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| Topic: Why many women are put off by the subject "sex"? | |
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I believe that sexual life is very important for most of women looking for dates or relationships. Sex intimacy can come from first date or after many, but will come for sure if the relationship succeed. However, it seems that talking about sex is deemed as if you're of a low value. Nobody can predict from few words or one-two dates if a relationship will be short or long term. Is there any opinion that men that talk about sex are less valuable than men that don't? Or that they are not into long term relationships? Why do women are put off by the subject "sex"? Well, there you go...from the women who have answered your question: All men are selfish, cheating pigs because we like sex... Where did you see that in this thread? |
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Women aren't put off by the subject of sex.
Women are put off by men who think with their genitals. |
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Women aren't put off by the subject of sex. Women are put off by men who think with their genitals. BINGO!! |
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Ok Ok what if you spend the 75 dollars at a dunkin donuts?
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Just kidding! Hey we all know about sex I want to talk to a woman to find out who she really is and what makes her tick. The sex will eventually fall in place if its meant to be!
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Some of us don't think with our genitals. There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship and gettin' some lovin'! that's the additional connection after communication that further developsthe bond, trust, which leads into further intimacy. In the world we live in today, people are so anxious. Most people are just in a hurry to feel fulfilled. Often like an interview, dating is overrated. Why place some much pressure when two people could just go out as friends and then take it from there. No need to make an impression or anything. Just go as who you are. Thats why most people have problems mid-way. Too busy placing the front and then wonder why things have changed later on. ..Most women are not put off by the subject of sex; I would say it has to do with the approach. An ignorant mind gets an ignorant response. Most of the time if a guy put off about the subject sex or doesn't make any moves towards it, it's just as bad, becuase then there's an assumption either he goes the other way, doesn't like you or that he's cheating. Ladies, pick your poison.
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Most of the time if a guy put off about the subject sex or doesn't make any moves towards it, it's just as bad, becuase then there's an assumption either he goes the other way, doesn't like you or that he's cheating. Ladies, pick your poison.
 In which social circles?
In case you weren't aware of it, there are still plenty of people who don't talk about sex until they are engaged to be married. Yes, there are still people who consider sex to be a special part of a marital relationship. So, some women don't want to talk about sex to men who aren't committed to a permanent relationship. |
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I believe that sexual life is very important for most of women looking for dates or relationships. Sex intimacy can come from first date or after many, but will come for sure if the relationship succeed. However, it seems that talking about sex is deemed as if you're of a low value. Nobody can predict from few words or one-two dates if a relationship will be short or long term. Is there any opinion that men that talk about sex are less valuable than men that don't? Or that they are not into long term relationships? Why do women are put off by the subject "sex"? Not all women are put off by the subject of sex. Some women value their sex life enough to talk about it before it even gets close to happening so that she can be sure to find an equal partner. Like me 
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Yes, I am put off by guys who start talking about sex before I've even let them get to first base. I'm also put off by guys who have "sex" listed in their interests. Or particular sex acts listed.
I figure it's a given that we are both interested in sex so there's no reason to bring it up like you would if you were an avid snow boarder and you wanted to make sure you were dating someone with similar interests. I had a guy tell me once that he needed to bring it up because he dated a girl who hated sex and he felt he invested too much time in that relationship before realizing it wasn't going to get better. So, now he brings it up right away. I was not moved by his explanation. |
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I believe that sexual life is very important for most of women looking for dates or relationships. Sex intimacy can come from first date or after many, but will come for sure if the relationship succeed. However, it seems that talking about sex is deemed as if you're of a low value. Nobody can predict from few words or one-two dates if a relationship will be short or long term. Is there any opinion that men that talk about sex are less valuable than men that don't? Or that they are not into long term relationships? Why do women are put off by the subject "sex"? Personally, I love, wait scratch that, I like the subject of sex....Over dinner, over the phone, in email, in bed, while driving, whenever...Just not on the first date and not all the time.....I find men who do that are usually obsessed with sex making them one dimensional and boring.... 
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What sex do sex you sex mean sex by sex obsessed sex?
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What do you mean by obsessed ? Compulsive masturbator.... |
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Women are not put off any more that men....
Just feed her Guacamole..... and don't put yer foot in it!!!! 
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Women aren't put off by the subject of sex. Women are put off by men who think with their genitals. I second that. 
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I don't have to stay for breakfast do I?
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JMO, but i think you dont talk about sex at all... if the chemistry is right, it happens by itself. Communicated through body language and expressions.
No words needed. And you wait for that. 
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We're not put off by the subject, we're put off by the fact that some guys think it's appropriate to talk about it after they ask our name. |
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A lot of times, NOT ALL the time, that men who bring up sex right away when meeting a new potential partner makes it sound almost as if they are looking for someone they can take out for a relatively cheap meal and get something inn return for it. Like sex is 'owed' to them for spending $75 on food that was half theirs. So a woman feels that a man is expecting to get laid for his spending $32.50 on her instead of taking his time and getting to know HER first, he is looking to get to KNOW her first, understand me?  
Believe me, there are plenty of women out here who likes sex just as much if not more than men do, we just want to know more about the partner we pick. 
From Kimoboy's post, he makes it sound like only men like sex. How weird. I wouldn't put too much stock in his inferences about women either. most men do not know a fig about women. it's the ones that care to try to understand you as a woman that worth the time he's just advertised himself as kind of not the brightest bulb in lamp..... no reflection on us (pardon the pun)
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I don't have to stay for breakfast do I?
breakfast? I want you gone before midnight....
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JMO, but i think you dont talk about sex at all... if the chemistry is right, it happens by itself. Communicated through body language and expressions. No words needed. And you wait for that.
Amen to that!! |
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