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Topic: Ladies...if you had to choose....
1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/09/13 09:19 PM
Could you give up your stuff for the good of your relationship?

Say you could keep one purse and a few cosmetic items and suitcase full of clothing?

Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay?

Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for?

Winx's photo
Fri 08/09/13 09:35 PM
But I like my stuff. tongue2

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/09/13 09:38 PM

But I like my stuff. tongue2


But he really loves you and you have awesome sex every night. :wink:


Winx's photo
Fri 08/09/13 09:40 PM


But I like my stuff. tongue2


But he really loves you and you have awesome sex every night. :wink:




Ohhh....that's a tough one. laugh

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/09/13 10:04 PM



But I like my stuff. tongue2


But he really loves you and you have awesome sex every night. :wink:




Ohhh....that's a tough one. laugh


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krupa's photo
Fri 08/09/13 10:18 PM
But....different stuff makes different women happy.

I like happy women.

Let em keep their stuff.

The last thing I would want is a woman resenting me over something as trivial as stuff.

:)

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 08/09/13 10:33 PM

But....different stuff makes different women happy.

I like happy women.

Let em keep their stuff.

The last thing I would want is a woman resenting me over something as trivial as stuff.

:)


That's very true. I don't actually DO "stuff" myself. If you plan to make me to shop, you'd better bring the hard liquor. drinks

no photo
Fri 08/09/13 10:40 PM
Yes I would...all that is materialistic.
:heart:

navygirl's photo
Fri 08/09/13 10:40 PM
Nope; I wouldn't give up a damn thing for a relationship. It sounds like a control issue to me and I would end up resenting a guy asking me to do that.

no photo
Sat 08/10/13 09:49 AM

Could you give up your stuff for the good of your relationship?

Say you could keep one purse and a few cosmetic items and suitcase full of clothing?

Would you walk away, or sacrifice and stay?

Would it matter if it were an established relationship or someone new who you really cared for?


no

I cannot see any circumstance where I would willingly do that. I don;t have much stuff anyway

BettyB's photo
Sat 08/10/13 10:02 AM
Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes.
That's just cruel and unusual punishment laugh laugh

soufiehere's photo
Sat 08/10/13 11:26 AM
Easy peasy to do.
Now when he says 'Stuff it!' are all bets off?

1Cynderella's photo
Sat 08/10/13 11:29 AM
Edited by 1Cynderella on Sat 08/10/13 11:30 AM

Nope; I wouldn't give up a damn thing for a relationship. It sounds like a control issue to me and I would end up resenting a guy asking me to do that.


I wasn't as clear as I should have been. "For the good of the relationship" was supposed to mean due to some circumstance...not because he just wants you to. I hadn't thought about that at all, cause I don't see why a guy would ask you to ditch your stuff....but suppose it happens by not only yours, but reactions I got in my similar thread for the fellas. flowerforyou


1Cynderella's photo
Sat 08/10/13 11:33 AM

Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes.
That's just cruel and unusual punishment laugh laugh


I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. :laughing:

BettyB's photo
Sat 08/10/13 11:41 AM


Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes.
That's just cruel and unusual punishment laugh laugh


I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. :laughing:

No...of course its not.flowerforyou

But I am not above making compromises for love.
If I can keep my purses, cosmetics and clothes, I will give up cooking ,cleaning ,and laundrybigsmile

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1Cynderella's photo
Sat 08/10/13 12:40 PM



Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes.
That's just cruel and unusual punishment laugh laugh


I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. :laughing:

No...of course its not.flowerforyou

But I am not above making compromises for love.
If I can keep my purses, cosmetics and clothes, I will give up cooking ,cleaning ,and laundrybigsmile

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I'm just kidding you Betty. :wink: Well, not about living out of a suitcase...that's actually too true. flowerforyou

But I think if I were used to having a lot of comforts and convenience with me, I would consider it harder to give up what I had grown accustomed to. You can't miss what you don't know. :thumbsup:

BettyB's photo
Sat 08/10/13 12:46 PM




Only one purse?????????Only a few cosmetics ? Only one suitcase of clothes.
That's just cruel and unusual punishment laugh laugh


I was not aware my life was so miserable...I've been living out of one suitcase for most of my life. :laughing:

No...of course its not.flowerforyou

But I am not above making compromises for love.
If I can keep my purses, cosmetics and clothes, I will give up cooking ,cleaning ,and laundrybigsmile




I'm just kidding you Betty. :wink: Well, not about living out of a suitcase...that's actually too true. flowerforyou

But I think if I were used to having a lot of comforts and convenience with me, I would consider it harder to give up what I had grown accustomed to. You can't miss what you don't know. :thumbsup:
That is very true. Makes perfect sense to me.

navygirl's photo
Mon 08/12/13 04:01 PM


Nope; I wouldn't give up a damn thing for a relationship. It sounds like a control issue to me and I would end up resenting a guy asking me to do that.


I wasn't as clear as I should have been. "For the good of the relationship" was supposed to mean due to some circumstance...not because he just wants you to. I hadn't thought about that at all, cause I don't see why a guy would ask you to ditch your stuff....but suppose it happens by not only yours, but reactions I got in my similar thread for the fellas. flowerforyou




I don't see how giving up any of my stuff would help a relationship unless I was a hoarder.

eyemaflirt247's photo
Mon 08/12/13 04:07 PM
For a rich man, I'll give up everything except my son......shopping spree..... I want a taste of the"kept" & "pampered" lifestylelove love :wink:

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Mon 08/12/13 04:07 PM
I've had most of my stuff longer than I've had relationships.
There's my answer.
drinker

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