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sum1 proved one reason y one shudn have.. u dun get respect.. people start abusing u.. it has already started happening here.. Dats wat i tol u mate :D |
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i hope it is not a good decision to have an extramartial affair if u have any problem with u r partner solve it by talking nd understanding eachother if u cant do so u can never depend on only one person
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life z nt stable.. d world has *** to such a point that u can't trust any1.. if u share ur feelings with sum1..u dun knw wen they start misusing u.. atleast in ur relationship u can cry n feel better rather than wait for ur trust to be broken.. one more thing z true.. if u can't adjust with one person.. watz d guarantee u vl adjust with d other..
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Soo what do you want???
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its not about what to want.. its jus a topic to think about..
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the thing is not what you want or any other people think i feel that having some one to share all your problems releasing your stress when your not happy is good because life never gives happiness all the time sometimes in life you have to adjust ... but that doesnt mean that you have to live like that all the time when your partner doeesnt care of you ... you have your choices open so i believe having an afair to be loved and happy is healthy and good for our own self esteem
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Tia what happens eventually is that the female is judged on her moral values and all...and shes degraded...no one tries to understand the psyche of the female that what made her do so...also as one of the members said males(inspite of me being one) are always on the look out for such susceptible victims,for them its a one night stand,and they never ever can understand the emotional upheavals a woman goes through..
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Very true.. razerblast.. nicely said..
malikgastya.. tatz d only thing.. one fears of.. rightly said.. |
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joys.
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Hmmm...well...if you find a true friend who cares and supports u n dsnt mk u feel lonely then i guess he should probably tel u to try n wrk out tings wit ur partner rather than anytin else. if all goes well then cool else u got ur frnd for support. aint dat rite tia? rightly said |
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if its upto friendship then its right! As if you are married you have duty towards your kids and husband..if the marriage is loveless..if its all mechanical! Then may be u sud talk to the hubby! Settle it! Or divorce n start a new life again! See in extra maritial affair what happens is guys usually take advantage of gals emotinal break dowm..its tuff to find a rite guy who'l undastnd d prb..may be he'l juz say yes3 to all..bt myt have diff thots fo u.. Its wrong to have extra maritial affair..bt after sepration its rite very apt suggestion |
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Is having extramarital affair not right when you are living a loveless life, life always of doubts. Is it not right to have a friend who listens to you, supports you and cares for you and u don't feel alone. few things to give attention 1)dont give a weapon to ur current partner ,which can be used against u 2)ask urself;what would be your reaction or emotional hurt/anger if u come to know that ur partner is also indulging in some sort of adulterous relation? 3)we all have a hidden beastly side which is suppressed by social factors(read between lines;i mean sexual urge or childish emotion leading to casual sex is not expected from good people with morale;both from men & women;& i believe u r one of them) 4)now the person who is appearing to be ur current heartthrob or solace to ur mind;may appear the reverse in future;or if u r a unlucky woman then that guy may be a characterless freak;bcoz indulging in these activities with a married woman indicate to the same. 5)yup;attraction or bonding may happen to another guy apart from ur hubby;but remember of ur children & duties towards them at same time.control these emotions.may be u r feeling bored;that does not mean u will ditch or betray ur hubby. invest time in ur relation rather than indulging extra marital affair.ask ur own faults.try to address ur hubbys grievances.remember he is closest till now.he may be dull boring careless but leave him only if he is cruel/characterless.but remember if u indulge in adultery u r gonna be included in second list too.dont get that tag.dont repeat same mistakes.wish u happy future. regards |
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Is having extramarital affair not right when you are living a loveless life, life always of doubts. Is it not right to have a friend who listens to you, supports you and cares for you and u don't feel alone. few things to give attention 1)dont give a weapon to ur current partner ,which can be used against u 2)ask urself;what would be your reaction or emotional hurt/anger if u come to know that ur partner is also indulging in some sort of adulterous relation? 3)we all have a hidden beastly side which is suppressed by social factors(read between lines;i mean sexual urge or childish emotion leading to casual sex is not expected from good people with morale;both from men & women;& i believe u r one of them) 4)now the person who is appearing to be ur current heartthrob or solace to ur mind;may appear the reverse in future;or if u r a unlucky woman then that guy may be a characterless freak;bcoz indulging in these activities with a married woman indicate to the same. 5)yup;attraction or bonding may happen to another guy apart from ur hubby;but remember of ur children & duties towards them at same time.control these emotions.may be u r feeling bored;that does not mean u will ditch or betray ur hubby. invest time in ur relation rather than indulging extra marital affair.ask ur own faults.try to address ur hubbys grievances.remember he is closest till now.he may be dull boring careless but leave him only if he is cruel/characterless.but remember if u indulge in adultery u r gonna be included in second list too.dont get that tag.dont repeat same mistakes.wish u happy future. regards |
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one can have extra marital if he/she is not satisfied with his/her mate
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Hummmm I read your post and solutions of some guys , I think you really need a good friend because you are in pressure and only a real friend can take out from this. And I think every problem have solution. And an extra marrital affair will increase your problem. This friend may be male may be female. And talk to your hubby to about your problem it takes time not in minutes.if I can help I am here......be happy always..........
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Very well written..
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tia I went through ur posts nd its very sad that u are facing such thing in your married life so I would suggest u that I u feel comfortable with some or in other words if he is a good friend of urs then there is nothing wrong in that but It should be in a limit you should never indulge in any activity that could affect ur dignity or self respect in a negative manner. so plz speak with ur husband about it, I am sure together you will definitely find a solution to it....but plz dont do any thing that could worsen the situation for u....
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tia having extramaritial affairs if the reasons to have it r not extreme.but think every thing every consequences if u want to have it have it.satisfaction is something u cant earn by advice .every1can show u a way .but u have to walk on it.think onit.
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Consequences is one thing a girl fears of and lets herself lost in her world only..
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