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Topic: Flirt School!
Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 05/24/12 02:33 PM
Meouw!! Here kitty...

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Thu 05/24/12 05:20 PM
Is it cold in here....or all you all just..... Happy to see me???? You can have your pick on that answer!

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Thu 05/24/12 05:52 PM
Ok...I googled how to flirt for all y'all beginners! How to flirt The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. If your 'target' knows that you find him or her interesting and attractive, he or she will be more inclined to like you. Although this simple fact has been demonstrated in countless studies and experiments, you don't really need scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone fancies you, or hear that someone has praised or admired you, your interest in that person automatically increases – even if it is someone you have never met! Conveying that you like someone, and judging whether or not the attraction is mutual, clearly involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills. When asked about flirting, most people – particularly men – focus on the verbal element: the 'chatting-up', the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc. In fact, the non-verbal element – body-language, tone of voice, etc. – is much more important, particularly in the initial stages of a flirtation. When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. Also, their non-verbal signals will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. We show attitudes such as liking and disliking not by what we say but by the way we say it and the posture, gestures and expressions that accompany our speech. The customary polite greeting "pleased to meet you", for example, can convey anything from 'I find you really attractive' to 'I am not the slightest bit interested in you', depending on the tone of voice, facial expression, position and posture of the speaker. Non-verbal flirting When a man and a woman meet for the first time, both are in a difficult, ambiguous and potentially risky situation. Neither person knows what the other's intentions and feelings are. Because stating intentions and feelings verbally involves a high risk of embarrassment or possible rejection, non-verbal behaviour becomes the main channel of communication. Unlike the spoken word, body language can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious, without causing offence or making binding commitments. Warning: some of the non-verbal flirting techniques outlined in this section are very powerful signals, and should be used with caution. Women should be particularly careful when using signals of interest and attraction. Men already tend to mistake friendliness for flirting; if your signals of interest are too direct and obvious, they will mistake them for sexual availability.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Thu 05/24/12 06:56 PM
Ladies, ladies ladies...shaking my head. All you gotta do to get a guy's attention is wear a string bikini and wink as you walk by.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 05/24/12 06:59 PM
Where is Ms.B We have to have a principle Me the principal? First thing I would have to do is fail myself. I no know nothing about flirting.Iam a bad flirter. Never flirted a day in my life. I think you would make a far better principal/teacher.. Yeah I believe that hehe

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 05/24/12 07:01 PM
Is it cold in here....or all you all just..... Happy to see me???? I think we are just happy

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 05/24/12 07:04 PM
Ok...I googled how to flirt for all y'all beginners! How to flirt The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. If your 'target' knows that you find him or her interesting and attractive, he or she will be more inclined to like you. Although this simple fact has been demonstrated in countless studies and experiments, you don't really need scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone fancies you, or hear that someone has praised or admired you, your interest in that person automatically increases – even if it is someone you have never met! Conveying that you like someone, and judging whether or not the attraction is mutual, clearly involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills. When asked about flirting, most people – particularly men – focus on the verbal element: the 'chatting-up', the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc. In fact, the non-verbal element – body-language, tone of voice, etc. – is much more important, particularly in the initial stages of a flirtation. When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. Also, their non-verbal signals will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. We show attitudes such as liking and disliking not by what we say but by the way we say it and the posture, gestures and expressions that accompany our speech. The customary polite greeting "pleased to meet you", for example, can convey anything from 'I find you really attractive' to 'I am not the slightest bit interested in you', depending on the tone of voice, facial expression, position and posture of the speaker. Non-verbal flirting When a man and a woman meet for the first time, both are in a difficult, ambiguous and potentially risky situation. Neither person knows what the other's intentions and feelings are. Because stating intentions and feelings verbally involves a high risk of embarrassment or possible rejection, non-verbal behaviour becomes the main channel of communication. Unlike the spoken word, body language can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious, without causing offence or making binding commitments. Warning: some of the non-verbal flirting techniques outlined in this section are very powerful signals, and should be used with caution. Women should be particularly careful when using signals of interest and attraction. Men already tend to mistake friendliness for flirting; if your signals of interest are too direct and obvious, they will mistake them for sexual availability. Kewl viv I have to find out where you goggled this from.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Thu 05/24/12 07:55 PM
Ok...I googled how to flirt for all y'all beginners! How to flirt The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. If your 'target' knows that you find him or her interesting and attractive, he or she will be more inclined to like you. Although this simple fact has been demonstrated in countless studies and experiments, you don't really need scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone fancies you, or hear that someone has praised or admired you, your interest in that person automatically increases – even if it is someone you have never met! Conveying that you like someone, and judging whether or not the attraction is mutual, clearly involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills. When asked about flirting, most people – particularly men – focus on the verbal element: the 'chatting-up', the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc. In fact, the non-verbal element – body-language, tone of voice, etc. – is much more important, particularly in the initial stages of a flirtation. When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. Also, their non-verbal signals will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. We show attitudes such as liking and disliking not by what we say but by the way we say it and the posture, gestures and expressions that accompany our speech. The customary polite greeting "pleased to meet you", for example, can convey anything from 'I find you really attractive' to 'I am not the slightest bit interested in you', depending on the tone of voice, facial expression, position and posture of the speaker. Non-verbal flirting When a man and a woman meet for the first time, both are in a difficult, ambiguous and potentially risky situation. Neither person knows what the other's intentions and feelings are. Because stating intentions and feelings verbally involves a high risk of embarrassment or possible rejection, non-verbal behaviour becomes the main channel of communication. Unlike the spoken word, body language can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious, without causing offence or making binding commitments. Warning: some of the non-verbal flirting techniques outlined in this section are very powerful signals, and should be used with caution. Women should be particularly careful when using signals of interest and attraction. Men already tend to mistake friendliness for flirting; if your signals of interest are too direct and obvious, they will mistake them for sexual availability. Kewl viv I have to find out where you goggled this from. Google

