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debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 02:50 AM
My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to. She asked, Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance. Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes. PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Sat 02/21/15 02:59 AM
What a mean question...

tattoodude13 Joined Tue 01/01/13 Posts: 8	Sat 02/21/15 03:18 AM
You should ask her what kind of guy would wanna be with a ***** so focused on looks that she degrades others on a base emotional level. Shes as ugly as those she "questions."

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 03:19 AM
What a mean question... I know, I will show her the replies and I'm hoping that will change her, because it's a very bad character trait to have. I'm hoping this will change her. She's done this to men who have chatted me up as well, I got so embaressed and apologised to the guy and I said I'm not like that. Then I made a excuse to go home.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 03:20 AM
You should ask her what kind of guy would wanna be with a ***** so focused on looks that she degrades others on a base emotional level. Shes as ugly as those she "questions." I agree, that's why I agreed to post this question for her, I'm trying to change her, because it's really horrible.

tattoodude13 Joined Tue 01/01/13 Posts: 8	Sat 02/21/15 03:22 AM
Sorry for the vocal reply but women like that piss me off. Its hard enough to find a girl when you have to worry that you probably are too "ugly" for most of the women out there these days.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 03:28 AM
Sorry for the vocal reply but women like that piss me off. Its hard enough to find a girl when you have to worry that you probably are too "ugly" for most of the women out there these days. That's ok. It pisses me off to, I'm hoping when I show her this, she will change. I won't go out in public with her anymore, because of what she does, and doing the same to guys who chat me up. I just visit her at home now. I myself have a low self esteem and I wouldn't chat up a gorgeous guy, because I feel I would get rejected.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Sat 02/21/15 04:16 AM
What a mean question... I know, I will show her the replies and I'm hoping that will change her, because it's a very bad character trait to have. I'm hoping this will change her. She's done this to men who have chatted me up as well, I got so embaressed and apologised to the guy and I said I'm not like that. Then I made a excuse to go home. And she thinks she's all that, huh?....

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 04:24 AM
What a mean question... I know, I will show her the replies and I'm hoping that will change her, because it's a very bad character trait to have. I'm hoping this will change her. She's done this to men who have chatted me up as well, I got so embaressed and apologised to the guy and I said I'm not like that. Then I made a excuse to go home. And she thinks she's all that, huh?.... Oh yes, she looks in the mirror for 6 hours a day. Her head is stuck up her arse. I've told her this face to face, so she won't be shocked when she sees what I have wrote about her. When I see her, she talks to me while looking in the mirror.

Peterq1978 Joined Wed 07/23/14 Posts: 2	Sat 02/21/15 04:25 AM
she not heard of humour, fun, romance etc. being hot dont mean you can be all that too

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 04:29 AM
she not heard of humour, fun, romance etc. being hot dont mean you can be all that too No, she only thinks of herself, she will buy LV bags for herself and put **** food on the table for her kids. She only talks about herself.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sat 02/21/15 04:36 AM Edited by Awatersign on Sat 02/21/15 04:41 AM
My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to. She asked, Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance. Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes. PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS It's people like your friend that sucks the little bit of"confidence"that alot of people are lacking so much,and not only that it's degrading,and mean,it's shallowness at it's worst,I also point this out to some my friends and people around me,and I stay away from such people that do it to other people,they're no worse than the bully in school,and I can't tell you how classless this is,and I'm glad that you're having no part of it even though it's your friend,there're lots of people that WE don't find attractive,but wouldn't say something so mean,stupid and shallow,they're the type of people that are going to hate on you when they see you with someone that YOU find attractive and they don't,so please tell your friend for me,stop be such hater,with that loser's mentality ,one should NEVER feel less than another human being period,NEVER,nor should they try and make anyone else feel so,I'm actually glad that you post this topic,and I would like to tell anyone that was affected and who ARE going to be affected by this,to not let it get to you,and keep your heads up,and never develop this mentality,as this is clearly the mind set of a loser,if someone don't dig you,move on to the next one,don't be crushed by it,no being is superior none!!!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 04:54 AM
My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to. She asked, Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance. Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes. PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS It's people like your friend that sucks the little bit of"confidence"that alot of people are lacking so much,and not only that it's degrading,and mean,it's shallowness at it's worst,I also point this out to some my friends and people around me,and I stay away from such people that do it to other people,they're no worse than the bully in school,and I can't tell you how classless this is,and I'm glad that you're having no part of it even though it's your friend,there're lots of people that WE don't find attractive,but wouldn't say something so mean,stupid and shallow,they're the type of people that are going to hate on you when they see you with someone that YOU find attractive and they don't,so please tell your friend for me,stop be such hater,with that loser's mentality ,one should NEVER feel less than another human being period,NEVER,nor should they try and make anyone else feel so,I'm actually glad that you post this topic,and I would like to tell anyone that was affected and who ARE going to be affected by this,to not let it get to you,and keep your heads up,and never develop this mentality,as this is clearly the mind set of a loser,if someone don't dig you,move on to the next one,don't be crushed by it,no being is superior none!!! Thankyou. I don't go out with her anymore because of what she does it's terrible. I've got a low self esteem and she makes me paranoid. She's actually not worth knowing, that's why I don't see her very much anymore. She's been like it for years and she's getting worse. Thankyou for the comments, I will show her this, I hope it will make a difference, but her head is so far up her arce it maybe futile.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 02/21/15 05:02 AM
Enemies will stab you in the back, friends will stab you in the front

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 02/21/15 05:58 AM
My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to. She asked, Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance. Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes. PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS Maybe they just mistakenly assume that she's a decent person. Ugly is subjective anyway.

