I don't want to lie to them. I hate lying. But I have to otherwise they won't give it to me. We are told to simply be ourselves. Yeah right hahaha. As much as I'd love to, I know it would back fire. For exampl, imagine if I told a woman I was out on a date with that I only want her for sex, nothing more. What do you think would happen?

They would lie to you and say yes?

If we combine Estelle and redmist, do you think we could get a sustainable fission reaction going?

That would never happen, any woman who would date you would first discuss her hourly rates.

No, Red, I don't want to do the Vulcan Mind Meld with you.

Estelle's posts generate some odd 10 pages within 24 hours...
If you wanna even attempt to beat a girl's power, you gotta come up with something new and better than this ...

Wanting a woman only for sex is not dating.

You'll have to share that with the street creatures in my neighborhood. You can't drive within a block of'em without shouts of 'Want a date, Baby?' C'mon, I'll be your date!'

If all you want is sex and why are you even going on a date, you're wasting your money and their time. You shouldn't approach girls under the pretext of going on a date if you aren't actually interested in a relationship.

If you have to lie don't date.
I wouldn't want someone to lie to me.

Get a blow up doll. No date. No lies. No anything. Just fun fun FUN!

Maybe if your identity revolved less around "it" so much that would help reduce the need to lie?


You'd save yourself the next 3 dates/weeks/months of putting off sex because she asked you to and you agreed to so she doesn't think you're just using her for sex?

She says "okay, that's really all I'm looking for too, I just got out of a relationship, am focused on my career, tired of all the guys lying to me, have too much going on with school. Let's get out of here, I'm sure glad you didn't lie to me otherwise I'd run outta here so fast."


Other than that, people don't lie for selfish reasons.
It has nothing to do with the judgments of others like "if I don't lie, they'll see me as good."

Lies force you to put effort into thinking about the lie, maintaining the lie, coming up with a viable lie (you can lie to a woman but still come off as someone un"it"able).

Long term lying can also reduce your ability to tell the truth, not know what the truth is.

The more you lie to others it becomes real easy to lie to yourself.
That leads to all kinds of psychological problems.

Next thing you know you're banging tranny dudes off craigslist because that's the easiest way to get "it" without confusing yourself any more.

amen

Honesty is the best policy.....

all the freaking time...lol... it would be nice just to tell them.. I just want into your panties.. even know they know that's what I want... and even know at the end of the evening that's what I'm going to get.. still have to do the dance..lol.

I think Misty will feel special someone put so much thought into one of his posts.

OMG, tears are running down my face from laughing so hard.