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debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 03/07/15 12:52 AM
Why is it that Muslim men don't discipline their own children and that's the wife's job??

amanraj2212 Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 10	Sat 03/07/15 03:30 AM
Cant say

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 03/07/15 03:35 AM
Well Debbie, this will be good. My guess is, it's because Islam has its own way of treating women. The Prophet Mohamed did not like the colour black and that's why Muslim women wear it. Says it all.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 03/07/15 03:40 AM
It's because the wives wear the Ninja costumes, that's why?

Snoman1951 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 5731	Sat 03/07/15 04:02 AM
When I was a kid my momma dished out the rules and I don't think my daddy was Muslim.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 03/07/15 04:04 AM
Well Debbie, this will be good. My guess is, it's because Islam has its own way of treating women. The Prophet Mohamed did not like the colour black and that's why Muslim women wear it. Says it all. How do they treat women?? I'm really want to know this

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 03/07/15 04:05 AM
It's because the wives wear the Ninja costumes, that's why? Lol, your still concious, are you still drinking ? Ha ha

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Sat 03/07/15 04:20 AM
Every society has their own special way of being sexist. It is obvious the westerners here ignore their own brand of sexism when they make fun and question another society's brand of it. Why can't you all see that it's always wrong to treat women wrong no matter where or how or why? I talk about it all the time, still no one agrees here, but are ready to diss other cultures for the way they mistreat women when it is obvious none of you actually cares about how women are treated badly anyway. In some ways Muslims have more respect for women in some ways less, which is why it is intriguing for western women to want to learn more. For example Muslims revere women as mothers, in the west women are revered for their ability to remain sexy while being able to hang with the guys.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 03/07/15 04:29 AM
Why is it that Muslim men don't discipline their own children and that's the wife's job?? The Muslim familys I know the fathers and mothers discipline the children. Just like my family. Maybe this idea is because the man is out working and the mother is home more. I'd say every family is different.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 03/07/15 04:32 AM
Every society has their own special way of being sexist. It is obvious the westerners here ignore their own brand of sexism when they make fun and question another society's brand of it. Why can't you all see that it's always wrong to treat women wrong no matter where or how or why? I talk about it all the time, still no one agrees here, but are ready to diss other cultures for the way they mistreat women when it is obvious none of you actually cares about how women are treated badly anyway. In some ways Muslims have more respect for women in some ways less, which is why it is intriguing for western women to want to learn more. For example Muslims revere women as mothers, in the west women are revered for their ability to remain sexy while being able to hang with the guys. Estelle you have a great point here.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 03/07/15 04:39 AM Edited by debbie1980 on Sat 03/07/15 04:41 AM
There is a Muslim guy I chat with, and he said when he has children he wouldn't discipline them, and that would be the mothers job, why is that? And do Muslim men have a lot of respect for there wife? Some other guy here said that muslim men have illegal sex, He didn't elaborate when I asked. Would a Muslim man holds his wife's hand in public? And can a Muslim man only marry a muslim woman? Because the man I talk to, said he would marry someone who wasn't a Muslim. So if he married a non Muslim, what religion would the child be bought up as? Sorry for all the questions. But I really want to learn about this. Thanks estelle and carebear

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 03/07/15 04:40 AM Edited by realcarebear on Sat 03/07/15 04:41 AM
Well Debbie, this will be good. My guess is, it's because Islam has its own way of treating women. The Prophet Mohamed did not like the colour black and that's why Muslim women wear it. Says it all. How do they treat women?? I'm really want to know this Muslim, Christian , Jewish, Atheist....doesn't matter. There are good people an there are bad people. Men who abuse an men who cherish. If you find a man who really loves an fears God or just respects and has a good heart.. he will cherish you. Just take your time getting to know people. See how they treat their family, others around them, animals. Good people do good deeds.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 03/07/15 04:44 AM
Every society has their own special way of being sexist. It is obvious the westerners here ignore their own brand of sexism when they make fun and question another society's brand of it. Why can't you all see that it's always wrong to treat women wrong no matter where or how or why? I talk about it all the time, still no one agrees here, but are ready to diss other cultures for the way they mistreat women when it is obvious none of you actually cares about how women are treated badly anyway. In some ways Muslims have more respect for women in some ways less, which is why it is intriguing for western women to want to learn more. For example Muslims revere women as mothers, in the west women are revered for their ability to remain sexy while being able to hang with the guys. Stoned to death takes some doing though right. Being found guilty of adultery even though the woman was raped. Like chalk and cheese.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 03/07/15 04:49 AM
Every society has their own special way of being sexist. It is obvious the westerners here ignore their own brand of sexism when they make fun and question another society's brand of it. Why can't you all see that it's always wrong to treat women wrong no matter where or how or why? I talk about it all the time, still no one agrees here, but are ready to diss other cultures for the way they mistreat women when it is obvious none of you actually cares about how women are treated badly anyway. In some ways Muslims have more respect for women in some ways less, which is why it is intriguing for western women to want to learn more. For example Muslims revere women as mothers, in the west women are revered for their ability to remain sexy while being able to hang with the guys. Stoned to death takes some doing though right. Being found guilty of adultery even though the woman was raped. Like chalk and cheese. So are you saying some Muslim men are like this?? I want to know more about their lifestyle and how they treat their wife and children??

