I see that ones been taken already hmmz great minds? Lol

I'm single beacause all the guys with great sex & their own money are taken....

im just getting back into dating now that my divorce is finalized

I am the reincarnation of King Tut...only flammable.

Maybe Because I'm ugly

For me its never been hard to find women, that's because they seem to find me most of the time The problem is being able to connect with most of them. So it usually ends up being where we have some fun and it ends there.

because I'm smart heh

Outside looks fine to me!

Are you ugly inside?

I'm single because some Bozo forgot to put me on the priority list!

Oh shhhhhhoot, that was me!!!!

Choice.

I have no fugging clue.....that's probably why

probably cuz I won;t "go along" or "give in" just to keep the peace. I stick to my guns when I think something is a bad idea or not in my best interests......I won;t allow them to "convince me" ....a lot of men can;t handle that (it drove my ex nuts)

I really do not argue, but also seldom give in. I will not tolerate being told what to do, nor do I allow anyone to "schedule" my free time for me....I am so independent that I cringe at the thought of having to justify to anyone where I am going tomorrow morning, or any morning for that matter. I'm hopeless I guess :)

me good lover - lousy wife...lol

Let me clarify: I am single by choice. Many have vied for a relationship with me despite my screwed up existence, but I push them away. I push everyone away.

Because my husband decided to go back to crack and brought home an escort. I think thats a good reason to be single. Hoping theres someone that will want me more.

Dont even think that. Be patient. Theres someone out there.

I can understand your point. Men often can't handle a strong, independent woman. Difficult to find a man who doesn't feel threatened by your independence and strength and who can let you shine, treasure your joie de vivre etc. I got the same problem.
However, I don't think putting your foot down (I don't argue, I won't give in, I will not tolerate) is the way to go about it. You got to try to keep an open mind, not close the door in someone's face straight away. It's about communication. And if the other one doesn't understand or wants a partner that submits to his every whim, he's simply not the mature man you need.
Don't know whether you just go some bad experiences or if it's a culture thing where you live. (In some countries or areas it's still considered normal that a woman kind of submits.)

As for my own reasons for being single:
I am also looking for this so called mature man who will let me be me, doesn't feel threatened by a strong woman by his side (as in equals, next to each other). I'm not in a hurry to find this great match: I'm happy on my own, enjoying life. So I don't need a man to be happy again, as I'm already happy. (A statement ppl often make --> "I'm looking for a partner, cos I wanna feel happy again!" To me this means you're by no means ready for a partner at all!)
So I'm looking for the icing on the cake, and yes, I'm picky

that's exactly my point I am a will not tolerate kinda gal, won;t give in kinda gal too not changing that for you either...lol

I think it's best to work on oneself and allow to choose for themselves whether they have things they wish to change.

I guess I would like to have men in my life and that would make me happy, I always have before. not sure why I don;t now....and not that worried about it

You're not willing to change for me either?
D**n, I'm disappointed now

ok ok now don;t bring on the guilt trip lol

(There's gotta be something that works?! )