Topic: Ladies...if you had to choose.... | |
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Could you give up your stuff for the good of your relationship?
Say you could keep one purse and a few cosmetic items and suitcase full of clothing? Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? |
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But I like my stuff.
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But I like my stuff. But he really loves you and you have awesome sex every night. |
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But I like my stuff. But he really loves you and you have awesome sex every night. Ohhh....that's a tough one. |
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But I like my stuff. But he really loves you and you have awesome sex every night. Ohhh....that's a tough one. |
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But....different stuff makes different women happy.
I like happy women. Let em keep their stuff. The last thing I would want is a woman resenting me over something as trivial as stuff. :) |
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But....different stuff makes different women happy. I like happy women. Let em keep their stuff. The last thing I would want is a woman resenting me over something as trivial as stuff. :) That's very true. I don't actually DO "stuff" myself. If you plan to make me to shop, you'd better bring the hard liquor. |
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Yes I would...all that is materialistic.
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Nope; I wouldn't give up a damn thing for a relationship. It sounds like a control issue to me and I would end up resenting a guy asking me to do that.
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Could you give up your stuff for the good of your relationship? Say you could keep one purse and a few cosmetic items and suitcase full of clothing? Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay? Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for? no I cannot see any circumstance where I would willingly do that. I don;t have much stuff anyway |
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Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes.
That's just cruel and unusual punishment |
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Easy peasy to do.
Now when he says 'Stuff it!' are all bets off? |
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sat 08/10/13 11:30 AM
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Nope; I wouldn't give up a damn thing for a relationship. It sounds like a control issue to me and I would end up resenting a guy asking me to do that. I wasn't as clear as I should have been. "For the good of the relationship" was supposed to mean due to some circumstance...not because he just wants you to. I hadn't thought about that at all, cause I don't see why a guy would ask you to ditch your stuff....but suppose it happens by not only yours, but reactions I got in my similar thread for the fellas. |
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Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes. That's just cruel and unusual punishment I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. |
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Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes. That's just cruel and unusual punishment I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. No...of course its not. But I am not above making compromises for love. If I can keep my purses, cosmetics and clothes, I will give up cooking ,cleaning ,and laundry . |
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Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes. That's just cruel and unusual punishment I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. No...of course its not. But I am not above making compromises for love. If I can keep my purses, cosmetics and clothes, I will give up cooking ,cleaning ,and laundry . But I think if I were used to having a lot of comforts and convenience with me, I would consider it harder to give up what I had grown accustomed to. You can't miss what you don't know. |
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Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes. That's just cruel and unusual punishment I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. No...of course its not. But I am not above making compromises for love. If I can keep my purses, cosmetics and clothes, I will give up cooking ,cleaning ,and laundry But I think if I were used to having a lot of comforts and convenience with me, I would consider it harder to give up what I had grown accustomed to. You can't miss what you don't know. That is very true. Makes perfect sense to me. |
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Nope; I wouldn't give up a damn thing for a relationship. It sounds like a control issue to me and I would end up resenting a guy asking me to do that. I wasn't as clear as I should have been. "For the good of the relationship" was supposed to mean due to some circumstance...not because he just wants you to. I hadn't thought about that at all, cause I don't see why a guy would ask you to ditch your stuff....but suppose it happens by not only yours, but reactions I got in my similar thread for the fellas. I don't see how giving up any of my stuff would help a relationship unless I was a hoarder. |
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For a rich man, I'll give up everything except my son......shopping spree..... I want a taste of the"kept" & "pampered" lifestyle
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I've had most of my stuff longer than I've had relationships.
There's my answer. |
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