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Topic: Something Better
MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 06/30/14 08:24 AM
Do you guys think there is always someone better than who you have as a lover? Like is there someone perfect out there that will have no flaws, no drama, a loving family, easy conversations, perfect financial status, always feminine and just simple?

Or are you happy for what you do have when you have it? Do you think of this when you are exclusive with the person you have?

sybariticguy's photo
Mon 06/30/14 09:01 AM

Do you guys think there is always someone better than who you have as a lover? Like is there someone perfect out there that will have no flaws, no drama, a loving family, easy conversations, perfect financial status, always feminine and just simple?

Or are you happy for what you do have when you have it? Do you think of this when you are exclusive with the person you have?
[/quot To doubt is to begin the process of being undermined.

2469nascar's photo
Mon 06/30/14 09:49 AM
maybe when i was younger and immature.now that i"am older i dont date someone unless i like them and think that theres a chance that it will be long term,JMHA

MaJayJay29's photo
Mon 06/30/14 10:29 AM
Spending your time pondering the what ifs in life you are most likely not going to see the wonders of the here and now.

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 06/30/14 10:35 AM
shocked can barely handle one of yas

no photo
Mon 06/30/14 10:39 AM

maybe when i was younger and immature.now that i"am older i dont date someone unless i like them and think that theres a chance that it will be long term,JMHA


^^^This!:thumbsup: ...Also, I think even when one is in a strong, healthy relationship there are times (like post arguments or sundry F ups) when it's normal, even healthy to take inventory and discuss feelings...

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 06/30/14 11:19 AM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Mon 06/30/14 11:36 AM
"The best people often slip through our fingers like sand. You should always appreciate what you have and protect it for life."

My Nan used to tell me this. I know it's corny and a bit hippie in today's world but I respected this woman.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 06/30/14 11:20 AM

shocked can barely handle one of yas


take me as i am
this may mean you'll have to be a stronger man
bigsmile

soufiehere's photo
Mon 06/30/14 11:23 AM
There will ALWAYS be others around you that have..
different flaws from the one you are with.
The immature see them as a possibility.

My feeling is, once you make your choice, you stick
with it through thick and thin.

You will always have choices.
Improving upon your mate is not an option for me.

stan_147's photo
Mon 06/30/14 12:42 PM
Ahhhh, the B.B.D.

There is always someone better, stronger, faster, etc. The point should be to enjoy what you have, not seek the constant upgrade.

"In a society where we change everything that doesn't please us, how do we learn to accept what cannot be changed?" -V. Lourdel

0ldhag's photo
Mon 06/30/14 01:02 PM
happy for what you do have when you have it?


That sums me up. The key word WHEN. Mine don't last that long sad2

1j9b6c5's photo
Mon 06/30/14 01:10 PM
The grass is always greener on the other side.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 06/30/14 01:22 PM
To think there is something better means we forget that who we have loves us as we are. To leave that behind for something we might think better means we could also be left for someone better than us

Goofball73's photo
Mon 06/30/14 06:05 PM
Go Four months, evaluate....then proceed with another four months or break it off. Rinse...repeat.....:tongue: laugh

no photo
Mon 06/30/14 06:06 PM

maybe when i was younger and immature.now that i"am older i dont date someone unless i like them and think that theres a chance that it will be long term,JMHA


^^^This!:thumbsup: ...Also, I think even when one is in a strong, healthy relationship there are times (like post arguments or sundry F ups) when it's normal, even healthy to take inventory and discuss feelings...


There will ALWAYS be others around you that have..
different flaws from the one you are with.
The immature see them as a possibility.

My feeling is, once you make your choice, you stick
with it through thick and thin.

You will always have choices.
Improving upon your mate is not an option for me.


ALL OF THIS ^^^

Thomas27's photo
Mon 06/30/14 06:23 PM
If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!!

ianstuart1027's photo
Fri 07/04/14 12:35 AM
I think that as you come to love a person any previous flaws disappear.

no photo
Fri 07/04/14 03:19 AM
The grass isn't greener on the other side, it's green where you water it.

Thomas27's photo
Fri 07/04/14 05:14 AM

The grass isn't greener on the other side, it's green where you water it.


So, you are sayin' it's ok to pee in the yard?

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 07/04/14 08:03 AM
Those that feel there is always something better then what they have will never be happy nor find what they seek... For you may have the one in front of you that could be everything you wanted but never took the time to find out....

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