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Topic: What do you consider cheating?
RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 03/21/12 01:41 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkjyZHZhokM this is cheating when it comes to cleaning tile

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 03/21/12 01:56 PM
I think people take porn too seriously. I've never dealt with someone who has lied about watching it, or who has been addicted to it. Sometimes, it's even fun to watch together. And other times, it's just funny. Especially ones like Lord Of The G-Strings and Edward Penishands. Edward Penishands was what I was thinking of when I wrote that.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Thu 03/22/12 01:33 PM
For me, I wouldn't want my man looking at another naked women and wanting her, whether it's in a book or a movie or on the street. Sure if we are watching something and someone looks good that's cool, but actually fantasizing about her. For me I wouldn't like it. I appreciate a good looking man and enjoy seeing a nice body or great smile, but i'm not going to imagine him in my bed, to me that would be being unfaithful. I like whats mine to stay mine, The same as I am his. But that's just me

Revenge13 Joined Wed 03/14/12 Posts: 106	Thu 03/22/12 02:04 PM
For me, I wouldn't want my man looking at another naked women and wanting her, whether it's in a book or a movie or on the street. Sure if we are watching something and someone looks good that's cool, but actually fantasizing about her. For me I wouldn't like it. I appreciate a good looking man and enjoy seeing a nice body or great smile, but i'm not going to imagine him in my bed, to me that would be being unfaithful. I like whats mine to stay mine, The same as I am his. But that's just me Srand I agree fully. But many guys dont seem to understand until they are put in our position

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 03/22/12 02:23 PM
Like I said before, I think people make too big a deal out of porn. But, I've never dated someone who was more into porn than me, so someone watching porn has never been something that has bothered me. If a guy is going to be more into porn than the woman he is with, or have unrealistic expectations because of porn, they're not going to be someone I'm into anyway.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 03/22/12 03:52 PM
There is no excuse for cheating. Its a choice. Cheating is cheating, no matter how many times it happened. A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn't get to be with the amazing girl he phucked over. Cheating, lying, lusting, all the same chit.

Fire2Burn Joined Mon 01/31/11 Posts: 606	Thu 03/22/12 04:17 PM Edited by Fire2Burn on Thu 03/22/12 04:18 PM
There is no excuse for cheating. Its a choice. Cheating is cheating, no matter how many times it happened. A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn't get to be with the amazing girl he phucked over. Cheating, lying, lusting, all the same chit. wats cheating for you..??

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 03/22/12 04:23 PM
There is no excuse for cheating. Its a choice. Cheating is cheating, no matter how many times it happened. A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn't get to be with the amazing girl he phucked over. Cheating, lying, lusting, all the same chit. wats cheating for you..?? Making a promise when you're exclusive and destroying it later on.

Fire2Burn Joined Mon 01/31/11 Posts: 606	Thu 03/22/12 04:28 PM
i see, for me cheating would be having intimate counter with another partner tht is not me or her, going on dates thts it is not ur partner u see where am getting at..?? a misunderstanding wont b consider as cheating..

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Thu 03/22/12 04:32 PM
Destroying the promise=phucking somebody that's not me. I'd say that's a pretty direct action.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 03/22/12 04:34 PM
Is a woman using a dildo cheating? Is a man spanking the monkey cheating? Is a man sticking his wife or gfs dildo up his sphincter cheating?

Fire2Burn Joined Mon 01/31/11 Posts: 606	Thu 03/22/12 04:36 PM
Destroying the promise=phucking somebody that's not me. I'd say that's a pretty direct action. I agree..

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 03/22/12 04:37 PM
I don't know how sticking his wife up his sphincter would be cheating but i meant his wifes dildo not his actual wife.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 03/22/12 04:48 PM Edited by RKISIT on Thu 03/22/12 04:48 PM
Cheating to me would be the fundamental basics of cheating. 1)i catch her screwing another guy 2)?...oh french kissing another guy 3)using the same dildo i use on another guy

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 03/22/12 05:08 PM
Is a woman using a dildo cheating? Is a man spanking the monkey cheating? Is a man sticking his wife or gfs dildo up his sphincter cheating? Is there anyone who actually thinks masturbation or using toys is cheating?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 03/22/12 05:14 PM
Is a woman using a dildo cheating? Is a man spanking the monkey cheating? Is a man sticking his wife or gfs dildo up his sphincter cheating? Is there anyone who actually thinks masturbation or using toys is cheating? Some Muschristews believe it is.

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Thu 03/22/12 05:18 PM
What it comes down to for me is having a completely transparent relationship. No secrets. If you betray that trust you deserve what you get.

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Thu 03/22/12 05:36 PM
If you can't tell your significant other then something's not right. You hit the nail on the head!

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Thu 03/22/12 05:55 PM
Lying to me to be with someone else instead of just coming out and talking to me. I was in a situation a couple of years ago with a cheating individual who I finally caught more by accident than anything to be honest. We were two different individuals with different ideas about life at the time, and as such I would have have understood if she had wanted to break it off, but instead she went about it in secret and in lying completely until she was busted. What bothered me more than the betrayal of trust though was the pleading and begging for another chance afterwords. I find this revolting and have little tolerance for it since I make it very clear about my views on the subject.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Thu 03/22/12 06:25 PM
I don't know how sticking his wife up his sphincter would be cheating but i meant his wifes dildo not his actual wife. I don't think that would be comfortable/enjoyable for either one of them....