Topic: The sound of your voice
PacificStar48's photo
Wed 05/20/15 08:34 AM


rofl
Oh Sweetheart, may I tell the story about our first phone call?
Please, please, please.

OH GAWD this is something we will laugh about til the day we die...laugh

I have a very pronounced drawl,we had moved to the phone stage.. So I figure I will make the call and he can get my number from cell would save time instead of sending my number back..Thinking in the back of my mind how my drawl puts some people a bit off...

Well Pancho answers the phone and I hear this deep sexy canadian voice say hello... I am thinking yum...

I say hey Pancho... this is Rains..
dead silence.. I mean dead silence to the point I am thinking dang did I drop the call...

Then I hear this timid voice Hallo????

I am like Yes this is Rains...

He is definitely not what I thought after about 2 minutes of strained conversation I can tell this man wants off the phone.

I am thinking WTH.. he wanted me to call and what is his problem.
I honestly didn't think we were going to go any farther.

Hesitantly I hear " boy you don't sound like I thought you would"..

I am like whatever.. the dude doesnt' like drawls okay fine what ever...
That call ended rather quickly...



Then a few days later we try this again...
As we are chatting Mr. Pancho blurts out
Oh lordy I am so glad you dont' sound like you did the first time...
He goes onto to tell me "you had me scared the first time around..

It took me a moment the Man thought I was a drag queen in the beginning.I laughed so hard I was crying laugh

I had had a bad cold... My voice was really deep and well gravelly...
I was breathing heavily and to make matters even worse where I had to make the call was outside on one spot of my deck the only cell coverage.So on top of being sick as a dog, I was freezing the damn rooster from a neighbor was crowing his head off.. That is why I use my Landline at home.

So yeah... we laugh about this today... my poor guy thought he had been duped by a southern drag queen...laugh

Nope just little ole me with a horrible chest cold...

Voices do mean alot to me I love to hear the inflections of someone...
The richness their laughter, the sighs, all of it is important to me.






Tooooo funny. Suppose would be similar for me. People see California but hear southern country accent. LOL maybe I should throw a little more Ya'all's in when I type.

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/20/15 08:39 AM
I don't have a deep voice but I try every once in a while.
snicker just to keep him on his toes

Goofball73's photo
Wed 05/20/15 10:47 AM
No one knows what Goof sounds like......muwhahahahahahahahaha!

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Wed 05/20/15 11:22 AM


rofl
Oh Sweetheart, may I tell the story about our first phone call?
Please, please, please.

OH GAWD this is something we will laugh about til the day we die...laugh

I have a very pronounced drawl,we had moved to the phone stage.. So I figure I will make the call and he can get my number from cell would save time instead of sending my number back..Thinking in the back of my mind how my drawl puts some people a bit off...

Well Pancho answers the phone and I hear this deep sexy canadian voice say hello... I am thinking yum...

I say hey Pancho... this is Rains..
dead silence.. I mean dead silence to the point I am thinking dang did I drop the call...

Then I hear this timid voice Hallo????

I am like Yes this is Rains...

He is definitely not what I thought after about 2 minutes of strained conversation I can tell this man wants off the phone.

I am thinking WTH.. he wanted me to call and what is his problem.
I honestly didn't think we were going to go any farther.

Hesitantly I hear " boy you don't sound like I thought you would"..

I am like whatever.. the dude doesnt' like drawls okay fine what ever...
That call ended rather quickly...



Then a few days later we try this again...
As we are chatting Mr. Pancho blurts out
Oh lordy I am so glad you dont' sound like you did the first time...
He goes onto to tell me "you had me scared the first time around..

It took me a moment the Man thought I was a drag queen in the beginning.I laughed so hard I was crying laugh

I had had a bad cold... My voice was really deep and well gravelly...
I was breathing heavily and to make matters even worse where I had to make the call was outside on one spot of my deck the only cell coverage.So on top of being sick as a dog, I was freezing the damn rooster from a neighbor was crowing his head off.. That is why I use my Landline at home.

So yeah... we laugh about this today... my poor guy thought he had been duped by a southern drag queen...laugh

Nope just little ole me with a horrible chest cold...

