Topic: distractions.
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Thu 04/12/12 12:48 AM
I could not be with a bi man.

It’s not the act but the mental imagery that would do my head in.

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Thu 04/12/12 12:56 AM
I would date a bi ped.

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Thu 04/12/12 01:20 AM
I played football in highschool.

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Thu 04/12/12 01:24 AM

I played football in highschool.



laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 04/12/12 01:37 AM

I played football in highschool.


we played soccer in mine :smile:

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Thu 04/12/12 05:37 AM

I could not be with a bi man.

It’s not the act but the mental imagery that would do my head in.


So, you're ok with picturing them with other women, just not with men?

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Thu 04/12/12 05:45 AM

assuming you're a hetero,
would you date a bi?
if no,
why not?



Hell yea..Bi-guys are sooooo Hawt.
yeppers!!!!!I sure have...and would.love :banana: pitchfork drool

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Thu 04/12/12 07:02 AM
It wouldn't bother me at all.

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Thu 04/12/12 07:25 AM
I have. It was kinda hard on me to deal with it as I was trying to be faithful and she never "asked" just told me stories and offered threesomes. I am a bit old-fashioned that way. Otherwise, best in bed was that bi

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Thu 04/12/12 09:47 AM

perhaps you should just re read my original post

i'm just wondering why you care so much about what i think



i don't care.

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Thu 04/12/12 09:50 AM

I have. It was kinda hard on me to deal with it as I was trying to be faithful and she never "asked" just told me stories and offered threesomes. I am a bit old-fashioned that way. Otherwise, best in bed was that bi


dating a bi doesn't mean there will be three people in a relationship though.
most are monogamous.

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Thu 04/12/12 09:58 AM
Of course. It really doesn't matter to me. I'm not going to discriminate because of that. It doesn't make someone any less loyal or faithful.

Also, these anal comments are just a bit too assuming, don't you think? Just because a guy is bi doesn't mean he prefers anal... nor does it mean he's ever even done anal. It's not some requirement for guy on guy.

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Thu 04/12/12 10:31 AM

Of course. It really doesn't matter to me. I'm not going to discriminate because of that. It doesn't make someone any less loyal or faithful.

Also, these anal comments are just a bit too assuming, don't you think? Just because a guy is bi doesn't mean he prefers anal... nor does it mean he's ever even done anal. It's not some requirement for guy on guy.


B made a point earlier, too. Straight people also have anal sex.

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Thu 04/12/12 10:39 AM


I could not be with a bi man.

It’s not the act but the mental imagery that would do my head in.


So, you're ok with picturing them with other women, just not with men?


Yes.

This may be hard to believe but I don’t have any mental imagery regarding ‘his’ sex life if he’s heterosexual.

Any yes, it is because I would not want to be with a guy that has had anal sex with another man.

And no, I don’t have a problem with a guy I’m dating having had anal sex with another woman.

And no, I wouldn’t want to be with him if he has sucked another man’s schlong, kissed another man, rimmed another man or done anything else that would be categorised as sexual – doesn’t include watching porn with another man as long as they kept to their side of the sofa :smile:.

And yes, I do know that it doesn’t quite make sense if you look at it like that BUT there isn’t a law that says my preferences have to be rational or even make sense...

Just in case you ask, I don’t have a problem with bi sexuality (or homosexuality for that matter), I just wouldn’t date someone that chooses to sleep with both sexes.

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Thu 04/12/12 10:43 AM
Ohhh bisexual...I thought b was talking about dating someone who was bilingual.

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Thu 04/12/12 10:48 AM

Just in case you ask, I don’t have a problem with bi sexuality (or homosexuality for that matter), I just wouldn’t date someone that chooses to sleep with both sexes.


i just find this a little funny.
it's like saying i'm not racist but i refuse to date a white man.
o.O
why rule out a whole people?

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Thu 04/12/12 10:49 AM

Ohhh bisexual...I thought b was talking about dating someone who was bilingual.


don't tell me you discriminate against those too!

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Thu 04/12/12 10:50 AM



I could not be with a bi man.

It’s not the act but the mental imagery that would do my head in.


So, you're ok with picturing them with other women, just not with men?


Yes.

This may be hard to believe but I don’t have any mental imagery regarding ‘his’ sex life if he’s heterosexual.

Any yes, it is because I would not want to be with a guy that has had anal sex with another man.

And no, I don’t have a problem with a guy I’m dating having had anal sex with another woman.

And no, I wouldn’t want to be with him if he has sucked another man’s schlong, kissed another man, rimmed another man or done anything else that would be categorised as sexual – doesn’t include watching porn with another man as long as they kept to their side of the sofa :smile:.

And yes, I do know that it doesn’t quite make sense if you look at it like that BUT there isn’t a law that says my preferences have to be rational or even make sense...

Just in case you ask, I don’t have a problem with bi sexuality (or homosexuality for that matter), I just wouldn’t date someone that chooses to sleep with both sexes.



Do you have men fill out a questionnaire before touching them? laugh

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Thu 04/12/12 10:51 AM


Just in case you ask, I don’t have a problem with bi sexuality (or homosexuality for that matter), I just wouldn’t date someone that chooses to sleep with both sexes.


i just find this a little funny.
it's like saying i'm not racist but i refuse to date a white man.
o.O
why rule out a whole people?



Yeah, that's how it sounded to me, too.

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Thu 04/12/12 10:59 AM


Just in case you ask, I don’t have a problem with bi sexuality (or homosexuality for that matter), I just wouldn’t date someone that chooses to sleep with both sexes.


i just find this a little funny.
it's like saying i'm not racist but i refuse to date a white man.
o.O
why rule out a whole people?



I know what you mean..it's a bit like when people say, I don't like black people but you're ok :smile:.

I do know that my rationale doesn't quite make sense because I know that if I was dating someone who revealed (a few months down the line) that he had been with other men, I would (probably) dump him for lying and not because he was bisexual.