Girls/Women say the want nice guys to do anything and everything with, but this isn't true. I have yet to meet a girl who wants a nice guy since I am him. I always hear how girls/women say that some "dick" broke their heart again

Almost all "d!ck$" start off as nice guys. Then after fooling said woman and getting what they want, they turn into the notorious "dick".

Not in all cases mind you, but in a vast majority of them.

silly males.
you're all *****.
just give it some time.

That would have to hurt. Crazy b!tches.....

No, they do not want a nice guy. They want a good man. See, that's where they ( and you) are going wrong. Some people get it, some are still trying to figure it out.

Nice is good ...but too nice is asking for heart break. It is difficult to respect someone who kisses your hind end.
It is hurtful but it is true.

I am kind of shy and quiet "Nice" myself and kind of sit on the outer parameter of any circle. And can tell you first hand how much this does n work for dating life. More forward and talkative guys tend to be more aggressive and more likely to be jerks and likely to result in nastier break ups or move on.

"Nice guys" whining about how they're too nice and women just want ***** aren't really nice guys.

Why do guys want to be described as nice anyway? It's such a boring word!

More forward and talkative guys do not always tend to be more aggressive. They do tend to have more confidence and that's definitely attractive.

I like both these.

Yeah, and that dick is usually the guy that says he is the nice guy. See how that works.

People say the exact opposite of what they mean all the time. Or make arguments and claims that are not suported with facts. Saying someting to suit the situation or to manipulate an effect is reffered to as a rhetorical deviice(some are good and methodical others are illogical). Say he was tryig to get into your pants and you were talking about an A hole your last boyfriend was.

See why most of us roll our eyes when we hear someone going on about how nice they are and things aren't working out for them? Saying the opposite of what you mean certainly does not make you a nice guy.

I think you hit the nail on the head when you said manipulate. This is exactly what these type of guys try to do.

Women constantly whine about wanting a "real man". From the posts women make on here most of the men you accept dates from are bad boys who only want to use you. Maybe women's "date pickers" are broke? Real gentlemen:

1. Usually aren't "professional" flirts.
2. Are a touch shy when it comes to eye contact. Unlike the player who is really good at it.
3. Doesn't work at triggering a woman's impulsiveness by constantly triggering her emotions.

Women say they know when another woman is "playing" a man. Well ladies, it goes both ways. We can sense if a guy is playing you but if we say something the woman/women who is/are being flirted with usually, in a sarcastic way, say "you're just jealous because you're not being flirting with". So the nice guy who is trying to warn you walks away and shakes his head saying "they're blind and only want the jerks".

It seems a lot of the men on dating sites who are rejected are the very men you say you want. How can I say this? The vast majority of women CONSTANTLY post that all the men they go out with only want them as a side of beef. Am I insinuating women want bad boys? Not entirely. They want a gentleman with a touch of bad boy in him. But you seem to always eliminate them. Your date pickers seem to be broken.

So, to be a real gentleman, a guy has to be shy and not able to flirt well? If they aren't shy and do flirt well, they must not be real?

I don't see most women on here saying ALL the men are as you describe. You're generalizing quite a bit. You can't force attraction no matter how much you want to. If a woman prefers confidence, chances are, she isn't going to be really into the shy guy who is scared to ask her out.

I don't see anything attractive about a man that is shy or can't flirt. At my age; they should have matured by now. Also if I am picking the wrong guy; its my mistake to make. I am an adult and I don't need another adult to tell me who I should and shouldn't date. I would tell that person to mind their own business. Fact is I have met some decent guys but they didn't want me because I am too independent, or too active, or too old, etc. Basically I am not what they are looking for. Women as well as men will reject a person for a variety of reasons as we all have preferences in what we find acceptable. Myself for instance may meet or see a real nice guy on this site but if he smokes,is a heavy drinker, has kids, or pets; I wouldn't give him the time of day.

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

+1.

Please reread the entire sentence:

2. Are a touch shy when it comes to """"eye contact""".

First, initial, beginning eye contact!! My post was about a man FIRST laying eyes on a woman. Most men will be a bit shy because women complain about men who stare.