Knee breakers? It must be a stick that goes along with that whole 'rule of thumb' nonsense Jess

When I grow up I would like a little more than a PHD in muffin baking, and letterbox dusting...

And the thumbs that think they rule can stick their knee breakers where the sun dont shine...

HHHHhhmmmm you are scaring me Jess, I really like my knees just as they are, but if you supply knee pads and pay for kneeling classes I might just be willing to go if you would allow me to do so. I really would if it help me find out who I am, knave or servant, there is a difference between the two.



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Gryph...you stand, and I'll stand, we can all stand for what we stand for...

Don't be bending that which doesn't need to be bending...be the Knave!!!!

Yes Jess642 I mean Peace.

I can,t believe you girls are still chomping at this!

Well I read all the comments!
What I see here is a reasonable and agreeable man TRYING to find out what to do. He is LOOKING for help or at least opinions.

Instead he has been attacked by both sexes, and accused of things not related to the issue or precise matter.

He took all the attack while STILL grooping humbly and agreeably UNTIL the persistence of the attacks caused him to SHOW that he can DEFEND himself. And so he did. Handsomely. He is not STUPID.

What is the ISSUE? (
1) A woman got married about 6 months ago AND SHE DOES NOT WANT TO COOK FOR HE HUSBAND. She is a house wife. And that is one of the things housewives are expected to do.
She, not cooking something for when her husband, (whom she say she loves through marriage)comes home hungry IS CRUEL!! VERY CRUEL!!! So women who are condoning this conduct are exposing themselves as 'not wife material.' There is 'FRIENDING MATERIAL and there is WIFE MATERIAL. Which are you?

They do not qualify to be up to his standard of behaviour. His standard of behaviour is the standard suited for agreeing in a relationship; and for it's long survival.

There are women right here who will agree with him and find him a traditional man.One of them says: "Some women do not KNOW how lucky they are?

That wife who does not want to cook is an evil and wicked woman. And he will always have headache with that woman.

So what is she doing in the day? Eating icecream, watching movies, bad talking him on the phone with her bar-friend, sleeping and growing a double chin?

Women, most of them, love to make all kind of EXCUSES when the Devil breathes into them. Hear them: "He is a Dictator and giving instructions."

Cooking something for your hungry husband is something bad?? AAHHHH!!!!! These demon-women do not like to do anything looking like the suggestion first came from a man. THESE WOMEN MUST GIVE THE INSTRUCTIONS INSTEAD. ALL THE TIME. EVERYTHING MUST BE THEIR WAY.

So Mr Traditional, you are not the one rejected. It is the women who find you wrong on this matter when you are right. They are the one not to seek for a life partner.

And remember some men would always run forward and PRETEND, that housewives who do not want to cook for their husbands, are right. Well would they MARRY those women? Of course not! As soon as they obtain a couple screws, they take flight saying: "Not me and that woman." They know full well that all men get furious (silently of otherwise)when they come home STAGGERING with HUNGER, and their wives repeatedly refuse to cook for him. They expect him to get an erection after this.

If a working woman comes home, and her huband who is not employed, doesn't cook for her, SHE ALSO WILL BE FURIOUS!

At one time I was house husband, so I would make SURE that when wifey comes home, she gets something to eat. She must rest herself in addittion, so that she can be fit to work on her next tour. It is the same with the man. It's a TEAM. He goes to work outside and she is working inside and together they are moving forward.

If they are both working outside, then BOTH OF THEM HAVE TO SHARE THE HOUSEWORK, if they cannot afford a helper. It might still be that she is cooking while he is mowing the lawn, fixing the door, light switch and other things. Then she will call him from outside or whereever and say: "Boy come and eat something now. U cant work hungry!" Between meals she would go and carry some lemonade or some drink for him and even hold the glass for him to drink because his hands might be dirty. That is an ideal relationship.

These women who do not want to cook for their husband while they say: "He feels I am a slave or whoa?" is to STAY AWAY FROM. And U know what? Some of them do not TELL U that BEFORE. They tell u all the right things THEN BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT IT IS RIGHT. BUT THEY HAVE A PLAN TO FOOL U. And a soon as they get married. POOF! The Devil impregnates them and they open fire on you.

Traditional man, that marriage will not work. You will always have problem with that woman.
However still try to avoid making it look like instruction to her. She should not have to be told to cook for when her husband comes home and later on the children. She should be glad to rush to do that of her own because of love for THE SURVIAL OR HER OWN RELATIONSHIP!!

Ask her to come on the job with you one day, so that she can observe what you do. Then you both go home hungry, if possible. I bet she will be hungrier that you.

A time this wife who was very concerned about me eating properly, suddenly stopped cooking when I return from work. I smelled a rat. So time to give her money for home maintenance, I deducted all I had spent for food. So U know where that relationship is heading. There comes a time when U don't care.

