feb '15, We had real spark, I had feelings, we met, had intimate moment couple of times, but then suddenly he was no where.
He used to say he is so busy to text me call me, I know these were lame excuses, then at the end, I broke up with him by saying he is not serious enough. and after that he never called back.

We live in same city, and I saw him 2 weeks ago in a mall. He was looking at me, I nod him, he nod me back but we didn't talk. And I am fighting with myself 'should I text him or not'. I don't know he has girl friend or not, or what he is doing actually. When we used to go out, he always make me fool by lying and I used to trust every word.

I still have the feelings for him. What should I do? It's driving me crazy!!! :(

man already has your number

it is my belief that if a man is interested
and wants to talk to you

he will do so

Isn't the answer quite obvious?

The nods that you shared should be enough to say....he wasn't that into you, otherwise I'm sure he would have spoke to you.

Yes thanks everyone. I got it. :(

im agree to scoobert. and you already know that he lied you so much and fooled you then may be he can do again. but you can try to give him last chance but love him if he is really love you otherwise it will be attraction for him to live with you. no love. listen all things but do what your heart wants you to do. take care of you. xoxo. my friend . have a great day ! inshallah you will be guided by god.

I would give it one last chance. That is just my feeling of what I would do.

Don't text the guy. He should not have ended it like that. And it will never get any better.

^ Are you sure? I thought he wanted her to have his babies...

So let's see...

And then


So

Be honest with yourself and what you really want?
I don't think you're stupid or crazy.
You know what will happen if you contact him again.

So what is it you are really asking for?
Permission to get laid?
A pat on the back from a support group?
Validation that you're good and he's bad, or your moral superiority?
A replacement parental figure to set rules for you that you can either adhere to and feel like you're a good girl? Or to rebel against so you can feel titillated and naughty?

You broke up with him for good reason, so unless you want more of the same in a relationship you do need to look elsewhere, and stay well away from him. You saw each other in the Shopping Mall recently where you were both pleasant by acknowledging, that's good, but you would be wise to leave it like that in my opinion.

Too busy to text. What like 20 seconds to say 'hello, busy now but I'll be in touch.

Yeah right. I smell a rat and maybe he has something else going on.

i just always keep wondering why good things happen to those who dont deserve them.....it hurts to be here struggling to find a soulmate yet others are just playing around

Which is yours
That will be yours always
If that will not be yours
Means........
That was never yours
I believe in this.....

Hi Ciretom
Thanks for the reply. You talk like a MOM. :)

you have point though. Some are reasonable and some are hilarious.
Anyway, I was just confused. Battling with my right brain with left brain you can say that.

But now I got it what I want. Thanks for psychiatric dose. :)

Your words are very soothing. Thank you. :) Appreciated.

Honey let me put it this way....you were a booty call.

Wether you choose to text him or not is up to you, but it won't change anything....good luck tho

Well, sometimes people are like that and they mess you about but it doesn't necessarily mean that he's not that into you, or would always be like that. A lot of relationships start off casual, with infidelities and "white lies" about stuff that didn't matter when you weren't in a serious relationship but would upset you now.

Did you tell him before that you have feelings for him? Maybe he thinks that he's little more than a booty call to you. Some men like a woman to show that they're really interested in them. Sometimes they can even lie because they think that they have to to impress you, or hide things that they're insecure about.

It's impossible for us to know more about this guy than you do and we can't say what will happen if you text him. We can't know why he made excuses before. It could have been anything. Maybe he was scared. Maybe he had stuff going on and just couldn't deal with anything else at the time. It's not great if you're not honest with each other though and to a certain extent I have to agree with these other posters. Ask yourself what it is that you like about this guy and if you really want more of it. If you're going to talk to him again then tell him how you feel. He could aproach you but probably doesn't feel like he can. He may feel ashamed and that if he apologised for messing you about that you would just tell him to get lost and it only took a few people on the internet to change your atitude to that, so, his not talking to you is understandable maybe...

Yeah text him again OP'.. I'm sure he'll be more than happy to come over and be intimate with you again and then ignore you all over again.. but hey! at least you will both have gotten something out of it.. I hope ! he is good in Bed right!? Oh God !! tell us he's at least good in bed please lol

Lmao that is the only reason I would think to text someone that totally ignores me... any other time...

Shshsh this is one of those times they say no answer is a answer.. He was using you for a booty call! So unless ya just want sex I would delete that number and move on.... And if you just want sex at least make it with one that is awesome in bed...