Voices do mean alot to me I love to hear the inflections of someone...
The richness their laughter, the sighs, all of it is important to me.



tongue2 cute story

I can just imagine pancho's reaction the first time around :laughing:

MelMaxx's photo
Wed 05/20/15 11:30 AM


rofl
Oh Sweetheart, may I tell the story about our first phone call?
Please, please, please.

OH GAWD this is something we will laugh about til the day we die...laugh

I have a very pronounced drawl,we had moved to the phone stage.. So I figure I will make the call and he can get my number from cell would save time instead of sending my number back..Thinking in the back of my mind how my drawl puts some people a bit off...

Well Pancho answers the phone and I hear this deep sexy canadian voice say hello... I am thinking yum...

I say hey Pancho... this is Rains..
dead silence.. I mean dead silence to the point I am thinking dang did I drop the call...

Then I hear this timid voice Hallo????

I am like Yes this is Rains...

He is definitely not what I thought after about 2 minutes of strained conversation I can tell this man wants off the phone.

I am thinking WTH.. he wanted me to call and what is his problem.
I honestly didn't think we were going to go any farther.

Hesitantly I hear " boy you don't sound like I thought you would"..

I am like whatever.. the dude doesnt' like drawls okay fine what ever...
That call ended rather quickly...



Then a few days later we try this again...
As we are chatting Mr. Pancho blurts out
Oh lordy I am so glad you dont' sound like you did the first time...
He goes onto to tell me "you had me scared the first time around..

It took me a moment the Man thought I was a drag queen in the beginning.I laughed so hard I was crying laugh

I had had a bad cold... My voice was really deep and well gravelly...
I was breathing heavily and to make matters even worse where I had to make the call was outside on one spot of my deck the only cell coverage.So on top of being sick as a dog, I was freezing the damn rooster from a neighbor was crowing his head off.. That is why I use my Landline at home.

So yeah... we laugh about this today... my poor guy thought he had been duped by a southern drag queen...laugh

Nope just little ole me with a horrible chest cold...

Voices do mean alot to me I love to hear the inflections of someone...
The richness their laughter, the sighs, all of it is important to me.






rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 05/20/15 11:35 AM

I hadn't thought about it that often until I talked to a few men that just didn't have a voice that felt good on my ears.

My hearing was my primary connection for many years so it was a surprise more than once when I actually saw some of the people I had only heard for years. It is really funny sometimes listening to Dragon Speaks for some people on the computer.

It was a Biiiiiig shock coming from the South to the Northwest coast. I felt like people here were speaking on hyper speed for a long time.

It is pretty offensive when someone is more focused on the sound of your voice/accent than what you are saying and who you are. But admit a good sexy masculine voice can up a mans over all score. Just as someone who speaks with well used vocabulary and manners.

I loose interest with people who mumble, interrupt, or have to let too much profanity slip in. Or shout. Men who seem to think bellaring or barking (orders) of what they say is masculine mystify me and not in a good way.

A real pet peeve has always been having a smoker overlay his speech with a cig or a pipe. Or people who talk with food or fingers in their mouth. Yikes nail biters. Or men who chew tobacco and spit; sooooh gross.

You catch on real quick when someone is just looking for the what shall I call it the "porno voice". Some on the net are so obviously panting on the leash to get you on the phone or sexting it is a HUGE "next" incentive.


Mmm hmmm ... Aside from the voice, syntax is pretty important...reflects upbringing, i think...there's a lot to be said about politeness :thumbsup: ..im never much for profanity either..

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Wed 05/20/15 11:41 AM
Edited by Pansytilly on Wed 05/20/15 11:42 AM


Being English people sometimes expect me to sound like Hugh Grant.
Thankfully I don't, I hope anyway.



Nooooooo, we just expect you to look like him...shades


Or Tony Blair... shades

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 05/20/15 11:52 AM

No one knows what Goof sounds like......muwhahahahahahahahaha!

So ... you been here for 8 years, and no one ever wanted to talk to you?
Oh... *gives Goof a hug*
:tongue:

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:06 PM

No one knows what Goof sounds like......muwhahahahahahahahaha!
Yes I do

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Wed 05/20/15 12:20 PM
Sooo...nice to read about what you guys have been thru smile2 really appreciated!

Have you ever delayed a call because of this? Could be that you feel like you wouldnt want to disappoint or be disappointed? Or have you ever gotten frustrated with someone for not jumping into having a voice conversation?

