I would like a man who will be himself. Since there is no perfect person, I will make a decision, after we get to know each other better, if his "imperfections" are things I can accept in a more serious relationship.

The same for him, since I know I have my flaws.

thats not what you said last nite

Girls/Women say the want nice guys to do anything and everything with, but this isn't true. I have yet to meet a girl who wants a nice guy since I am him. I always hear how girls/women say that some "dick" broke their heart again

Pffft...you are the exception Johnny!! lol.

People say the exact opposite of what they mean all the time. Or make arguments and claims that are not suported with facts. Saying someting to suit the situation or to manipulate an effect is reffered to as a rhetorical deviice(some are good and methodical others are illogical). Say he was tryig to get into your pants and you were talking about an A hole your last boyfriend was.

Just an observation.....

I came to this thread and read it...a new guy making a statement of the obvious....

He got swarmed. It was like a pirhana feeding frendzie....everyone taking a bite.

Bear in mind that this is a cool place and every new person comes here with no real idea. We all did.


I got nothing against any of you cats and dolls.

I would be suprized if the dude comes back.

That ain't what Mingle is about.

Almost all "d!ck$" start off as nice guys. Then after fooling said woman and getting what they want, they turn into the notorious "dick".

Not in all cases mind you, but in a vast majority of them.

Girls/Women say the want nice guys to do anything and everything with, but this isn't true. I have yet to meet a girl who wants a nice guy since I am him. I always hear how girls/women say that some "dick" broke their heart again

Topics like this always remind of a Best of CL reply I read a few months ago.

"I see this question posted with some regularity in the many personals sections on the internet and what not, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out quite yet.

What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were f***ing treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

people are stupid... i've watched men and women always going for the "best looking" or "prettiest" and they always do the same thing over and over... the guys that are ***** will always be a dick, because women let them, because they are good looking. and and the same for guys, they know a chic is a *****, but don't care because she is hot... let them get what they deserve, because forrest gump said it best: Stupid is as stupid does.