.. but that raises a good point.. I suppose.... the willingness of your partner.. to explore and try new things.... such as ****.... and a whole fascinating world um....ok.. I need to go scratch my eyeballs off for a second...lol.... be right back..lmao

it's all about equal priorities to create an equal partnership/relationship.

and a equal partnership/relationship...

priceless.

yes so true priceless... but hard to achieve.... it is a balancing act... pleasing yourself an pleasing them..
. this is why sex drive is important..
. the desire and willingness to please each other....yes...

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true true...

i crave solution's...

so i find jibber jabber for emotional soothing of but emotions difficult...

albeit necessary to a degree.

so, to cut strait to the heart of the matter...

most "men", (even though women can and do too), try to coerce, manipulate, pressure, massage, extract from, the "other", the personal gratifications one wants...

this will scientifically decrease the natural desire in the other...

which is the huge self defeating mistake most make.

but in the end, real life solution's is to NEVER try to change the natural wants of another to suite one self...

but rather to move along to one who has the exact same desires.

tuff i know...

as so oft, who wishes to leave partial wants achieved for unknown territory and possibly no gratifications...

smiles...

but the mentally strong sea the true course.

as who can experience the total joy of anthers NATURAL MUTUAL WANTS, without massage, all equal to one's own, if it be bothered with trying to change one, to fit it's own wants...

yes, we have all found, we can massage the wants of another to fit our own wants, but these will always backfire with the one massaged deciding for another choice in the end.

rightfully so.

that's a lot of cabbage to chew on..
says the rabbit to the Fox...lol..
good point though..

just seems like it...

read it 3 times...

it will seem like solutions to gain, not lose.

thanks but once was enough..
... okay so what do people do...
. you have invested time in this relationship.... and then you find out they do not have the same match and drive as you do..... do you simply put that part on hold... tell yourself perhaps with some work.. they will improve.... a question of is good good enough....
.... I myself will never settle again..

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I think for men it's "sex drive"...but for women it's more like "sexual desire"...We tell our guy we're going to take a long, steamy shower and boing, up it goes....Our man tells us he thinks we're incredible and immediately we uncross our legs....It's the Mars Venus thing....Soufie was half way there.. Some men just get it and those that do usually have women who are ready and willing no matter how high their sex drive is....

there is no way that can happen, unless one was tantalized by the illusions of being able to turn another into what IT SELF most only wanted.

if one does not make the focus, about what others naturally want, it will never find continued undisappointing success until it does.

... have I mentioned to you how beautiful your new pictures..is..
... the way the light shimmers across your hair... and catches all the little details .. of your beautiful complexion..
.. and you have not seen me in a hot steamy shower obviously...lol..

*crosses legs and continues filing nails*

sex drive....yes that's what i need; a good old-fashioned sex drive!



(now to find my keys...)

Aww.. and I was being sincere..
.. your beauty is unmatched..
why just the other day.. I was walking past the florist shop... I overheard the roses say ,how they were the fairest and most beautiful things in the land..
.... I could not help but stop and correct them.... and let them know I have seen.. a beauty that far surpasses their own... they asked me for the name of this beautiful creature..... I said leigh.... this beautiful exquisite ... wonder to behold..... goes by the name of..Leigh..

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Ah, the real reason for no sex before marriage...by the time you find out your partner is less than...compatible...it is too late...lol

Never settle.

However sexual desire, like life tends to ebb and flow. The demands of daily life often can get in the way of sexual performance and stamina. Even the most firey of matches have their simmer times... How a couple manages this is the real challenge...Perhaps this is where the love part comes in...

Oh pish tosh.. why must you cloud issue.... your beauty and grace.. and poise outshines.... the Mercurius of waters..... your inner beauty outshines the brightest of stars..
.. you are not a diamond in the rough.
. you are highly polished Ruby....
. something to be cherished.... to be held up against the light and admired.....yes..

YES..IT IS OF THE UTMOST IMPORTANCE.
I WILL NEVER, NEVER, NEVER BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FRIGID WOMAN AGAIN.
AND YES, I REALIZE I'M USING CAPS...YES I AM YELLING.
Well...thinking quite loudly.

if one speaks words to be honest about it self, than these words will only be received by another who finds it caring and loving to be honest about them self...

if words are spoken to attain for self, these will only always be recognized and reciprocated by others who are doing the same...

one will always find it self in a "want for self" dueling relationship...

and most, why those speaking to get more sex, will always tend to get less.

because the words are tainted with selfish interest.

and it's not hard to spot these, the longer civilization exists and evolves unto wisdom of heart, versus want of the singular mind as the sole most motivator.

Well all I know, is no darn way I'm going to act like a coyote,
laying out by the hole, howling.
Nossiree.

hahahahahahahahaha

Speak to the purser!!!