Men do, in Simple ways. Women just Want unnecessary Complicity

It's also human nature not to want to look week. Women say they want men to express themselves, but they consider him a wuss when he does. They also say they want a gentleman, but they only go out with the bad boys, then when they actually have the nerve to wonder why they can't find a good guy. The only good guys they want to have anything to do with are the ones they want to keep in the friend zone. You know, the guy they use to go crying to when their bad boy treats them, well, bad. Duh!

Are you serious with this comment? Women like good guys; not momma's boys that are door mats. Men are the ones that think men are weak when they cry; not women; however it's easier to blame women than other men. I wonder how many men will cry in front of their buddies without worrying about their guy friends teasing them? Think about it gentlemen; who is really seeing you as weak?

C'mon. You can't be that surprised about this comment. Maybe you aren't like that, but I have have known a few women who weren't like that, and even they say that most other women are like that. This isn't something that I just made up. You ask any man who was raised to be a gentleman, and they will tell you that most women are only turned on by the men who act like jerks.

It's not that these guys are jerks; its that they are percieved as jerks. They may seem like jerks to you but not to the woman he is dating. How about men dating a woman who is a total biotch to him? We can see it but he doesn't see how she is treating him badly or using him money. So, is is safe to say most men are would perfer to date a woman that treats him like crap? I am not making this up as I see it a lot with women treating men this way. Being a gentleman is fine but you still need a backbone.

Sometimes it takes just the right women to help.. Understanding and not being pushy help too..

It sure feels like the girls always go for the jerks.

Yep; sure feels like the guys go for the girls that act like jerks. What is your point?

Just the sex robot market will take off once they perfect a working unit.

Hopefully; they will have a good working male model too.

Since when did being a gentleman mean not having a backbone? See, you just made my point. Most women are only turned on by guys who aren't nice, because they think that nice equals no backbone. Those things aren't mutually exclusive. There are lots of guys that are nice that still can't be pushed around. You are getting being nice mixed up with being a door matt. There is a difference.

Since when did being a gentleman mean not having a backbone? See, you just made my point. Most women are only turned on by guys who aren't nice, because they think that nice equals no backbone. Those things aren't mutually exclusive. There are lots of guys that are nice that still can't be pushed around. You are getting being nice mixed up with being a door matt. There is a difference.

Here's a post from my blog that may add to this conversation.

Attributes of a Modern Gentleman


*He's well mannered and polite, but that doesn't mean he suffers fools easily.
*He says what he means, but he may not tell you everything and you may not like what you hear.
*He doesn't play head games and he doesn't put up with them.
*He strives for a stress free life and works to eliminate any chaotic influences.
*He can be ruthless when it's called for.
*He maintains a cool head and seldom gets in a rush.
*He never complains. If something troubles him he gets rid of it or gets used to it.
*He puts his income above everything else. Because without it, he cannot meet the needs of anything else.
*He doesn't give his word lightly and when he does it's not easily broken.
*He knows himself and what he needs to be happy.
*He knows his strengths and weaknesses.
*He's open minded, but doesn't change his views easily.
*He doesn't argue, but may enjoy a passionate exchange of ideas.
*He doesn't force, he persuades and influences.
*As for sex, he'll let his desires be known. But, if the attraction isn't mutual, he'll move on quickly. He knows there are plenty of fish in the sea.

http://borninabailofbutcherknives.blogspot.com/2012/07/attributes-of-modern-gentleman.html

Getting older, I have seen that the sensitive man is becoming more common than the caveman. As technology advances I'm pretty sure you will see less "tough guys don't share or cry". This doesn't mean there will not be shy people and introverts. It just means people as a whole are becoming more aware.

Remember 50 years ago there were no cell/smart phones, and guys went to work with other guys spending 8 hours pushing themselves with virtually no women around. Times have changed dramatically and the interacting between men and women has increased overwhelmingly.

For those who said technology will hurt society, well they have pretty much left town. This is the same group of folks that said "guys don't cry".

This is quite the list actually.

We can and do, it's called an erection!

Not all men. Sometimes men have been hurt by females so much they brush their feelings off. When they have had a enough they snip

Yup.

They already got a robot chair that is controlled by a computer to please women.

I remember a news report from a few years back about a man that lives with real dolls. His reason was the dolls would never cheat on him, lie to him or leave him. The anime series Chobits somewhat touch on robotic dolls that more and more people interact with in a relationship. It may come to that and the human race may have to relay on sperm banks to save us from dying off.