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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, |
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okkkkk..that would be to tooooo...CCCCRRREEEEEEPPPPYYY
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Thu 04/12/12 12:44 PM
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, I don't see it as being the same as lying about being a woman when they're really a man. |
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i'm not associating bisexuality with promiscuity It was only a guideline on where I would stand in a relationship with a bisexual woman... That's it that's all i just don't understand why the sleeping around and being the third wheel was brought up unless that's how you view bisexuals. It's how I view.....Relationships. I didn't see "monogamist relationship" in your original post... To be honest B, I'm 44yrs old, I've lived plenty to see sexual deviance in all groups... Bisexuals are every bit as sexually deviant as homosexuals or heterosexuals. This I guarantee!! And thus, the reason I added the guidelines to dating bisexual in my post. Absolutely! |
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probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, so i should go around telling all men i'm bi? |
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It's how I view.....Relationships. I didn't see "monogamist relationship" in your original post... so you just think everyone is sleeping around? o.O |
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, I don't see it the same as lying about being a woman when they're really a man. huh???  
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probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, so i should go around telling all men i'm bi? did you used to be a man? and no, thats your business about being bi, no one elses... |
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, I don't see it the same as lying about being a woman when they're really a man. huh???
Someone leaving out that they're bi is not nearly the same thing as someone forgetting to mention they're really a man when they're posing as a woman. |
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Hmmm, I don't know if I would or would not date a bi. Then I remember what is important is how she acts when she is with me, not before I met her.
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, I don't see it the same as lying about being a woman when they're really a man. huh???
Someone leaving out that they're bi is not nearly the same thing as someone forgetting to mention they're really a man when they're posing as a woman. ok, i thought you were saying something else... 
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Hmmm, I don't know if I would or would not date a bi. Then I remember what is important is how she acts when she is with me, not before I met her. thats the key right there... if shes with you, then it really doesn't matter to much. |
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, Exactly this. |
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, I don't see it the same as lying about being a woman when they're really a man. huh???
Someone leaving out that they're bi is not nearly the same thing as someone forgetting to mention they're really a man when they're posing as a woman. ok, i thought you were saying something else...
Nope. I was saying what I just explained. :) |
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, Exactly this. What if he's only had feelings for the same sex, but hasn't acted on it? If he hasn't told you about it, is that a lie? |
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How is it a lie if you don't ask up front? And if you're not asking about it in the beginning, how would they know it's a deal breaker? probably under the label of lie of 'omission', like if a woman is really a man and doesnt reveal it until feelings have developed,,,, sexual preference and gender are pretty significant to people when chosing partners,,or investing time into potential partners,,,, Exactly this. What if he's only had feelings for the same sex, but hasn't acted on it? If he hasn't told you about it, is that a lie? No. |
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It's how I view.....Relationships I didn't see "monogamist relationship" in your original post... so you just think everyone is sleeping around? o.O   No
B... I'm curious, have you told anyone in person? If not, are you fearful? or are you just trying to figure out if you should or not? |
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0.o..Im confused.but at least..its not a creepy kind of confused.
slowly see's the light.. |
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0.o..Im confused.but at least..its not a creepy kind of confused. slowly see's the light.. 
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