Anyway that woman and others now realize that I am the best man in the World. And if they can do it again, they will pick me. No siree. Not me! Leave me be. Let them go their way.

Another one? She's cooking since eleven in the morning and cover my food with a towel and what ever time I reach "Look your food there" And she was rushing me to fight and doing other things like telling me she is a big woman and doesn't have to give account as to her whereabouts. SAY WHAT?? One day I was home and she went out. When she came back? I was not there. I moved out. I am the BEST husband for the very prety woman now. NOT me. No siree. Let her continue skating away from me.

On the issue of she going out when some so-called friend calls her? When a person starts to cohabit with someone, it is because they are fed up with the inconvenience or one of them having to go home AFTER the date; It would be late many times and they have to go to work the next day without having enough sleep.
So eventually, they have the Date right there at their side. When they arrive home, the date is there or coming homejust now. So now AFTER they are expected to be settled, they want to go out by themselves to spend time with their own sex? And say: "Out with the girls or out with the boys?" When I go to work, or going to and coming from, I am already out with the boys and friends. When I am finished working, I am going home to my date and bar-buddy which is now SO convenient. I do not have to bathe and get dressed to go and meet them anymore. And I am thankful to them for that.
So u see this, "U must have time 4 U self story," let me know before so that U can STAY by yourself to go in the bar ANYTIME U want while I look for someone who is ready to settle down and by my own personal bar-buddy at home.That is what settling down means when someone asks if you are ready to settle down.

On telling her what to read. Please do not do that again? But I bet there are things she will demand it should be this or that way on other things. What type or curtains or drapes for the windows for example. She will take opinions from everybody else except her husband. He is to be defied!!
Just tell her: "Girl I get scared when I see you reading those books because I am told that they advise women against their husbands and cause break ups. AND YOU KNOW THAT I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE YOU. So anytime I see you reading some of those I get earthquakes. However if you want my opinion or a man's opinion on anything expressed there I would gladly give it."

Soon she will insist that she is going back to work and tell you: "I am buying this or that WITH MY MONEY."

So when this wife tell me that, I said in my mind: "I am coming home quickly to cook and do housework so that you can work for your money, I have a taxi,when I am finished doing my regular job I will go instead and work my taxi for my money and leave you to do whatever for YOUR money."
Well U know what happened to that relationship.
Some years later she tells me she wished her husband could die so that she, if allowed to go back in the past, now that she has lived the future, will choose me as her husband and that I am the BEST man in the World ever. They all say that.

Amen!

Redmond your thread has generated a lot of interest. 1897 views and 187 replies. You deserve an award. And there are women right here who would appreciate your stance and give you that award. Some of them are just silent but are observing you.

In fact, in almost any Church wedding ceremony, or marriage sermon, you will hear your doctrine preached.

Some people here obviously do not go to Church or have never gone. Their Church is a bar or beastility site where you see women sucking dog, horse and other animals penis? And some women kneeling down for animals to screw them or to get srewed in their rectum.

Those are the Devil's messages and his evengelists preach it hating anyone who wants to follow the Creator's formula for success. The Manufacturer says 'woman obey your husband; children obey your parents; and the man lead the family to obey the the Manufacturer (God) (If U want to get a woman adjective vexed, just mention that, and if it is a White woman, she will get red. A black one will get grey.)The devil says: "UH uh!" So he has changed it to: "Parents obey U children; husband obey your wife.

And so some of these mothers teach their girl children that they are always right, and they create a monster to be somebody's problem wife later on.
If we all read the Bible and go to Church, we will all be better as we rehearse 'what shall we do in our lifetime, to be saved." Not truth?

Hey, this is an interesting thread. From my own reading of the Bible the closest thing I see to a Mrs. God is Satan or the Son Of The Morning. I base this on the first commandment of "Thou shall no other God before me." If one can see the duality of God which is based on "Let us make man in our image." We can see from the author viewpoint that God is talking to someone but that someone's voice is not supplied. Later we can see the corruption of Eden from the sin of eating the apple which was a disobeying of a commandent from God. But no disobeying from a Mrs. God because if you see Satan as Mrs. God it is like, "Hey, kids, it is time for ya'll to grow up. The free lunch is over. We want ya'll to make it on your own. We made ya'll but we can't live your life for ya. The old man and I got divorced. I got kicked out of heaven. The old male ego thing. What can I say? Well, kids don't take this the wrong way but if y'all open y'alls eyes you will see the the world is a lot bigger than the old garden. Y'all think y'all got problems? Hell, you ought to seen us fight. Well, kids I wish y'all the best. The old man and I are going invisible."

Dude, this is all Bogus Crap!
I work all day and when I get home a toss a burrito in the microwave and dinner is served.

hahahahahahhaha!

Surfcitykid. And what U homewife doing home whole day?

Eh???!!

I ain,t married!

No Kidding?