Almost every guys now days are looking for 'fun' and nothing serious or close to it.. my question is, is it the truth to what your feeling and actually all you want is casual sex or meet ups or is it that you really actually want something serious but feel like you cant find it so instead go for the easier option ? If neither , explain if you feel like it (: just curious on whats truely behind .. looking for 'fun'

Hiii Shelby...I have no clue
Goes to get my chair & popcorn.. waits*

<=== NOT gonna say a word.

(sits next to 2K and cracks open a beer.)

"looking ofr fun" as used in profiles or emails on here is a request for a hookup

Depends on the man as it depends on the woman. People in general these days seem to be afraid of or not interested in any form of commitment.

Very true cowboygh

yes that's why I joined a dating site..
this dating site.. instead of Plenty of Fish.. dating hookup.. and a hundred other sleazy sites.. just so I can have some meaningless.. virtual online. typing sex.lol.. I cannot believe.
well maybe I can.. the other day there was a topic called horny..
where some bozo posted a pic of his privates... so perhaps you're right.
Us men let our Johnson's .. lead us around.. but for myself.. I like to have fun.. but I do not plan on jumping from bed to bed... one bed one woman would be fine with me...
. well ok two beds:.. hers and mine.
at least for now.. have to see how it goes I guess... I mean if the fun stops..
then I guess I'll just have to find somebody else that is fun... and start the whole process all over again..lmao

So true for most but not for me. I still value persons, and true commitment. I still believe in love as it was meant to be between two people who value each other and are in that relationship because they genuinely appreciate the person they feel is extremely special and worthy of their trust and devotion. It's truly my belief and my expectation! Call me stupid if you will but I know it will happen despite anything.

"Fun" = man comes in, clothes come off, business conducted, clothes back on, man leaves.

I agree it really depends on the people. I have seen couples develop and evolve into lasting happy relationships.

There will always be the players and if you are willing to put up with it then I guess it is an option. Not one I am interested in.
What I have found you just have to see what people are about over time.

First of all, if there is one thing women need to understand about us dudes it is this......even we dudes have no idea what the hell we want (most of the time). Honestly....we are walking through this world wondering nine times out of ten what kind of woman will just makes us weak in the knees. Yes...guys do wonder what kind of woman will get them, stroke their ego when they need it, will play to our vanity at times, and will keep us in check. Because at the end of the day we kind of do need a bit of a babysitter (for a short time mind you) to help us.

Sex is important to both male and female. I grow tired of women wanting to throw us dudes all being sex crazed beings. Oh we love it and we love looking at women. I mean...can you blame us? You ladies are beautiful creatures, and oh so tempting to the eyes. Guys are all different...this is true. But deep down all dudes want a gal who is their own version of Mrs. Right. What that is????....Have to ask each dude.

Anyways....yeah....I am done being somewhat serious here.

Charles, you're awesome!

That was a very good answer, goofball.

I agree with Sweetest, when it's used in a profile description it usually means casual hookup, BUT as Goof said most of us don't know what the hell we want till it's standing right in front of us...So when someone expressing interest in me has that in their profile, it's not going to be an immediate deal breaker...I'll spend some time getting to know him, then I'll decide....

Totally agree with all the statements everyone is making and I appreciate it, but I was asking weather it was easier for men to say here for fun than actually wanting something more serious or just a good chat, or are they really just here for fun . I know what it means when it says fun, of course it means casual hookups and what not but it was a question to those people who are hiding behind that for their own reasons. But I am aslo enjoying hearing from everyone and where they are at in their lives (:

I'm on here for whatever. to have fun.
to chat.. to express myself.
to be creative.. and to meet other people.. from other parts of Mother Earth.. thats it thats all.. oh yeah.
and hopefully meet a woman.!!.
who I can have fun with.. wink wink nudge nudge..lol

Op is gorgeous don't settle ever....

hmmmm... they will leave? I don;t have to share the quilts or make breakfast?

Eh...only when I have had a beer does my wisdom shine.

In your profile you are only looking for goodlooking men. Maybe it's just goodlooking men who aren't looking for something serious.