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Topic: What do you consider cheating?
Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Tue 03/20/12 05:30 PM
Everyone's got a different definition. Let's hear it

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Tue 03/20/12 06:06 PM
Everyone's got a different definition. Let's hear it To me cheating is when giving the deceitful appearance of playing by the rules, but in effect surreptitiously not playing by the rules.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 03/20/12 06:23 PM
When someone pushes or pulls a poolball in the pocket by hand.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 03/20/12 06:30 PM
Everyone's got a different definition. Let's hear it I don't see how everyone can have a different definition. I mean, if you want to play dumb, I guess I can see, but it's when one is emotionally, physically, sexually, or intimately involved with another, without the acceptance from the other. There's different kinds of cheating, but it's pretty self explanatory.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 03/20/12 06:33 PM
oh this one just drives me ape chit...when someone tells you they are making chinese food but you know it's actually delivery when you taste it,that's just freaking wrong.

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Tue 03/20/12 06:33 PM
If you can't tell your significant other then something's not right.

Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Tue 03/20/12 06:37 PM
Everyone's got a different definition. Let's hear it I don't see how everyone can have a different definition. I mean, if you want to play dumb, I guess I can see, but it's when one is emotionally, physically, sexually, or intimately involved with another, without the acceptance from the other. There's different kinds of cheating, but it's pretty self explanatory. Im not trying to 'Play dumb' at all. Its an honest question. some people view sexting as cheating, somw view.porn as cheating, some view sex as cheating, some.view other things as cheating. Thereforw everyone has their.own definition.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 03/20/12 06:49 PM
I didn't mean for it to come across as me saying you're trying to play dumb, but those are forms of cheating. What I was trying say is when people are confronted by their partner when getting caught, they may try to make excuses, and try to manipulate it to seem as though they were not cheating, or didn't feel as though they were. When you are supposed to be exclusive with another, it's usually in every way, not just physical. Every person and relationship is different though.

mckim1968 Joined Mon 03/12/12 Posts: 1	Tue 03/20/12 06:57 PM
YES A LOT OF PEOPLE HAS DIFFERENT MEANINGS OF CHEATING!TO ME IF YOU ARE IN A COMITTED,,THERE SHOULD NOT BE ANY FRENCH KISSING OTHER PEOPLE THERE SHOW BE NO CAM SHOWS FOR OTHER PEOPLE THERE SHOULD NOT BE ANY SEX TALK BETWEEN OTHER PEOPLE,, NOT ANY TOUCHING IN A SEXAUAL WAY,,,,IN LESS IT IS AGREE APOND BEFORE WITH UR PARTER,

Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Tue 03/20/12 07:00 PM
I didn't mean for it to come across as me saying you're trying to play dumb, but those are forms of cheating. What I was trying say is when people are confronted by their partner when getting caught, they may try to make excuses, and try to manipulate it to seem as though they were not cheating, or didn't feel as though they were. When you are supposed to be exclusive with another, it's usually in every way, not just physical. Every person and relationship is different though. I agree fully. But I felt I should ask because in my other thread, the question of what is considered cheating kept popping up.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 03/20/12 07:07 PM
It's a good topic of discussion. :)

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Tue 03/20/12 07:36 PM
WEll I Hate cheaters and I hate liars......have noooo room for themin my LIFE!! There is No excuse No reason if your not happy in a relationship then just end it! People who cheat & lie are Weak. I have been cheated on & Lied to so much that is the main reason I am SINGLE!! Sad to Say

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 03/20/12 07:55 PM
I didn't mean for it to come across as me saying you're trying to play dumb, but those are forms of cheating. What I was trying say is when people are confronted by their partner when getting caught, they may try to make excuses, and try to manipulate it to seem as though they were not cheating, or didn't feel as though they were. When you are supposed to be exclusive with another, it's usually in every way, not just physical. Every person and relationship is different though. See, that's where differences come into play. I don't think porn is a form of cheating and you do. I think that's the kind of thing the OP was talking about.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 03/20/12 07:57 PM Edited by Totage on Tue 03/20/12 07:57 PM
How is it not a form of cheating?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 03/20/12 08:10 PM
How is it not a form of cheating? A better question would be how is watching porn cheating?

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Tue 03/20/12 08:20 PM
I don't think(PORN) is considerded cheating........ It's just something sick people watch they get addicted to it ....they need help! If they had a real woman/man why would they need it?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 03/20/12 08:23 PM
Porn is fun for everyone. Haha!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 03/20/12 08:39 PM
How is it not a form of cheating? A better question would be how is watching porn cheating? Well you're fantasizing about being sexual with someone other than your partner. You're cheating in a way, no? You're lusting over someone other than your partner, who should be the only one you have any sexual desire for. It's kinda hard to explain, if you don't see it the same way. How is encouraging yourself to desire others sexually not a form of cheating?

Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Tue 03/20/12 08:57 PM
How is it not a form of cheating? A better question would be how is watching porn cheating? Well you're fantasizing about being sexual with someone other than your partner. You're cheating in a way, no? You're lusting over someone other than your partner, who should be the only one you have any sexual desire for. It's kinda hard to explain, if you don't see it the same way. How is encouraging yourself to desire others sexually not a form of cheating? I fully agree!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 03/20/12 08:57 PM
I don't feel that fantasizing is cheating, if it just involves yourself and porn.