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Topic: Why do younger guys like older women?
Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Thu 01/09/14 07:19 PM
The odd one Betty but there always seems to be an ulterior motive

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 01/09/14 07:25 PM Edited by 2KidsMom on Thu 01/09/14 07:32 PM
Makes you wonder I suppose... I've had friends all different ages.. But never really had any younger ones..say they like me as a woman or Really interested..more than just friends.. in fact it can be blurry.at best. ?

Journeyman236 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 2786	Thu 01/09/14 07:36 PM
Makes you wonder I suppose... I've had friends all different ages.. But never really had any younger ones..say they like me as a woman or Really interested..more than just friends.. in fact it can be blurry.at best. ? Blurry, with so many words.. well said Clownface

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Fri 01/10/14 12:14 PM
The odd one Betty but there always seems to be an ulterior motive How is this any different from older men?

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 01/10/14 12:48 PM Edited by Leigh2154 on Fri 01/10/14 12:50 PM
Top 10: Things We Love About Older Women... 10. They are independent... 9. They are assertive... 8. They are good conversationalists... 7. They have more money... 6. They have more mature friendships... 5. They make better dates... 4. They are less drama prone... 3. They have more sexual experience... 2. They have more relationship experience... 1. They value time spent together... http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-things-we-love-about-older-women_1.html

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 01/10/14 12:57 PM
Top 10: Things We Love About Older Women... 10. They are independent... 9. They are assertive... 8. They are good conversationalists... 7. They have more money... 6. They have more mature friendships... 5. They make better dates... 4. They are less drama prone... 3. They have more sexual experience... 2. They have more relationship experience... 1. They value time spent together... http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-things-we-love-about-older-women_1.html and here I was thinking it was easier to see down their blouses.

jerseygirlSINGLE Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 3598	Fri 01/10/14 01:09 PM
They love us because we're Awsome I get a lot of message from younger guys but the best one was a young man telling me how much he loves me and wow he can't believe im 47 so I message him back and told him wow I can't believe your 21 wow I have a kid older than you wow I like older men Sorry I had PMS that day

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 01/10/14 01:10 PM
Top 10: Things We Love About Older Women... 10. They are independent... 9. They are assertive... 8. They are good conversationalists... 7. They have more money... 6. They have more mature friendships... 5. They make better dates... 4. They are less drama prone... 3. They have more sexual experience... 2. They have more relationship experience... 1. They value time spent together... http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-things-we-love-about-older-women_1.html and here I was thinking it was easier to see down their blouses.

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Fri 01/10/14 02:15 PM
The odd one Betty but there always seems to be an ulterior motive How is this any different from older men? Ha! True enough

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Fri 01/10/14 02:25 PM Edited by Candiapples on Fri 01/10/14 02:25 PM
I should clarify that I was talking more about a big age differece when the guy is in his 20's and 30's and the woman is 50 and up. I believe once a man is around 45 and up and dating women 20 yrs his senior, it really isn't that big of a deal.Hes probably had many of the same experiences by that age and is at the same maturity level [we hope anyways]

JohnDavidDavid Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 334	Fri 01/10/14 06:03 PM
When I was a teenager (age sixteen or seventeen), I had a relationship with a woman of twenty-eight -- and learned a great deal about relationships and about sexuality. Now, at age seventy-four "everybody" is younger -- and many who are younger act older. To me age is insignificant as compared to a person's mental, physical, and personal characteristics.

Jax904 Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 28	Sat 01/11/14 05:10 AM
When I was a teenager (age sixteen or seventeen), I had a relationship with a woman of twenty-eight -- and learned a great deal about relationships and about sexuality. To me age is insignificant as compared to a person's mental, physical, and personal characteristics. I had the same experience and it was a relationship. She was single and I was living in my own place so it was not a "forbidden affair" or anything like it for us. I learned so much about relationships and sex from her that it developed my overall view of women. Overall maturity and intelligence attracts me regardless of the number (age) involved. Age only represents chronological years not life experiences.

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 01/11/14 08:29 AM
Because they can I've noticed tht the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teah their sons how to ewspect and treat women?

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 01/11/14 08:29 AM Edited by Candiapples on Sat 01/11/14 08:32 AM


Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 01/11/14 08:31 AM Edited by Candiapples on Sat 01/11/14 08:33 AM
Because they can I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women? Just saying [my babble of the day]

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sat 01/11/14 08:42 AM
Because they can I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women? Just saying [my babble of the day] I would think the responsibility would fall to the fathers as in teaching by example...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/11/14 08:46 AM
Because they can I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women? Just saying [my babble of the day] honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men. I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger) I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 01/11/14 08:52 AM
Because they can I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women? Just saying [my babble of the day] honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men. I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger) I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/11/14 08:57 AM
Because they can I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women? Just saying [my babble of the day] honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men. I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger) I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho I see it..most of the men here looking for older woman want to be looked after in one way or another. I was in denial for a long time but now I see it for what it is. And yes I do believe the father has a role in teaching by example. I tend to agree. and I'm not saying that all younger men are like that either. there are exceptions to just about everything. What they will learn from their fathers is how to treat women.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sat 01/11/14 08:58 AM Edited by Leigh2154 on Sat 01/11/14 09:07 AM
Because they can I've noticed that the men who have had relationships with older women cherish the fact that they learned from these women. A good stepping stone we are to them having a good relationship in the future. Where [I have to ask] are the mothers of these men? Isn't it their job to teach their sons how to respect and treat women? Just saying [my babble of the day] honestly I don;t really see the relationship regarding mothers. I do not have any intention of "mothering" my partner. I did not mother my partner when I dated younger men. I also do not see myself as a stepping stone to someone else. If a man sees me that way, or I think that is his intention, I will not date him, irrespective of age. That is pretty much why I broke up with the last younger man I dated. I felt that he saw things as you are describing them and that is unacceptable to me. It's also why I do not date younger now (as in much younger) I made it a point NOT to "teach" the younger guys I dated anything...that's allowing oneself to be used. jmho I agree..The young men I spend time with are usually in heavy like first and it's based more on respect and admiration than on the Mrs. Robinson sex me up scenario...I have zero interest in adopting or potty training ....Those days are long gone.....