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Topic: small talk
soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Fri 03/20/15 03:03 PM
soufie NO WAY am i taking that bet You are wise beyond your cereal :-)

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Fri 03/20/15 03:05 PM
this neanderthal has his momments

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/20/15 03:05 PM
no you do not need a lecture.. what you need is a good old fashioned spanking..mmm.. .. my bad not supposed to talk that way anymore... let's go with good old fashion tongue lashing.. Yes. that's better is it..lmao Haha, please cut me some slack.. just finished writing for today, 7 pages, new story, another fantasy and OMG it's sizzling... I need a cold shower. Let's talk about se.. erm... chit-chat. ..see.. this is where I would get in trouble.. I would be like oh you're a writer.. tell me about the book you're writing...... and why do you need a cold shower...... .. is the hot water at your house not working..?.. . you know I'm really handy with a wrench... ... I could probably come over and.. just bang on that hot water tank.. ..... until you get really hot... water again....lol

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Fri 03/20/15 03:12 PM
so what I'm gathering is.. you ladies tend to go on and on and on... Not at all. I don't want to feel as if im doing all the work or im his entertainment. For a date or a relationship. And after all the foundation of all relationships are set in the beginning.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/20/15 03:12 PM
Soufie.. you know this does not count right.. ... you can't make him spill his guts.. just because you put him in arm lock.. Lol.. Pfffft. There are ever so many more subtle ways. .... somehow I knew you were going to say that..lol... this would work.. ..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Fri 03/20/15 03:24 PM
no you do not need a lecture.. what you need is a good old fashioned spanking..mmm.. .. my bad not supposed to talk that way anymore... let's go with good old fashion tongue lashing.. Yes. that's better is it..lmao Haha, please cut me some slack.. just finished writing for today, 7 pages, new story, another fantasy and OMG it's sizzling... I need a cold shower. Let's talk about se.. erm... chit-chat. ..see.. this is where I would get in trouble.. I would be like oh you're a writer.. tell me about the book you're writing...... and why do you need a cold shower...... .. is the hot water at your house not working..?.. . you know I'm really handy with a wrench... ... I could probably come over and.. just bang on that hot water tank.. ..... until you get really hot... water again....lol Hahahahaha.. I don't think you and I would have a problem erm .. chit-chatting and banging erm.. taps and stuff. I'm thinking that I may need duct-tape ... to shut you up that is... so I can say something every now and then.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Fri 03/20/15 03:26 PM
okay ladies prime example on what not to do..^^^.lmao Yes, lol, and she has rocket mail??? Never heard of that... Would that be a pocket version? You know, pocketrocket email.com??? Or a pocket rocket that can send email? I'm always so behind with new gadgets...

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Fri 03/20/15 03:38 PM
somehow I knew you were going to say that..lol... this would work.. .. That just looks silly. That guy has only to raise his head to throw her off. I think she is just constipated.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Fri 03/20/15 03:41 PM
I think men should just be happy a good quality woman would go on a date and have a conversation with them. They should listen and be interesting and enjoy the company of the emotionally advanced species.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Fri 03/20/15 03:45 PM
somehow I knew you were going to say that..lol... this would work.. .. That just looks silly. That guy has only to raise his head to throw her off. I think she is just constipated.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/20/15 03:50 PM
I think men should just be happy a good quality woman would go on a date and have a conversation with them. They should listen and be interesting and enjoy the company of the emotionally advanced species. ..and.. I am sure your date would be....lol..jk... I am always grateful a woman takes time out.. of her busy schedule.. to meet and have a drink with me.... .. I usually go in.. thinking of it as a business lunch.... I have a few key points I want to make.. and then let the conversation flow from there... .... I don't really like talking about myself too much... .

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Fri 03/20/15 04:06 PM
I think you should talk about yourself more on the date because women are very good counselors.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Fri 03/20/15 04:13 PM
what are you trying to say exactly.. .... are you saying men can't be good counselors..hmm.. ... or perhaps are you saying.. ..... because women are more..hmm. ... passive aggressive... more dorsal.. that they are better listeners.. ... you are confusing me now..lol.. .. are you trying to say women should just sit there being quiet and listen... .....lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Fri 03/20/15 05:08 PM
I'm thinking she's trying to say you need counseling I can offer ... although I prefer coaching to be honest ... sometimes I do have coaching clients I'm not cheap though...---> just read that other topic, and now I want to go shopping!!!!

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Fri 03/20/15 05:15 PM
I think you should talk about yourself more on the date because women are very good counselors.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 03/20/15 05:27 PM
I think men should just be happy a good quality woman would go on a date and have a conversation with them. OK. Can you introduce us to a good quality woman?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Fri 03/20/15 05:30 PM
.. what constitutes.. that is what makes up small talk on a first date. You have to talk like this.