Tia I think its all bout being happy .. and if having affair makes some one happy then u shd have it

Change is natural and one must dare to face this universal fact. One day you are a bachelor and the other day you are married. One moment you are very happy and the other moment your partner is rude with ya and insult ya...you are very sad.
I Agree that one must do which is near to a person's heart. Also agree once ya start doing and feeling happy your priorities are changed. But it doesnt jump to conclusion that one has no right to make him or her happy and enjoy what he or she needs. Priorities change during the passage of time. One day ya hv different priorities and the other day ya have others. So that is not a BIG issue to think about. Just a thing to consider.....is it bad to be happy or is it bad to do a thing which makes ya happy. The person who has no time for ya may be enjoying what he or she wants to do then why should one feel bad for the things which makes a person happy and give personal space. Everyone needs space, time, care and respect and a man must give to a woman. I regret if I hurt anyone's sentiments but its truely my personal views.

Guarantee comes from trust. One must build trust to attract trust. To build a trust, one must take cautious steps.

You r right tia

Agreed that trust is a rare commodity too. But I do trust ppl even though tht trust has been shaken many times. Whatever is the reason, I cant change my inner self due to others. Better live this life to one's happiness instead of thinking about others tht they broke ya, they cheated ya and they don care for ya. Instead one must do one's natural feelings and do his or her best to make oneself happy. Again.....never sacrifice care, respect, time and sincerity for a friend who is true to ya.

Hello :)

Being very emotional and straight forward, my point in my last blog was that trust is important but once it is broken it is impossible to rebuild it with the same person. On the other hand you can build it with a new person but not the same person. Yes, its true that you can't leave a person who breaks your trust time and again due to social reasons you have no choice. But this doesn't restrict you to explore new friends and build trust to share all what you like to. Again....we cant express everything in public.

Hi tia... having a extramarital affair is good until and unless we are in our limits but I thing dats not the pure solution for your problem, I dont know wats going in your life but only thing I can say is, in every relation there will be misunderstanding it's our decision whether to overcome this problem or to run away from this problem... If you can't solve this problem better to give divorce to him and have a happy new life... But whatever decision you take it should not effect your family(I mean parents and children's if any). Take a brave decision which can solve your problem permanently... It's an advice from unknown friend please don't take it other way... hope you have a great n happy life ahead... "Problems may come and go but life will come only once, don't waste it with tears, sad enjoy it with smile on face because smile is the only thing that gives us courage to face any problem " keep smiling I hope it suits you alot :)

Thankyou.. very well written.. sometimes u r in a situiation.. where u can't leave that person and where thr r no hopes of solving the problems in between.. Sometimes 2 people are just perfectly imperfect for each other.. If divorce would be a solution.. the blog name would not be extramarital affair here..

I agree with you that divorce may not Be The solution but having extramarital relationship is also not a solution for this problem.. If your husband comes to know about the relationship you have with other person imagine what is going to happen, it will become one more problem to you... So try to find permanent solution for this problem I believe that every problem has its own solution... "Life is too short, make it worth" if you give more time for problem you will not going to have time for yourself...

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