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For the sake of argument, here's another scenario:
Same story but those two dates were the most romantic nights of her life. Maybe they didn't even have sex. He's actually working for the CIA and is involved in some serious stuff that he wants to keep her out of and he can't make any longterm commitments because of the nature of his job as a secret agent. I bet that I could take OP's story as the basis for a script for a romantic movie starring Hugh Grant as "the heel" and they would get married at the end and all the women here would be complaining that there should be more men like that. |
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Yeah text him again OP'.. I'm sure he'll be more than happy to come over and be intimate with you again and then ignore you all over again..  but hey! at least you will both have gotten something out of it.. I hope ! he is good in Bed right!? Oh God !! tell us he's at least good in bed please lol 
Lmao that is the only reason I would think to text someone that totally ignores me... any other time... Shshsh this is one of those times they say no answer is a answer.. He was using you for a booty call! So unless ya just want sex I would delete that number and move on....  And if you just want sex at least make it with one that is awesome in bed...
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If you feel a need to talk to him about it, maybe text him. It will be the only way you can know for sure, about what he wanted from you. Otherwise you'll just be doing what you do every day, by wondering. However, I think he knew what he was doing. You don't have to be all angry when talking to him. It's better to remain diplomatic. Politeness pays off way more than any shouting contest.
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Op.. don't listen to her^^ she's off her rocker lol let's see how Polite you are now?
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If you feel a need to talk to him about it, maybe text him. It will be the only way you can know for sure, about what he wanted from you. Otherwise you'll just be doing what you do every day, by wondering. However, I think he knew what he was doing. You don't have to be all angry when talking to him. It's better to remain diplomatic. Politeness pays off way more than any shouting contest. sorry but I completely disagree with this, even if you 'feel the need to talk' it doesn't matter, he's not interested in your feelings, if he was, he would have said something to you at the mall. You said he ignores you, etc. You were a booty call, so honestly if that is all you want from him..sure text him...at midnight with a one-liner "come over" but if you want more than that, probably not going to get it.....and if you start texting him about how you feel etc...your number will most likely be blocked |
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I met a guy last Feb '15, We had real spark, I had feelings, we met, had intimate moment couple of times, but then suddenly he was no where. He used to say he is so busy to text me call me, I know these were lame excuses, then at the end, I broke up with him by saying he is not serious enough. and after that he never called back. We live in same city, and I saw him 2 weeks ago in a mall. He was looking at me, I nod him, he nod me back but we didn't talk. And I am fighting with myself 'should I text him or not'. I don't know he has girl friend or not, or what he is doing actually. When we used to go out, he always make me fool by lying and I used to trust every word. I still have the feelings for him. What should I do? It's driving me crazy!!! :( hmm... you break up with him because he wasn't serious enough, then want him back 2 weeks later? sounds like he got the better deal when you broke up... quit being crazy |
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Hes not interested
Move on to someone who is Don't give him any more of your time When you see him don't tell him show him what he missing out on. Strut your stuff, girl 
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Hes not interested Move on to someone who is Don't give him any more of your time When you see him don't tell him show him what he missing out on. Strut your stuff, girl
I wish more women understood these signals and saved themselves some pride. 
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Hes not interested Move on to someone who is Don't give him any more of your time When you see him don't tell him show him what he missing out on. Strut your stuff, girl
I wish more women understood these signals and saved themselves some pride.
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Hes not interested Move on to someone who is Don't give him any more of your time When you see him don't tell him show him what he missing out on. Strut your stuff, girl
I wish more women understood these signals and saved themselves some pride.
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Wed 08/05/15 02:01 PM
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I met a guy last Feb '15, We had real spark, I had feelings, we met, had intimate moment couple of times, but then suddenly he was no where. He used to say he is so busy to text me call me, I know these were lame excuses, then at the end, I broke up with him by saying he is not serious enough. and after that he never called back. We live in same city, and I saw him 2 weeks ago in a mall. He was looking at me, I nod him, he nod me back but we didn't talk. And I am fighting with myself 'should I text him or not'. I don't know he has girl friend or not, or what he is doing actually. When we used to go out, he always make me fool by lying and I used to trust every word. I still have the feelings for him. What should I do? It's driving me crazy!!! :( I actually think he was doing the nice thing....by not talking to you....let me explain. you felt a 'spark' he saw an 'opportunity' he got what he wanted 'intimate moments' given how quickly he got he probably assumed you wanted the same "intimate moments' He may not have realized you were after something serious until you broke it off. it sounds like he respected your decision and stopped calling knowing you both were after different things... now he could have lied to you, said he was serious, and that he was falling for you, and led you on so he could keep his booty call.. but he didn't |
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Infact you should delete his contact.
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Once the "busy" starts appearing along with spotty contact,it's a wrap. Funny that when they are chasing you they are never too busy. Text to say hi maybe but this sounds to me like his actions have already spoken
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Once the "busy" starts appearing along with spotty contact,it's a wrap. Funny that when they are chasing you they are never too busy. Text to say hi maybe but this sounds to me like his actions have already spoken
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