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I find so many of my friends can't find "a good man" but then you get into their requirements and it's ridiculous. I am 41. At this age, almost all guys have kids who are single/divorced and my friends want to be their only baby momma or to be the focus of the guy's entire life or not have him talk to his ex. A lot of the guys our age are broke from paying alimony and child support and they want the guys to be wealthy. Also the economy sucks right now and a lot of good men are underemployed. They will not date a bald guy. Yet at this age, most of them have had their hair migrate off their head, down their back and to the azz. They want the physically fit super built men. Most of those guys blew out knees, ankles, shoulders, elbows, by now playing sports They don't want the guy with glasses. Not all women are that way but I know so many and then they wonder why they are disappointed. Any thoughts? allow me to say.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHa!!!! Never married, never divorced, no kids, no ex's to deal with, no freakishly wierd family to deal with on holidays, gainfully employed for the last solid 16 years and I got a petty impressive penis. My hair only migrates north and south when I am whipping it as I kareoke. I covered things for all the males here... Now...puff out your boobs. hehehehehehehehe |
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If the dick is good they may reconsider all of the above.
That's how my ex wives qualified me... my dick is great. If they would have got to know me at all they would have found out that I made all my money before age 19. What makes women like your friend think she can compete with what a healthy, financially secure and attractive male can buy or have? Girls just wanna bang me and don't want a damn thing but that experience a divorced, twice married, twice divorced father of two can give them. As for bad knees, if your friend was any good she would know what the reverse cowgirl is and know how to please a male by sitting on his face. Jason Statham's girlfriend is young and smoking hott. |
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Hey ujGearhead, And do you have an active social life which includes dating? I do... and I've been accused of being a "player". Sometimes, a guy just can't win! Oh, did I mention that I don't watch sports and can dance??? Maybe that makes up for the lack of ponytail? :-) Ummm, well, not REAL active lately, but in all fairness, I've only been single for around a week and I'm not exactly looking that hard. 
No sports + dancing= No ponytail? Errrmmmm, not sure about that, but it may help you if you're looking for a boyfriend. 
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I am kind of amazed how often people will walk right past people who would treat them fine, even treasure them, to run after some kind of phoney romantic scenario. Instead of seeing a person in a repsectable safe place they are willing to meet in some sleezy bar, get half drunk, go tot thier home being vunerable to almost anything , and then drag home thinking it just must be love. Obviusly, I have never gotten to work my mojo on ya. Take my word for it....I would make you smiley and happy and feel good. I wouldn't even try to take dirty pix of ya. (hoping she believes that line of crap) :) |
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Ummm, well, not REAL active lately, but in all fairness, I've only been single for around a week and I'm not exactly looking that hard.
No sports + dancing= No ponytail? Errrmmmm, not sure about that, but it may help you if you're looking for a boyfriend.
Just be the good man you have been UJ. A good woman would do good to get lucky enough to have you be the man to lug her new penis around for her. (that is suppossed to be an encouragement...just go with it) |
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Ummm, well, not REAL active lately, but in all fairness, I've only been single for around a week and I'm not exactly looking that hard.
No sports + dancing= No ponytail? Errrmmmm, not sure about that, but it may help you if you're looking for a boyfriend.
Just be the good man you have been UJ. A good woman would do good to get lucky enough to have you be the man to lug her new penis around for her. (that is suppossed to be an encouragement...just go with it) "Good man"!?!?  See, that's how rumors get started. Next thing you know nobody will believe that I'm the one who invented pie!
It's always something with those women. First they want you to carry around their newly-found schlong. Then they expect you to put pants on when you go out. It never ends. Next thing you know they want you to stop humping the neighbors sheep! 
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Thank you, Teadipper. Not only are the expectations a bit unrealistic, they are also... oh how do I say this... oh just horrible. For all you ladies waiting for someone to take care of you and your offspring until you find the next guy to take to the cleaners... well, you might be fun to date, but I will never respect you, and I'm not falling for that either. Teadipper, you can tell your friends that good men are out there, but they usually avoid the type of women you describe. For many women looking for Mr. Right, I prefer to be Mr. Wrong. I don't want a woman to say, "I need you so much!" I'd prefer she not need me at all. It would mean so much more. And by the way... I ran 7 miles yesterday, my hair is still full, I don't wear glasses, my finances are in good shape and I ONLY hang out with nice people. I am happy by myself. Strangely that means that I'm usually not by myself! Now that is some sexy talk right there! |
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Some are looking for Utopia ... Good luck to them :)
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Some are looking for Utopia ... Good luck to them :) Humm did you change your name to Utopia? Come here you sweet thang~~~~~ 
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Some are looking for Utopia ... Good luck to them :) Humm did you change your name to Utopia? Come here you sweet thang~~~~~
Hehehehe You're such a Sweetie,Kristi!  
