There are lot of things.. it depends on your friend.. if we talk about having a friend after marriage..if ur friend is unmarried, he/she will have more expectations from you as well until n unless he/she is God like and does not expect anything from u, thatz a different story.. and if the friend is married.. wen priorties come into place.. no one will leave their priorites and responsibilities for frndshp..

I wholesomely agree with you that if the friend is unmarried he would have more expectations and if he is married then his priorities might be different. Lets not talk about unmarried coz a bachelor will certainly have more expectations and risky too. But I am slightly disagree with you about married persons. Its correct that he/she might has different priorities but true friends can sort them out with understanding and trust and can definitely assist each other and help him or her out of problems. When two friends are floating in identical situations they certainly take time out to resolve issues of friends and this is my cemented view that it CAN happen provided two trusts each other. Every situation is totally different and the solution is always according to facts and circumstances.

Now I slightly intend to talk about divorce. I am fully agree that divorce is a stigma in Indian society especially for a woman. Hence, a person must find a solution of his or her problems within the boundary of his/her married life. Im sure if two true quality friends are there they must find a solution for his/her friend and provide as much solace as he/she wants with their efforts.

Last but not the least, one must not forget that he or she is alive in this beautiful world and he or she must remain VERY POSITIVE. Life has lots to give us and we must take it with open arms without thinking that a person whom you are married has no feelings and carings for your deeds. I understand that every time it is not possible but one can strive and try to find time for him or her personal life.

life is beautifull .enjoy it.dont care what people think

That was very nicely written.. One would be very lucky.. if he /she gets a friend like this..

U are right.. one should not think about what others think of him/her..

A few true gestures and efforts might assist him or her to get a true and quality friend.

With a long discussion on the topic of extramarital affair, i would like to add a small topic "guilt"
What if u get a type of friend u want, u r happy, satisfied, all settled but somewhere thr keeos coming a guilt in ur mind.. u r doing it wrong.. wat do u do thn?

Very frankly speaking, one must have some kind of personal space for his or her life. One has right to enjoy the happiness of this beautiful life. If something likens to your heart, no one has any right to deprive you from it. Everything happens for a reason. If someone met a true and quality friend, then one must proceed with his or her happiness. Is it wrong to make one's own heart sad.....is it wrong to live for one's own life.....is it a guilt if a person does something which is accepted to his or her heart and make him or her satisfied? The clear answer is NO. The issue of guilt only comes when you are confused. If one discusses this guilt issue with true friend, I am sure the true friend will certainly give proper and selfless advice. This discussion leads to answer that "feeling happy and satisfied is not any wrong and does not lead to any guilt". I will like to add one more thing that one must not disclose private life to open public. Many people around us may intend to take advantage and exploit the situation. We must keep it confidential. I hope one can easily understand what I meant to.

What if instead of feeling guilty... u fall in love with ur friend.. and you know, nothing can happen, life becomes more complex.

Yes

Yes u r saying absolutely right

Yes u r saying absolutely right

Tia! Read yr Many Cmmnts and feel yr Loneliness.. N i am nt able to give you suggestions or advices,, All the peoples hv different way to observe and judge the other person.. Nd if da prblm is wid u den no one can observe and judge it better than you, only people can give dere opinion but da best step is taken only by u..finishing my cmmnt by saying dt Tia! Dnt worry All will be gonna fine.. Juzzz be happy,, All is well

Thanx..

Hi :)

helo

Agreed. But if both understand and trust each other then two will find the ways to sort things out without any kinda complexity. It needs to see the problem and find the solutions within our boundaries. There is no problem which has no solution.

mam i agree with u

There are some problems to which u know the solutions but u cannot apply them coz of the circumstances..

Thankyou..