In the 21st Century C.E., a true girlfriend will . . .

. . . recognize her relationship with her boyfriend as being a partnership, not a case of a princess having a man-servant.


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[OK, Men, add your input.]

Will stop judging us on past boyfriends and carrying that baggage into a relationship!

Let's you make some of the decisions from time to time.

will let me show her I'm genuine not matter what happened in her past and let me treat her with the class,patience, and respect she really deserves.

Will date you for who you are, and not what's in your wallet =D Am i right? =D

... will steer clear from guys with a pathetic tit for tat attitude. meaning all of you so far, with exception of Jack.

If you compare what women come up with in "A true boyfriend will ... " with this BS ...
Mostly positive, loving and non-judgmental things. What do men do? Very childishly open this topic, so you can start having a go at women.
If this is how you feel about women, what are you doing here? Stick with the hand-jive and deactivate!

The good thing is that it makes clear which ones of you are mature and come up with a decent answer and which ones of you aren't.

And it proves that I was right with my topic "woman are more advanced than men when it comes to personal growth".
Like I said in that thread: No wonder so many women can't find a mature man: if you lot are representative of what's out there, they barely exist.

Have fun with you tit for tat, don't forget to get the beer out when you have your men-group session of feeling sorry for yourselves :)

I see we've rattled your cage Crystal? Don't give it out, if you can't take it back? We had a thread, saying what woman wanted, now its our turn. If you don't like it, you don't have to read it? Simple as?

Look it works both ways I am pretty sure that men and women want pretty much the same things in a relationship, faithful, honest, caring, loving, each side should be made to feel special, each side should work at keeping the relationship alive, a true boyfriend and girlfriend will accept each other, will walk proudly beside each other, will not let anyone or anything come between them and will be faithful will ask each other how their day was and listen to each other without judgement

No dear, not rattled my cage. It's just rather pathetic how most men go about it. Why not come up with something real and positive instead of having a go at women. That's what you do in the pub, ain't that enough? And what's the added value of it here?
Knockin men was NOT the intention of 'our' topic (just read the OP of that one), so why did your male egos get so upset by it? (rhetorical question)
Respectful replies with a bit of humour could've been fun, both here and in 'our' topic. But lavishing medieval BS on us, ain't.
All I can say is: grow up!

Well i should have said it works for both ways!!! Dang it, now i'm a jerk =/

^This

Yep sorry, you're now forever branded.

I know right, she probably thinks i'm young and naive!! =(d Sad life, i shall cry myself to sleep =/

A true girlfriend will not mind me being a bloke and will even like me for it and not start an argument every time I say something about women.

What's that all about anyway? Do I mind women saying things about men, especially if they're not even talking about me specifically? Hey, I don't even like football.

I even know women that say things about other women. Can you imagine?

Somebody here seems rather defencive methinks.

Well done Jack, you get to hand the pencils out.


Here is what women want and expect, the positive, loving and non-judgmental things men should do,
Let you wear his clothes
Give you the world
Watch your favorite movie
Kiss you in the pouring rain
Stay on the phone even when your not talking
Grab your neck when he kisses you
When your mad he will hug you tight and not let go
When you say your ok he won't believe you and will talk it out
On your birthday he will call at 12 am to say I love you
He will tease you and let you tease him back
When you run up to him crying the first thing he says is Who's azz am I kicking babe?

Forgive me for failing the test, but some of this seems a little controlling to me.
I prefer no one to wear my clothes, I am unable to give the world, I have no wish to smooch in the pouring rain (silly me), or remain hanging on the 'phone until I am graced with communication because they have a moody, or remain within striking distance when they have lost it.

A true girlfriend will get her behind in the kitchen and make me a sandwich

Wow! Bitter much Crystal? Good Lord woman. Did you happen to see the very first post? Pretty sure it said "Men, add your input." So they do and you go off on them about going off on us! Since when does two wrongs make a right?

I'd just leave 'em alone to gripe here. For one, you're not a man! For two, what's so bad about what they want? Seems fairly realistic to me. I personally know lots of women that treat current boyfriends in accordance to how past boyfriends treated them which is just not fair. Same goes for women that want a man for his money and relish the princess complex. They're not looking for a partnership, they want to be taken care of and love being just arm candy. To each their own but it's gotta be just as hard on guys finding decent caring women as it is on women finding decent caring guys.

Why jump in a thread asking for mens' opinions and throw a tantrum about what they're saying? That seems pretty childish if ya ask me, and it makes ya look like a raging biotch. You might as well take your own advice and deactivate. Or go take a Pamprin or something. Sorry, but if you can dish it out, you should be able to take it as well.

a true girlfriend will....


fix me a sammich while she's washing the sheets after we bump uglies

And I was so sure you were just gonna say "show me her (.)(.)s whenever I want!" You disappointed me JT!