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Sat 02/21/15 06:31 AM
she not heard of humour, fun, romance etc. being hot dont mean you can be all that too No, she only thinks of herself, she will buy LV bags for herself and put **** food on the table for her kids. She only talks about herself. [/quote: your friend is a very self centered person ( frankly, that is a very ugly trait)) who if she does not change her outlook will wind up old and lonely.. looks fade and at point in life mean little.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 06:33 AM
she not heard of humour, fun, romance etc. being hot dont mean you can be all that too No, she only thinks of herself, she will buy LV bags for herself and put **** food on the table for her kids. She only talks about herself. [/quote: your friend is a very self centered person ( frankly, that is a very ugly trait)) who if she does not change her outlook will wind up old and lonely.. looks fade and at point in life mean little. I agree.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 02/21/15 06:38 AM
My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to. She asked, Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance. Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes. PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS It's people like your friend that sucks the little bit of"confidence"that alot of people are lacking so much,and not only that it's degrading,and mean,it's shallowness at it's worst,I also point this out to some my friends and people around me,and I stay away from such people that do it to other people,they're no worse than the bully in school,and I can't tell you how classless this is,and I'm glad that you're having no part of it even though it's your friend,there're lots of people that WE don't find attractive,but wouldn't say something so mean,stupid and shallow,they're the type of people that are going to hate on you when they see you with someone that YOU find attractive and they don't,so please tell your friend for me,stop be such hater,with that loser's mentality ,one should NEVER feel less than another human being period,NEVER,nor should they try and make anyone else feel so,I'm actually glad that you post this topic,and I would like to tell anyone that was affected and who ARE going to be affected by this,to not let it get to you,and keep your heads up,and never develop this mentality,as this is clearly the mind set of a loser,if someone don't dig you,move on to the next one,don't be crushed by it,no being is superior none!!! Thankyou. I don't go out with her anymore because of what she does it's terrible. I've got a low self esteem and she makes me paranoid. She's actually not worth knowing, that's why I don't see her very much anymore. She's been like it for years and she's getting worse. Thankyou for the comments, I will show her this, I hope it will make a difference, but her head is so far up her arce it maybe futile. You might have low self-esteem Debbie, but you're a million times better than this self-absorbed waste of space who is has no loyalty except to herself?

RoamingOrator Joined Fri 07/20/07 Posts: 4943	Sat 02/21/15 06:40 AM
As someone who has been described as hideous, I think I can field that one. There are really three reasons: 1. You never know unless you ask. 2. Some women that are extremely attractive appear unapproachable to even the most handsome of men. So, they might not get asked out a lot, which increases the chances of a positive response when they do. 3. The fact that we look bad actually makes them look better, so their vanity might just play into our favor.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/21/15 06:48 AM
My friend asked me to post on here a question she would love to know the answer to. She asked, Why do really ugly men even think they have a chance with a beautiful woman? She always says, you must be mental to even think you stood a chance. Personally I find this cruel. But I told her I would ask, so here goes. PLEASE REMEMBER THIS IS NOT MY QUESTION, ITS A FRIENDS It's people like your friend that sucks the little bit of"confidence"that alot of people are lacking so much,and not only that it's degrading,and mean,it's shallowness at it's worst,I also point this out to some my friends and people around me,and I stay away from such people that do it to other people,they're no worse than the bully in school,and I can't tell you how classless this is,and I'm glad that you're having no part of it even though it's your friend,there're lots of people that WE don't find attractive,but wouldn't say something so mean,stupid and shallow,they're the type of people that are going to hate on you when they see you with someone that YOU find attractive and they don't,so please tell your friend for me,stop be such hater,with that loser's mentality ,one should NEVER feel less than another human being period,NEVER,nor should they try and make anyone else feel so,I'm actually glad that you post this topic,and I would like to tell anyone that was affected and who ARE going to be affected by this,to not let it get to you,and keep your heads up,and never develop this mentality,as this is clearly the mind set of a loser,if someone don't dig you,move on to the next one,don't be crushed by it,no being is superior none!!! Thankyou. I don't go out with her anymore because of what she does it's terrible. I've got a low self esteem and she makes me paranoid. She's actually not worth knowing, that's why I don't see her very much anymore. She's been like it for years and she's getting worse. Thankyou for the comments, I will show her this, I hope it will make a difference, but her head is so far up her arce it maybe futile. You might have low self-esteem Debbie, but you're a million times better than this self-absorbed waste of space who is has no loyalty except to herself? Oh yes, just to herself. And thankyou.