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 03/07/15 04:52 AM
Every society has their own special way of being sexist. It is obvious the westerners here ignore their own brand of sexism when they make fun and question another society's brand of it. Why can't you all see that it's always wrong to treat women wrong no matter where or how or why? I talk about it all the time, still no one agrees here, but are ready to diss other cultures for the way they mistreat women when it is obvious none of you actually cares about how women are treated badly anyway. In some ways Muslims have more respect for women in some ways less, which is why it is intriguing for western women to want to learn more. For example Muslims revere women as mothers, in the west women are revered for their ability to remain sexy while being able to hang with the guys. Stoned to death takes some doing though right. Being found guilty of adultery even though the woman was raped. Like chalk and cheese. So are you saying some Muslim men are like this?? I want to know more about their lifestyle and how they treat their wife and children?? No doubt some treat their wives well, as long as they stay down at heel

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 03/07/15 04:52 AM Edited by realcarebear on Sat 03/07/15 04:55 AM
There is a Muslim guy I chat with, and he said when he has children he wouldn't discipline them, and that would be the mothers job, why is that? And do Muslim men have a lot of respect for there wife? Some other guy here said that muslim men have illegal sex, He didn't elaborate when I asked. Would a Muslim man holds his wife's hand in public? And can a Muslim man only marry a muslim woman? Because the man I talk to, said he would marry someone who wasn't a Muslim. So if he married a non Muslim, what religion would the child be bought up as? Sorry for all the questions. But I really want to learn about this. Thanks estelle and carebear Be very careful Debbie. Some muslim are more extreme than others. Muslim men can marry a Jewish or Christian woman. There are some areas where public affection even between husband and wife is frowned on even just holding hands. As far as how your children are raised that's a great discussion between you and the fella your talking to. Its important to know who you let into your life. Ask questions no matter how stupid you think it may be. Pay attention to how his/her family lives.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 03/07/15 04:58 AM Edited by messi_is_a_tim_1888 on Sat 03/07/15 05:03 AM
Well Debbie, this will be good. My guess is, it's because Islam has its own way of treating women. The Prophet Mohamed did not like the colour black and that's why Muslim women wear it. Says it all. How do they treat women?? I'm really want to know this Muslim, Christian , Jewish, Atheist....doesn't matter. There are good people an there are bad people. Men who abuse an men who cherish. If you find a man who really loves an fears God or just respects and has a good heart.. he will cherish you. Just take your time getting to know people. See how they treat their family, others around them, animals. Good people do good deeds. RCB, i worked in London, before and there's a lot of Muslims down there believe me. I've heard Muslim fathers down there telling their teenage sons to go out and shag the white girls, but to always come back to their own kind though to get married. Just keep that in mind and stop being so naive about them? A lot of them are very ignorant of westerners and don't like us one bit!

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Sat 03/07/15 05:05 AM Edited by Estelle79 on Sat 03/07/15 05:09 AM
Traditionally Muslims and other Middle Easterners are similar to Europe and the US, because all are patriarchal/sexist cultures traditionally. Basically it all means the same thing for men and women and their relationships, men are on top, women on the bottom. Women stay home and do the housekeeping and childcare including discipline, and the men go to work or hang out in the street.

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Sat 03/07/15 05:06 AM
Well Debbie, this will be good. My guess is, it's because Islam has its own way of treating women. The Prophet Mohamed did not like the colour black and that's why Muslim women wear it. Says it all. How do they treat women?? I'm really want to know this Muslim, Christian , Jewish, Atheist....doesn't matter. There are good people an there are bad people. Men who abuse an men who cherish. If you find a man who really loves an fears God or just respects and has a good heart.. he will cherish you. Just take your time getting to know people. See how they treat their family, others around them, animals. Good people do good deeds. RCB, i worked in London, before and there's a lot of Muslims down there believe me. I've heard Muslim fathers down there telling their teenage to go out and shag the white girls, but to always come back to their own kind though to get married. Just keep that in mind and stop being so naive? I don't believe telling someone to get to know the person your talking to is naive. Thanks for your concern though.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 03/07/15 05:07 AM
Well Debbie, this will be good. My guess is, it's because Islam has its own way of treating women. The Prophet Mohamed did not like the colour black and that's why Muslim women wear it. Says it all. How do they treat women?? I'm really want to know this Muslim, Christian , Jewish, Atheist....doesn't matter. There are good people an there are bad people. Men who abuse an men who cherish. If you find a man who really loves an fears God or just respects and has a good heart.. he will cherish you. Just take your time getting to know people. See how they treat their family, others around them, animals. Good people do good deeds. RCB, i worked in London, before and there's a lot of Muslims down there believe me. I've heard Muslim fathers down there telling their teenage sons to go out and shag the white girls, but to always come back to their own kind though to get married. Just keep that in mind and stop being so naive about them? A lot of them are very ignorant of westerners and don't like us one bit! I agree. I worked in Qatar for 4 years and Dubai for donkeys years and their racism towards Indians and other nationalitys is shocking. Slave labour is all it is. Then there's the nightclubs. Full of them with prostitutes.