someone who's too perfect or expects me to be perfect.I can try to be the best "me" possible. But I can't be flawless, that's part of being human.

You just described every man I ever dated; they expect me to be perfect yet they are far from it.

I really cant stand a person that you try to have a conversation with or text with and all they can say back is "lol" or "thats good" "ok" just to state a few. I wasn't looking forward to talking to myself haha but the biggest thing that can really set me off is a girl that has no respect. True story, I had a girl, a real firecracker, who I invited over for dinner with my parents one night. When my parents introduced themselves to her, she blew em off as if they were invisible. I thought maybe she didnt hear them but things got worse when we sat down for dinner and she decided to get smart with my parents, disrespecting them and putting them down in our house! So in return, I stood up, walked her out the door and told her, "find a way home" and closed the door on her, and apologized to my parents for her crap. Cruel? I believe not. If I'm disrespected or anyone close to me, you can believe their losing my resect as well haha but thats just me :P

When he can't laugh at himself, grumpiness, whiny, hasn't found who he is as a person, mixed signals, fakes who arrange to meet up but never really follow through with it.

Girl Yes! mixed signals or not following through is so annoying, such a waste of time

Lies and bad habits.

Things that turn me away are drugs and alcohol abuse. Lying and cheating. Expecting me to be perfect. Noone is perfect.

wow, the list is pretty long and growing the longer I am single and finding that Im just as 'complete'.

for starters:
Cockiness
Bullying
Laziness
Cynicism
Negativity
Bigotry
Smoking
Drinking
Tats
Piercings
Vulgarity
Ridicule of God/Christianity
feminine behavior
bad hygiene
obsessions with health, outdoors, sports
lack of concern or care for own children
disrespect of family or women
Martyrism (inability to take responsibility for actions)



...just for starters..lol

Dishonesty and Having No Manners tops the list.

Erm... She said "they are perfect (the men)" and you are saying "they (the men) are far from perfect".

Those are not the same descriptions. In fact, they are totally different descriptions.

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Advice to the first girl: Yes, you CAN become flawless and stay human. Like those guys who are perfect always, they can do it. Why can't you?

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Advice to the second girl: Stay as far away from men and relationships as possible. Come si come sa, we are all different, what's good for the gander, is not necessarily good for the gender.

My list includes all these, and also all the adjectives in the Oxford Dictionary of the Extended English Language, in all sixteen hundred volumes of it, in alphagetical order.

Yes, I can't stand when a person is green, good, gold, bold, bald, bad, overly, very, absolute, nyeg-nyeg, arbitrary, hyphonated, bedpost-like, etc., old, new, young, ancient, middle-aged, and viricircumstantiable.

Just a few illustrative examples.

Very religious, not single, lying, arrogance..

she has an anaconda

Well, when you are in the beginning stages of dating, you notice that she (or he) tries to be "careful" in what they say, or what they do, etc. Not saying everyone does this, but there are a lot who do. And I don't get that. I went out on a few dates with a girl who hid the fact that she smoked. She wouldn't smoke around me and before we would go out she made sure she didn't smoke an hour or so before I got there. And when she got comfortable (and when we decided to just be friends) she lights up. I was like...WTH? Her response? She was afraid I would hold it against her. This kind of crap here is what bothers me most. It's the fact that people want to impress someone and they accomplish this by being someone else. Yeah....that will build a healthy relationship.

lol,, that sucks

my list has been compiled by YEARS of experience with these attributes,, unfortunately, the list gets longer with time,,,lol

I think my deal breaker would be vulgarity, true I was a bit vulgar in my youth, I just don't think grown ups need to speak in this fashion, it just shows ignorance and inmaturity when every word is the F word, just my opnion.

Insecurity, immaturity, insanity, indecisiveness

I understand what you mean. I'm easily misunderstood and have been accused of such and unintentionally tend to make women feel as though they have to be perfect or live up to high expectations because they feel I'm so perfect.

controlling behavior

bad attitudes about women in general

statements or an attitude that women are crazy or mentally unstable just because they are female (as an example)

negativity

personal drama - if they have a lot of it going down - I do not wanna be the next player on the stage....