If you were talking about me, I'm still being pestered. Today her X husband decided to jump in and send me an email asking that I reconsider my decision to end it with his X wife. I was floored. I shot him back an email and told him it was over between her and I. And if all this stalking didn't stop I am getting a lawyer and getting the courts involved. Somebody it going to jail. So far, no more emails and no more calls. At least today. So far today I have had 6 hang up calls. I know it's her. I know the different sounds around her house.

This is why I started this thread. There are many people, men, and women that are putting up with crap like this from someone they had to end it with. As long as no one is getting hurt the cops will not get involved. They see it as a domestic dispute. As long as no one is threatening bodily harm, the cops do nothing. All I'm left with is getting a lawyer if I have to. Maybe get her served. And if she is crazy enough, that might not do any good either.

yes, i was talking about you.

what kind of a maniac situation is that?!! the ex husbands normally get involved to say keep away from my ex wife (which is not normal either) but this is beyond all craziness. he is asking you not to finish with her!
Charles, these are all very crazy okay, but makes me think sth a lot different may come after. they may ask you some money or try to show u as u were involved in sth very extraordinary or illegal. behave urself. and really get a lawyer. all sounds extremely crazy and weird.

Me, I keep thinking that there is either 50 year guy who smells really bad smoking a 3 cent cigar or a 17 year old high school boy on the other end. Both looking to scam me for money. So I just message through this site. When I get a face to face then I will see about giving outa phone number. As noted even if as advertised there are lots of crazy's out there.

I don't care much for telephones any way. I do like my computer.

I am a Male. Really. Trust me.

This is the kind of crap I run into most of the time. I really think I attract crazy. Or, there is something about me that causes them to go nuts. When I first met this woman she was great. She treated me better than any woman I've ever known. It was the best 8 months of my life.

Then all at once she goes nutty and kicks me out and marries another man two weeks later. It gets worse. Of course, I stopped having anything to do with her. The next thing I know within a month or two she is wanting a divorce and me back. I told her to forget it. It ain't happening. I'm moving on. And it's been one h.e.l.l after the other for the past 2 years.

Yes! I said 2 years. You never know who you are getting involved with. All this drama I can live without. But as long as no one is trying to hurt anyone, the cops hands are pretty much tied. As of three days ago, I had to hire a lawyer. I had to get another restraining order against her.

Restraining orders will, in cases like this, will only stand for 90 days. When this order finally dies I will have to get another. But in between time, before I can get another one, I have to prove she is bothering me. I have to record the phone calls. I have to take pictures of her either passing by my house or pulling up in my driveway. She even sits up above my house at a church and watches me through spy glasses. This has been a nightmare for 2 years. And it all started by giving up my cell phone number.

I'll never understand how someone can seem so normal for 8 months. And then just get nutty all at once.

OMG! the story started long time ago.. i was thinking it was the story of the last few months.. 2 years + the previous 8 months.. what a nightmare!..
i had a serious(ish) problem for about 2 months - not as serious as yours. actually may even not count as a problem when compared to yours.. and even that small one put my psychology upside down badly. so i can hardly imagine how your psychology has gone down while all these were happening..

have you asked someone to investigate about her? maybe any illegal guilts in the past, or any mental problems?

can a person turn in to a very dangerous psycho from a very great person?..
Me and my closest friend have been discussing thin the last couple of years). her opinion was: people do not change that much, especially after an age as the personality is settled. but they can hide the real them for a while. they show their normal sides. maybe they give battles deep inside them to show themselves normal but at the end, sooner or later the explosion comes. and then there is the real them there.

my opinion: real psychos are REALLY very good about hiding their disorders. they even can show themselves as the most genuine person you have ever met. but still the real them will take the control eventually..

As to giving out your cell phone number,
I saw a couple of good responses !!
But I give mine out, because it's the fastest
Way to trip up scammers !! You can always
Block or delete them !! If they give you
An Ohio phone exchange , and they are from
Flemming Island on ther Profile, LOLZ !!
BUSTED !!

my keyboard again messed up with my message up there. my cursor is cursed :(

I won't transition to phone after one message.

I am very reluctant to give out my number, and never have. A lot of men will say after a couple of brief messages, here's my number to text me. I just joined and "I'm not on here much" or "I won't be here much longer". It doesn't sound like they are very serious to take time to find a good relationship. I never call those people. Good things don't come quickly.

Agree with you there, Cat!

Sounds like teen queen stuff.

As I said, if you weren't residing under a rock or in a cave during the 70s that drink the waitress brought to your table free of charge, usually came with a c0cktail napkin with a phone number and name scrawled on it.

I would expect the paranoia from kids, but from grown women, it's kind of pathetic.

Charles' situation is quite different
the woman knows many other things addition to the cell number
even the home address and after 8 months of course a lot of contact details and etc.

with just a cell number.. i see no problem with giving it. as i have mentioned at my previous posts, it helps a lot sometimes. of course i am not saying that give it out to every person who wants it, but all the people here sound matured and wise enough to decide who is worth taking a step for or not.

if u are so worried about giving the current cell phone number out, get a spare number just to use for the site - as i see many people are here for so long and a bit of communication acceleration wont harm :)

I like to call the man or him call me to make sure he a real person and not a scammer

I see nothing wrong with giving your cell number out after a few messages sometimes if u feel like u made a connection with someone and u want to give them your number to maybe text for a while cause u dont wanna be online all the time. The worse that can happen is that person is crazy block them on the other hand you could find a wonderful person. There's lots of ways of talking to someone without giving them your personal info.

add me

Yea, I am saying No, been asked for number multiple times, Plus given numbers and I reverse look them up and they are not n area they claim to be in. Seems like a lot of phonys on this site, what the hell for what is it they hope to gain?

Scoobert 34, what is a VOIP?

What do these pony people hope to gain, the ones trying to get your number, or people who say they are some place but the number checks out, what are they hoping for, Free phone sex?
Are folks really that desperate? Is there a way to milk you out of what little money you have or what? I JUST DONT GET THE MOTIATION VERY FRUSTRATING

Also a bit off cell phone number giving out why is it every guy that is emailing me 5 ft 7 lol, what is the odds of that? I don't know very many men 5 ft 7 here in states, forgive me if you are that's fine, just I swear Ive gotten 30 emails from 5ft7 and all Catholic by the way. Is this same person using others pictures or what? Are there really that many 5ft 7 men out there?

I like turtles.