Dardingdong Joined Thu 05/24/12 Posts: 1	Thu 05/24/12 08:06 PM
Hi there naught girl that wants to be wopped with a paddle im your naught 25 year old that can do it

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Thu 05/24/12 08:39 PM
- that would be nice , i would like to get whopped with a padal again .... real naughty ! * can anybody teach me ! Uh, do you by any chance live in Castle Anthrax? By the way, your username and image indicate that you are a woman, but your profile says that you are a man looking for a woman. So, which gender do you want to flirt with?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Thu 05/24/12 08:41 PM
Ladies, ladies ladies...shaking my head. All you gotta do to get a guy's attention is wear a string bikini and wink as you walk by. Hippie, you know as well as I do that some women should never wear a bikini (or spandex). Doing so might make men run away.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Thu 05/24/12 08:57 PM
Ladies, ladies ladies...shaking my head. All you gotta do to get a guy's attention is wear a string bikini and wink as you walk by. Hippie, you know as well as I do that some women should never wear a bikini (or spandex). Doing so might make men run away. Ohhhh which of us do you refer to?

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Fri 05/25/12 12:54 AM
Lord that google article sounds complicated. I think flirting is just about both parties having some good, clean fun. That takes all the stress of it away and makes it easy. IMO

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Fri 05/25/12 05:58 AM
Ok...I googled how to flirt for all y'all beginners! How to flirt The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone. If your 'target' knows that you find him or her interesting and attractive, he or she will be more inclined to like you. Although this simple fact has been demonstrated in countless studies and experiments, you don't really need scientists to prove it. You already know that when you are told someone fancies you, or hear that someone has praised or admired you, your interest in that person automatically increases – even if it is someone you have never met! Conveying that you like someone, and judging whether or not the attraction is mutual, clearly involves a combination of verbal and non-verbal communication skills. When asked about flirting, most people – particularly men – focus on the verbal element: the 'chatting-up', the problems of knowing what to say, finding the right words, etc. In fact, the non-verbal element – body-language, tone of voice, etc. – is much more important, particularly in the initial stages of a flirtation. When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. Also, their non-verbal signals will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. We show attitudes such as liking and disliking not by what we say but by the way we say it and the posture, gestures and expressions that accompany our speech. The customary polite greeting "pleased to meet you", for example, can convey anything from 'I find you really attractive' to 'I am not the slightest bit interested in you', depending on the tone of voice, facial expression, position and posture of the speaker. Non-verbal flirting When a man and a woman meet for the first time, both are in a difficult, ambiguous and potentially risky situation. Neither person knows what the other's intentions and feelings are. Because stating intentions and feelings verbally involves a high risk of embarrassment or possible rejection, non-verbal behaviour becomes the main channel of communication. Unlike the spoken word, body language can signal invitation, acceptance or refusal without being too obvious, without causing offence or making binding commitments. Warning: some of the non-verbal flirting techniques outlined in this section are very powerful signals, and should be used with caution. Women should be particularly careful when using signals of interest and attraction. Men already tend to mistake friendliness for flirting; if your signals of interest are too direct and obvious, they will mistake them for sexual availability. Kewl viv I have to find out where you goggled this from. Google You make a good teacher lots of experience is a plus

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Fri 05/25/12 01:32 PM
Flirting sounds way to complicated.Think I will take a nap instead.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Fri 05/25/12 01:43 PM
Ladies, ladies ladies...shaking my head. All you gotta do to get a guy's attention is wear a string bikini and wink as you walk by. Hippie, you know as well as I do that some women should never wear a bikini (or spandex). Doing so might make men run away. That's what I was going to say--I want them to run TOWARD me, not AWAY from me!

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/25/12 01:56 PM
Lord that google article sounds complicated. I think flirting is just about both parties having some good, clean fun. That takes all the stress of it away and makes it easy. IMO I didn't even read it

Foszil Joined Wed 01/28/09 Posts: 4917	Fri 05/25/12 02:14 PM
When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. Also, their non-verbal signals will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. Should this be taken to mean, ripping open a plastic rain coat is 55% & saying"bless ya heart" is 7%? Hell, I can do that !! That means I'm over 60% already.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Fri 05/25/12 03:35 PM
When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. Also, their non-verbal signals will tell you much more about their feelings towards you than the words they use. Should this be taken to mean, ripping open a plastic rain coat is 55% & saying"bless ya heart" is 7%? Hell, I can do that !! That means I'm over 60% already.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 05/25/12 05:07 PM
Buenos Dias madamoiselles.....My name is El Rico Suave'...I am here to flirt.... now drop them pants....the meter is running.