Just trust your instincts on decision making and keep going chill

Tia the Problem of life is when people start judging you. No one can ever understand the way one feels and the way their circumstances are. Whats wrong or right is ones own perspective and everyone has a right to his/her beleif.

I liked the way you started this community and brought it us from a small town like Karnal. Ihings must be tougher in small towns compare to Delhi, Mumbai etc where nobody knows nobody.

never a good idea....always ends up hurting ppl.
it may seem a convenient and natural thing to do....but its always more complicated thn it appears on th surface.
End the marriage first...be emotionally,physically,socially and legally available to your partner.

gud one..

wat if the partner is not available.. he z busy.. wat do you do then?

This is true.. in metro cities like Delhi.. people understand things better.. but its hard to believe, thr r some people who get educated from good institutes but their thinking remains the same when it comes to marriage...

Tia I m alone from punjab

I m alone from punjab

This life is too short but its full of beauties. One must not restrict him or her from enjoying the beauties of this nature. Besides, one must care the person to the most and make him or her feel good. If no one cares or rude to you then it is crystal that he or she is far away from you.

very true...

To find true and caring people is a rare commodity these days but one must always be positive and thinking right.

tia r u thr???? could i say u the wright soln

Well said..

Yes.. please say..

what ur thought now??? still blank???

Hey tia..read u 4 1st tym here..n lready feelin ur lonelinss in ma heart...u hv askd 2 jstify y one shud hv extramaritl affair...m nt gving ma intellignce verdict...bt m tryin 2 draw inferencs frm ur situatn nly...d thing dt brings u here z ur dstrbd mrried lyf..n wtevr ppl sy..abt dz..whthr gd r bd..bt d bottm lyn z dz..dt u urselv 9 d lvl f ur mrrige lyf..its cmplictd enugh 2 wrk 4 u agn..i wud say jz go 4 it wt ur hvin in ur mind..hv urselv in ur dreams...wt d sense 2 put a burdn f luggag full f emptinss f sm1 else who'z nt evn feelin ur lonelinss...n aftr n abv all..abt ur kids..i jz wanna ask u a qustn...if u urselv nt hppy hw cud u provide or delivr hppinss 2 sm1 else...so to mke ur kids hppy u 1 st hv 2 mde urself d sme ...so dun hv ny 2nd thought n go 4 d 2nd optn...n beliv me its d ryt dcision if u choose it wisely...

Hey tia..read u 4 1st tym here..n lready feelin ur lonelinss in ma heart...u hv askd 2 jstify y one shud hv extramaritl affair...m nt gving ma intellignce verdict...bt m tryin 2 draw inferencs frm ur situatn nly...d thing dt brings u here z ur dstrbd mrried lyf..n wtevr ppl sy..abt dz..whthr gd r bd..bt d bottm lyn z dz..dt u urselv 9 d lvl f ur mrrige lyf..its cmplictd enugh 2 wrk 4 u agn..i wud say jz go 4 it wt ur hvin in ur mind..hv urselv in ur dreams...wt d sense 2 put a burdn f luggag full f emptinss f sm1 else who'z nt evn feelin ur lonelinss...n aftr n abv all..abt ur kids..i jz wanna ask u a qustn...if u urselv nt hppy hw cud u provide or delivr hppinss 2 sm1 else...so to mke ur kids hppy u 1 st hv 2 mde urself d sme ...so dun hv ny 2nd thought n go 4 d 2nd optn...n beliv me its d ryt dcision if u choose it wisely...

Big metros also have similar natured people who have no empathy and are too busy in their work to share time with friends or loved ones. None have courtesy, respect, care and affection to share. Everyone is busy in this fast-running life. It is difficult to trust people in this fast lane of life. Broken mirror always has a line.

If we think about ourself.. we can take just a moment to file just some papers and move ahead in our life but no matter what.. it has an heavy impact on a child.. Till he becomes of the age when he understands the reasons.. till the time.. he will start hating either of his parent.. who leaves him because this is natural, he will always think that the other parent left him.. With this blog.. i don't want to ask any one to leave their partner but just a question to ask for happiness, if they can get from talking to another one.. some one special.. One should not be blamed for unloyality then..

Well.. I guess.. its our luck if we get the right people, no matter what the place is..