do they go and spoil it all by asking if you want to be naughty ny text , if you want that be honest because think its just rude how many other s have had it done x

Hormonally-driven @sses? Or, maybe they just want to get a reaction from you.

Thank goodness for the 'block' option.

Hold on sweetness. While there is truth to what you say, most of these guys are just getting back to dating and there is a ton of crap out there on how to catch a woman. 30 years out of high school and you
Gals are still from some other planet.

They think that's what you want. Blame all those stupid magazines at the checkout counter talking about the perfect orgasm bla bla bla. Men think that they have to hit all the right buttons to win the game. Sadly they are not fully wrong.

Maybe cut him some slack, tell him to clean it up and try and see if he is just lost first. If he still asks if you want to play a game of flick the bean, then block and move on. Just a guys view.

Happens daily.
For some, that is ALl they are after.
Just takes a second to delete them :-)

You have a point there. I've actually tried that on a few pple. I did a great job of scaring them away thus far. Lol.

That works on the boys cause you intimidate them. But I can see the little girl under that pretty face. You don't scare me. ................ Much.

Its just my opinions but dotn take it offensive
some poeple are more blunt then others
some dotn know unless they ask
first time explain your not into that if your not
then if happens again id block them .

I just politly say im not into that and i
dont know you but i hope you find what
makes you happy goodbye

they seem to get the hint

Yes, there is a little girl hiding underneath. Haha. And yes - I blame mags such as Cosmo. They're always talking about orgasms and such. But how the heck do you even attempt to hit any of those buttons online???? One guy tried to hit my buttons but he couldn't even spell!

I just laugh...

To get online you have to hit at least a few buttons. :P

It takes skill a little wisdom and strong hands.

And my spelling skills are not perfect but iPhone makes it much worse. :-).

Neither are my skills but I'm talking about gibberish here...
Something like this:
fjdsfasfj dajf0 ffe i like you d sfusif iuaf di do me kfdsaj iue ojoi pic jajf mdkaf iuio sexy lflasjf

That's completely backwards. The jibberish should come out when we are in front of you trying to look cool and something fails between our brains and our tongue and nothing but crap come out.

Poor guys cannot even get it out on line. Pathetic.

I do agree you shouldn't tolerate inappropriate talk. Especially if you hate it. If you warn a guy and he doesn't respect you enough to treat you in a manor you want to be treated, block him. He may grow up one day but should it be on your time? If you tolerated it he wouldn't have a reason to grow up.

Yes, in this vastly diverse world there really is guys out there that just want to have sex...Of course, I suppose when the initial "Be kind and supportive" approach doesn't work a good chunk of them drop it.

Can't say I blame them, honestly, since that approach works so rarely in the first place.

lol this post is too funny but true. i don't really care if i scare a guy off. if telling him to respect me is too much for his ego then i'm sure i'm not missing much. but i agree that if you give a guy the chance to try to correct his dumb first impression you'll find that he is willing to.

you even lucky, one cater guy here started sending hugs and kisses and we go talking..he was nice and told him we can only be friends. He refered me to yahoo and i added him.. lo and behold, he started asking for sexy pic with bikini on.. O i was disappointed cause he was 52 and looked really decent.

After a while, beating it into a moist towel just ain't the same. Men always want sex. Restraining orders help to some extent.

That's a bunch of bs. I don't care how long someone has been out of the dating scene, it's not hard to tell that sending dirty messages right off the bat is not the way to go. I'd like to think there are some men out there with common sense, as that's all it takes.

The guys sending the dirty messages immediately feel like they can do whatever they want because they're at the computer. And they're desperate enough to hope it works.

So no, I don't buy that he thinks that's what women want. He's just hoping she'll go for it.

I don't know where today's young people put their eyes these days. I see fantastic boobs and a killer body under that pretty face.

I don't see any little girls below her face. And I'm supposed to be the schizophrenic one who sees things.

I think you misunderstood Hiker there, Bestest. He suggested, it seems, to give the guy a chance, let him clean up HIS ACT and see if he can behave. But I could be wron, maybe Hiker did not mean this.

On the other hand, yes, all girls should tell the IM Vidoephone-inviters to first take a shower, and shave, and brush their teeth, then brush their hair, and then put on some nice-smelling aftershave, then light candles... if the guy is still there, he'll soon leave, don't worry.

If you don't want him to leave, just do what he suggests, and forget about the shower and stuff.

A gf of mine in the distant past, she was sexy and all, wanted to show me a specially nice time. She lit candles in the bathroom, we got in the bath tub and I hated all and any part of it. We were both slim, but still, we could not comfortably fit in the tub. I kept bruising my knees. The candles flickered, and that gave me a headache. She was sweet, but every time we moved the water would splash, and the worst of the ordeal was -- get this -- that my entire body got WET, IN THE STRICTEST SENSE OF THE WORD.

I am a dry land f.er. I don't like fishy sex.