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I have done some soul searching myself. I just don't see any advantage of being a couple or in a relationship. Except for sex; what can a man offer me? I don't think it's so much about what either party can do for the other or has to offer the other. I think it's about a connection you feel with someone. An attraction that becomes stronger over time. You enjoy spending time together and you start wanting to make the other person happy. Their happiness becomes important to you. At some point you may feel you don't want to live without that person. If none of that happens then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. I know you've had some really bad experiences and it's possible you'll never want to be in a relationship again and that's ok. 
Again; I see no advantage of being with a person constantly. I like my freedom of being able to come and go. I find men way to suffocating and all they want me to do is stay home with them to watch tv. I may as well put a bullet in my head than to live like that. I couldn't see myself feeling that I don't want to live without a person on a person. What happens when they die? Do I fall apart; feel incomplete without them? As for happiness; I get you want to make them happy but many times it is at a cost of making yourself unhappy. An example is a guy wanted me to cut back on my band gigs with the military which made him happy but made me resent him. I am just looking at this from a logical point and not an emotional point. Sorry; if I come across harsh but like one thread said; there is a point that one is practical about life. I am not trying to rain on your parade so please forgive the way I word things. You are not raining on my parade. I understand where you are coming from.
I wouldn't stay in a relationship if that's how a relationship felt to me. You are right to be true to yourself and what is right for you. Thanks for understanding Ruth.
Where's teh women who like 6 Flags over Texas, go karts, ice skating and such? Send me one where we have mutual feelings and I'll hook up for life. Bah, ain't gonna happen! |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Fri 01/04/13 11:58 AM
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Where's the women who like 6 Flags over Texas, go karts, ice skating and such? Send me one where we have mutual feelings and I'll hook up for life. Bah, ain't gonna happen! Yep; that's how I feel. 
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Edited by
navygirl
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Fri 01/04/13 11:56 AM
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You are not raining on my parade. I understand where you are coming from.
I wouldn't stay in a relationship if that's how a relationship felt to me. You are right to be true to yourself and what is right for you. Exactly :). I think it's quite a strong mental attitude to have. Very admirable. It shows a sign of strength. Independence, at that. |
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Because some chicks fail to take their meds. And bytches be crazy and shyt  
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because im strong enough to wait for what i really deserve.
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Am still searching for her
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I m worthless.... Who said? for me you are such a beautiful girl. |
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I can't find one who can really understand me .
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I'm alone all the time and lives. nobody wants me :( life sucks.
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I'm alone all the time and lives. nobody wants me :( life sucks. Nobody wants me either but life doesn't suck just because you are single. There is a whole world out there to explore. |
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mabe is There is a whole world out there to explore. but alone is not good.
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Edited by
navygirl
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Tue 01/15/13 02:49 PM
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mabe is There is a whole world out there to explore. but alone is not good. I have done it alone all my life and its been great. I always meet people when I travel; sometimes men; sometimes women and have made some fantastic friends. You can't rely on a relationship to make you happy; you have to be happy with yourself first. |
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coz i havent found mr right yet
 plus i wont just jump into bed with someone I want  not just sex!
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It good ;) but I can't,I'm alone 1 year and does not give advice. loneliness is not for me.
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It good ;) but I can't,I'm alone 1 year and does not give advice. loneliness is not for me. Don't you have any friends or family? |
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It good ;) but I can't,I'm alone 1 year and does not give advice. loneliness is not for me. Don't you have any friends or family? I have family and friends in Poland , I want live here. |
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It good ;) but I can't,I'm alone 1 year and does not give advice. loneliness is not for me. Don't you have any friends or family? I have family and friends in Poland , I want live here. Ah; that explains why you feel lonely. Get out and join some local groups. Not only will you make friends but you might meet the gal of your dreams. |
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Because I haven't found the right one who fits in our lives yet....I say our cause whether people like it or not, single parents and their kiddos are a package deal....No I don't want an ATM, I work, and I don't want to play "I'm The Boss", just want someone who can love us fully and honestly, without having to compromise on EITHER of our sides, cause compromise means you aren't truly happy with the person and all their faults and strengths.
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I don't want to be married. good enough reason. Is living in sin the solution ( shaking up )LOL
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