I believe that sexual life is very important for most of women looking for dates or relationships. Sex intimacy can come from first date or after many, but will come for sure if the relationship succeed.
However, it seems that talking about sex is deemed as if you're of a low value.
Nobody can predict from few words or one-two dates if a relationship will be short or long term.
Is there any opinion that men that talk about sex are less valuable than men that don't? Or that they are not into long term relationships?
Why do women are put off by the subject "sex"?

for many men all
they think is how to please
there selfs and not in consideration
of what the woman feels

for were human with feelings
not a pieace of trash

i have a old ex bf
that thinks or thought any how
he could get pass me by playing with my breasts
and when i finally told him the first time
NO!! for i had never put my foot down to him
in the past.. this time i did
for all he ever thought about was him

he has a major ego issue
where he thinks hes mister macho

that is a major turn off for me

The problem is when men start talking about sex immediately, before even attempting to get to know the woman they're chatting with. That can definitely be a turn off.

EXACTLY!!

even if the man is already married
and wishing to have a fling on the side

BIGGGG NOOOOO!

never will happen

dont go for cheaters

Well, there you go...from the women who have answered your question: All men are selfish, cheating pigs because we like sex...

Where did you see that in this thread?

A lot of times, NOT ALL the time, that men who bring up sex right away when meeting a new potential partner makes it sound almost as if they are looking for someone they can take out for a relatively cheap meal and get something inn return for it. Like sex is 'owed' to them for spending $75 on food that was half theirs. So a woman feels that a man is expecting to get laid for his spending $32.50 on her instead of taking his time and getting to know HER first, he is looking to get to KNOW her first, understand me?

Believe me, there are plenty of women out here who likes sex just as much if not more than men do, we just want to know more about the partner we pick.

I think that if a guy had a new car totally awesome
and he tells the lady hes seeing look at my new car

She walks over and says ohh wow so great it is and
then a car drives by she goes wow that ones neat
then another car goes by she does same thing

hes standing there looking at her like whats
your problemit took me forever to get
this car you b****


is a silly example but its maybe how alot
of women feel towards sex with someone
when they dont feel wanted or appreciated
just used for the moment.

(just thoughts again )

If a woman and man agreed it was just
for a good time or sex only .
I think many would be happier
because its upfront and honest what
they want what is expected.

But when women told so many things
there special or pretty or wonderful
or what ever it may be.
then the sex happens and then when hes
off finding soemone else to know.
shes left confused and hurt and mad .

i think everyone should be upfront
from the get go.then mayeb there would
be less women hurt and feel used and
less men feel that women all think there dogs.

Shrugs

Great way of puttign all that hun.

From Kimoboy's post, he makes it sound like only men like sex. How weird.

true it is how it sounded( no harm intended to anyone )
but then again if men didnt liek sex or want sex ,
there wouldnt be any people in the world.
as lesbians cant populate but they sure
can warm up a night
so i guess men are good for other things besides
opening the lid on jars and looking cute in
boxers and hats and yelling at someone for you when
your to shy lol but i cant imagine a man
in lace pantys lol

yes im laughing (omg my stomachs soar from laughing )
sorry i know i have a odd sence of humor at times
but i had to say that.. it made me smile

women have as many different views upon sex as men do

if sex is a casual enough topic for someone to speak about, they probably should find someone else who considers it a casual topic

its just a matter of compatibility

I am one who is turned off by a man who seems to talk about sex either right away or constantly,, it is a prelude to where his mind is in my opinion and thats not what Im interested in until it is CLEAR that the relationship has great potential to go there

the sexiest man I ever dated waited and talked maturely with me about sex, as opposed to talking casually as if it were a punch line,,,,,

the biggest turn off I ever dated talked to me right away about sex and (as mentioned above) used an approach that implied that he was considering it a 'given' just because we had spent a date together,,,


,,,,

This. 'You' open that door too soon and it'll come back and hit you in the back again and again.

yep
thats why my old ex bf
wont get crap from me

and my ex hubby has been wanting to fool around

NOTTT!!!
his 2nd wife of 20yrs can deal with his crap

i even put my foot down and told him
it wouldnt be fair
especially when he cheated on me with her

but it still be HECK NOOOO!!!!!

some woman that have a child(children) with someone
and to find out there are many other kids

my son is my ex hubby oldest child
my son is 25 and my ex hubby has a total
of 6kids his youngest is 20yrs old
that shows how much it shows hes a dang freaken sex fien

i find a man that is a sex fien is also a turn off
for a woman doesnt like the idea of being pressured
into having sex

75 dollars for food?

heck. i dont mind if someone uses coupons
but crap i wouldnt pay $75 for 2 people
thats crazy

now when it comes to my kids and grandkids
we like going to a buffet all u can eat..

Sex is mostly in the mind. Thinking about it, talking about it, the beginning physical acts of doing it, etc., release sex hormones which in turn on other chemicals in the body to achieve erection, wetness, etc.

Talking about it is a way to get those juices flowing. Some people only talk a little, some a lot. Some only talk about it while dating, and then the talk stops and the action starts.

It is just biology and everyone is a little different. The trick is to do what makes your partner happy and comfortable. If you do it too much you might just be considered a pig.

We're not put off by the subject, we're put off by the fact that some guys think it's appropriate to talk about it after they ask our name.

Those guys give pigs a bad name!