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:21 PM
Edited by panchovanilla on Wed 05/20/15 12:27 PM


rofl
Oh Sweetheart, may I tell the story about our first phone call?
Please, please, please.

OH GAWD this is something we will laugh about til the day we die...laugh

I have a very pronounced drawl,we had moved to the phone stage.. So I figure I will make the call and he can get my number from cell would save time instead of sending my number back..Thinking in the back of my mind how my drawl puts some people a bit off...

Well Pancho answers the phone and I hear this deep sexy canadian voice say hello... I am thinking yum...

I say hey Pancho... this is Rains..
dead silence.. I mean dead silence to the point I am thinking dang did I drop the call...

Then I hear this timid voice Hallo????

I am like Yes this is Rains...

He is definitely not what I thought after about 2 minutes of strained conversation I can tell this man wants off the phone.

I am thinking WTH.. he wanted me to call and what is his problem.
I honestly didn't think we were going to go any farther.

Hesitantly I hear " boy you don't sound like I thought you would"..

I am like whatever.. the dude doesnt' like drawls okay fine what ever...
That call ended rather quickly...



Then a few days later we try this again...
As we are chatting Mr. Pancho blurts out
Oh lordy I am so glad you dont' sound like you did the first time...
He goes onto to tell me "you had me scared the first time around..
I had visions of Bea Arthur on the other end.scared

It took me a moment the Man thought I was a drag queen in the beginning.I laughed so hard I was crying laugh

I had had a bad cold... My voice was really deep and well gravelly...
I was breathing heavily and to make matters even worse where I had to make the call was outside on one spot of my deck the only cell coverage.So on top of being sick as a dog, I was freezing the damn rooster from a neighbor was crowing his head off.. That is why I use my Landline at home.

So yeah... we laugh about this today... my poor guy thought he had been duped by a southern drag queen...laugh
I spent the rest of the night laying on my bed, staring at the ceiling.surprised
Nope just little ole me with a horrible chest cold...

Voices do mean alot to me I love to hear the inflections of someone...
The richness their laughter, the sighs, all of it is important to me.





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Wed 05/20/15 12:28 PM
You were probably wondering just what you had gotten yourself into :laughing:

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:30 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Wed 05/20/15 12:30 PM
Oh Babe.... Bea Arthur..... really I knew I sounded bad but not that bad
did I ????:cry:

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:34 PM

Oh Babe.... Bea Arthur..... really I knew I sounded bad but not that bad
did I ????:cry:

Awww Sweetie.
For the record, your voice is sweet as honey.
Totally matching you.flowers

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Wed 05/20/15 12:38 PM
Edited by JOHNN111 on Wed 05/20/15 12:40 PM



rofl
Oh Sweetheart, may I tell the story about our first phone call?
Please, please, please.

OH GAWD this is something we will laugh about til the day we die...laugh

I have a very pronounced drawl,we had moved to the phone stage.. So I figure I will make the call and he can get my number from cell would save time instead of sending my number back..Thinking in the back of my mind how my drawl puts some people a bit off...

Well Pancho answers the phone and I hear this deep sexy canadian voice say hello... I am thinking yum...

I say hey Pancho... this is Rains..
dead silence.. I mean dead silence to the point I am thinking dang did I drop the call...

Then I hear this timid voice Hallo????

I am like Yes this is Rains...

He is definitely not what I thought after about 2 minutes of strained conversation I can tell this man wants off the phone.

I am thinking WTH.. he wanted me to call and what is his problem.
I honestly didn't think we were going to go any farther.

Hesitantly I hear " boy you don't sound like I thought you would"..

I am like whatever.. the dude doesnt' like drawls okay fine what ever...
That call ended rather quickly...



Then a few days later we try this again...
As we are chatting Mr. Pancho blurts out
Oh lordy I am so glad you dont' sound like you did the first time...
He goes onto to tell me "you had me scared the first time around..
I had visions of Bea Arthur on the other end.scared

It took me a moment the Man thought I was a drag queen in the beginning.I laughed so hard I was crying laugh

I had had a bad cold... My voice was really deep and well gravelly...
I was breathing heavily and to make matters even worse where I had to make the call was outside on one spot of my deck the only cell coverage.So on top of being sick as a dog, I was freezing the damn rooster from a neighbor was crowing his head off.. That is why I use my Landline at home.

