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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Is she selling an extra ticket or one that she had? Maybe you could enjoy the concert with her. Eitherway, if you're going to waste her time pretending to buy the ticket, you could at least actually buy it. |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Is she selling an extra ticket or one that she had? Maybe you could enjoy the concert with her. Eitherway, if you're going to waste her time pretending to buy the ticket, you could at least actually buy it. She is selling it cause she can't go. But yea I probably will end up buying it and reselling it lol. |
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You could have just started a conversation with her, asked her for her number, then asked her out. Making up excuses is not the adult way of doing things. Who said anything about doing it the adult way? :p And idk I just feel weird striking up convos on facebook. |
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MrDolla
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Sun 02/26/12 08:35 PM
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Is she selling an extra ticket or one that she had? Maybe you could enjoy the concert with her. Eitherway, if you're going to waste her time pretending to buy the ticket, you could at least actually buy it. She is selling it cause she can't go. But yea I probably will end up buying it and reselling it lol. Well, at least you know one thing she likes. Why not go and get her a gift from the concert? Maybe give it a chance, try to see why she likes what she likes. You could tell her about the concert, what you thought, etc. |
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that is kind of cute, i would just come clean and tell her the truth she might think it's cute too. if not, oh well, ya gave it shot.
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I find it to be more inconsiderate than cute, but what's done is done, just try to make the best of it I suppose.
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Why don't you privste post her, since you are both on face book.You do know you can do that so no one else knows what your doing., an you won't be embarresed if she says no. if you don'twant to do that, look at what she is doing an drop by where she is at, an say wow nice seeing you here. Just don't stalk her SMILE an remember honesty is always the best policy
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ u could also tell her the truth and hope for the best NO MORE GAMES yea but the thing is is I havent seen this girl in a while. And I dont really want to ask her out over facebook. Hence why I wante to at least have an excuse to meet her and ask her out that way. I could still buy the ticket and ask her out. games no matter how you rationalize it just tell her exactly what u posted - that u want to meet up & talk |
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You could have just started a conversation with her, asked her for her number, then asked her out. Making up excuses is not the adult way of doing things. Who said anything about doing it the adult way? :p And idk I just feel weird striking up convos on facebook. your words >>Who said anything about doing it the adult way? :p true - my son at age 13 handled it better |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Well I've heard some stories before, this is a good one Lol.. You know this girl already so you are one step ahead, believe it or not. Of course you can message and ask her on Facebook, it's 2012 people do it all the time. All you have to say is Hey ''Mary'' How are you? I won't be able to take that concert ticket after all, sorry about that. I haven't seen you around in a long time, I was wondering are you seeing anyone at the moment? Do it, do it, do it....Oh and let us know how you get on |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Well I've heard some stories before, this is a good one Lol.. You know this girl already so you are one step ahead, believe it or not. Of course you can message and ask her on Facebook, it's 2012 people do it all the time. All you have to say is Hey ''Mary'' How are you? I won't be able to take that concert ticket after all, sorry about that. I haven't seen you around in a long time, I was wondering are you seeing anyone at the moment? Do it, do it, do it....Oh and let us know how you get on Let me just be clear we went to highschool together but I havent seen her in 2 years really. But yea I think I will straight up ask her out. |
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