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Some are looking for Utopia ... Good luck to them :) Humm did you change your name to Utopia? Come here you sweet thang~~~~~
Hehehehe You're such a Sweetie,Kristi!
Ohh heck I can't wait till you find that one that turns your head upside down and is a keeper
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Some are looking for Utopia ... Good luck to them :) Humm did you change your name to Utopia? Come here you sweet thang~~~~~
Hehehehe You're such a Sweetie,Kristi!
Ohh heck I can't wait till you find that one that turns your head upside down and is a keeper
Someday the miracle will happen! LOL but till then I'ma chill like Bob Dylan! :P |
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Only way to be......I'm a chilling....is it beer time yet??
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You're SO right! hehehe
Well you always make it beer time ANYTIME , yanno? LOL |
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Hahah yeah now to convince my boss of that~~~~
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Interesting thread this and some of the comments are amusing
For me, a man has to be kind, compassionate, truthful and respectful. It does not matter whether he is a rich man or a poor man. As for looks, great if he is nice looking as well but looks are only skin deep - beauty is in the eye of the beholder
At least some common interests are a big plus. People tend to be very materialistic these days and don't see that there are far more important things in life. Sometimes it can take a tragedy to teach you that. I nearly lost my son when he was 15. Thankfully he is well now thanks to the skill of our doctors and the greatest gift of all from my brother - a kidney - the gift of life because without it my son may not be here now. Even after donating a kidney, my brother, a truly kind and generous person in the true sense regularly donates blood so he can help other people. He is not the best looking guy in the world and women tend to pass him by. They are missing someone who would treat them like a queen. My brother has never married. He got hurt very badly when he was younger. He's 61 now and has resigned himself to being alone which is so sad. He hasn't got a PC and despite my nagging at him to get one and get on the dating sites, he refuses. If I could wave a magic wand for him I would. He really does deserve love and happiness in his life. |
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Hahah yeah now to convince my boss of that~~~~
Good luck! 
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I find so many of my friends can't find "a good man" but then you get into their requirements and it's ridiculous. I am 41. At this age, almost all guys have kids who are single/divorced and my friends want to be their only baby momma or to be the focus of the guy's entire life or not have him talk to his ex. A lot of the guys our age are broke from paying alimony and child support and they want the guys to be wealthy. Also the economy sucks right now and a lot of good men are underemployed. They will not date a bald guy. Yet at this age, most of them have had their hair migrate off their head, down their back and to the azz. They want the physically fit super built men. Most of those guys blew out knees, ankles, shoulders, elbows, by now playing sports They don't want the guy with glasses. Not all women are that way but I know so many and then they wonder why they are disappointed. Any thoughts? It's not wrong to want those things. Pretty much everyone wants those things, the perfect mate. It's wrong to expect it though. You can want to date a celebrity but unless you are one or in the circle, just don't expect it to happen. |
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Tue 03/13/12 09:54 AM
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Interesting thread this and some of the comments are amusing
For me, a man has to be kind, compassionate, truthful and respectful. It does not matter whether he is a rich man or a poor man. As for looks, great if he is nice looking as well but looks are only skin deep - beauty is in the eye of the beholder
At least some common interests are a big plus. People tend to be very materialistic these days and don't see that there are far more important things in life. Sometimes it can take a tragedy to teach you that. I nearly lost my son when he was 15. Thankfully he is well now thanks to the skill of our doctors and the greatest gift of all from my brother - a kidney - the gift of life because without it my son may not be here now. Even after donating a kidney, my brother, a truly kind and generous person in the true sense regularly donates blood so he can help other people. He is not the best looking guy in the world and women tend to pass him by. They are missing someone who would treat them like a queen. My brother has never married. He got hurt very badly when he was younger. He's 61 now and has resigned himself to being alone which is so sad. He hasn't got a PC and despite my nagging at him to get one and get on the dating sites, he refuses. If I could wave a magic wand for him I would. He really does deserve love and happiness in his life. It is sad how an early heartbreak seems to make some souls withdraw from the love that would envelope them of they gave it the tineyest chance. I don't know if it would work or not but you could write a profile and request an Aoril Fools Bachelorette letter shower to a PO. Box and see if something wonderful turns out. Or even sponsor a local Singles Only Party With A Purpose to benifit his favorite charity and see what Cupid can come up with. |
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