So yeah... we laugh about this today... my poor guy thought he had been duped by a southern drag queen...laugh
I spent the rest of the night laying on my bed, staring at the ceiling.surprised
Nope just little ole me with a horrible chest cold...

Voices do mean alot to me I love to hear the inflections of someone...
The richness their laughter, the sighs, all of it is important to me.







That's hilarious because I pictured Panchos voice to be high pitched and squeeky by his posts on here laugh Of course I'm totally joking drinker

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:44 PM
That's hilarious because I pictured Panchos voice to be high pitched and squeeky by his posts on here laugh Of course I'm totally joking drinker


Well John it has gotten a bit higher at times and in July when I am there I can' promise he will regret Bea Arthur :angel:

no photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:47 PM
Edited by JOHNN111 on Wed 05/20/15 12:49 PM

That's hilarious because I pictured Panchos voice to be high pitched and squeeky by his posts on here laugh Of course I'm totally joking drinker


Well John it has gotten a bit higher at times and in July when I am there I can' promise he will regret Bea Arthur :angel:


laugh


(googles Bea Arthur)


EDIT*

That's not Bea Arthur, that's Maude!!! :tongue:

panchovanilla's photo
Wed 05/20/15 12:50 PM

That's hilarious because I pictured Panchos voice to be high pitched and squeeky by his posts on here laugh Of course I'm totally joking drinker


Well John it has gotten a bit higher at times and in July when I am there I can' promise he will regret Bea Arthur :angel:

Do you plan on making me squeak, Sweetheart.:banana:

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Wed 05/20/15 01:24 PM




rofl
Oh Sweetheart, may I tell the story about our first phone call?
Please, please, please.

OH GAWD this is something we will laugh about til the day we die...laugh

I have a very pronounced drawl,we had moved to the phone stage.. So I figure I will make the call and he can get my number from cell would save time instead of sending my number back..Thinking in the back of my mind how my drawl puts some people a bit off...

Well Pancho answers the phone and I hear this deep sexy canadian voice say hello... I am thinking yum...

I say hey Pancho... this is Rains..
dead silence.. I mean dead silence to the point I am thinking dang did I drop the call...

Then I hear this timid voice Hallo????

I am like Yes this is Rains...

He is definitely not what I thought after about 2 minutes of strained conversation I can tell this man wants off the phone.

I am thinking WTH.. he wanted me to call and what is his problem.
I honestly didn't think we were going to go any farther.

Hesitantly I hear " boy you don't sound like I thought you would"..

I am like whatever.. the dude doesnt' like drawls okay fine what ever...
That call ended rather quickly...



Then a few days later we try this again...
As we are chatting Mr. Pancho blurts out
Oh lordy I am so glad you dont' sound like you did the first time...
He goes onto to tell me "you had me scared the first time around..
I had visions of Bea Arthur on the other end.scared

It took me a moment the Man thought I was a drag queen in the beginning.I laughed so hard I was crying laugh

I had had a bad cold... My voice was really deep and well gravelly...
I was breathing heavily and to make matters even worse where I had to make the call was outside on one spot of my deck the only cell coverage.So on top of being sick as a dog, I was freezing the damn rooster from a neighbor was crowing his head off.. That is why I use my Landline at home.

So yeah... we laugh about this today... my poor guy thought he had been duped by a southern drag queen...laugh
I spent the rest of the night laying on my bed, staring at the ceiling.surprised
Nope just little ole me with a horrible chest cold...

Voices do mean alot to me I love to hear the inflections of someone...
The richness their laughter, the sighs, all of it is important to me.







That's hilarious because I pictured Panchos voice to be high pitched and squeeky by his posts on here laugh Of course I'm totally joking drinker


laugh laugh laugh How's that saying go?..."There's a lot of truth in every joke"...No wait...."When someone says they're joking, they're joking"....:angel:


Goofball73's photo
Wed 05/20/15 02:01 PM


No one knows what Goof sounds like......muwhahahahahahahahaha!

So ... you been here for 8 years, and no one ever wanted to talk to you?
Oh... *gives Goof a hug*
:tongue:


Okay...so a few from this site have been gracious enough to call me. :wink:

And Pancho....Sitka's voice caught me off guard too when I talked to her like five years ago. laugh