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Topic: What causes divorce
Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:24 AM
divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:27 AM
marriage


RhonLynn's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:30 AM

marriage






BINGO!!!
brokenheart

Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:35 AM

marriage



more detail please

laylanie74's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:35 AM
marraige lol

i knew my x hubby for 3 years we married in oct 03, jan 04 he had a grand maul seizure, after a a year an a half of near death experiences, tons of arguments on anything from his drinking, differentent paranting styles. and forcing him to the dr, we decided mid 05 divorce was a better option than making our kid suffer.


flowers flowers were actually better friend now, we get along and actually went camping this yearflowers flowers

we did and do lov each other but cant be around each other 24/7 so we do what works for us.

drinks

Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:37 AM

we want to learn and amend

Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:42 AM

marraige lol

i knew my x hubby for 3 years we married in oct 03, jan 04 he had a grand maul seizure, after a a year an a half of near death experiences, tons of arguments on anything from his drinking, differentent paranting styles. and forcing him to the dr, we decided mid 05 divorce was a better option than making our kid suffer.


flowers flowers were actually better friend now, we get along and actually went camping this yearflowers flowers

we did and do lov each other but cant be around each other 24/7 so we do what works for us.

drinks

you mean you have divorced each other

laylanie74's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:46 AM


hes got a girlfriend now, its kinda more fun she so jelouse. cause i ask him to do things, invite him to birthday partys, and family stuff. she always invite herself cause she thinks iam trying to steal him back its sooooo cute

flowers flowers

people divorce for different reasons

r main focus was our daughter, amazing after the divorce he realized how much he wanted her in his life and stopped drinking, hes still and uncontrolled epliptic, but is doing good.

Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 09:57 AM



hes got a girlfriend now, its kinda more fun she so jelouse. cause i ask him to do things, invite him to birthday partys, and family stuff. she always invite herself cause she thinks iam trying to steal him back its sooooo cute

flowers flowers

people divorce for different reasons

r main focus was our daughter, amazing after the divorce he realized how much he wanted her in his life and stopped drinking, hes still and uncontrolled epliptic, but is doing good.

but divorcing do affect children

ferrylinc's photo
Fri 08/19/11 10:12 AM
Divorce is good and bad in its own ways. Every situtation is different. Whatever be the case please take care of the kids.

Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 10:18 AM

Divorce is good and bad in its own ways. Every situtation is different. Whatever be the case please take care of the kids.

but father n mother has different role to play in children life

KevinHecka's photo
Fri 08/19/11 12:24 PM
The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces.

K.

Niceladyrealy's photo
Fri 08/19/11 12:30 PM
What cause divorce is emotioly imature selfish people that have a problem comunicating efectvly witheir partner.

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 08/19/11 12:32 PM

divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


IMHO: They got married for the wrong reasons, and were not compatible from the beginning, or they did not nurture their relationship - and it withered and died... they lied to each other, they cheated on each other, one grew in a different direction than each other, our society is a "quick fix" society where we consume, throw away - then look for something new.... thre are as many reasons for divorce, as ther are divorces themselves...

Personally, focus on the positive, find a woman you are truly compatible with, be true to yourself - but yet be respectful and nurturing with your relationships and hopefully you will turn out to be one of the success stories!

$.02 drinker

navygirl's photo
Fri 08/19/11 03:43 PM

divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


Well from what my many divorced friends tell me a break down in communication, non existant sex life; money problems, and just growing apart as people change so much as they age.

Jumper4480's photo
Fri 08/19/11 03:57 PM


divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


Well from what my many divorced friends tell me a break down in communication, non existant sex life; money problems, and just growing apart as people change so much as they age.

can't this be control?

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 08/19/11 04:05 PM

divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


My guess is biotchyness.

krupa's photo
Fri 08/19/11 04:10 PM
After watching life around me as I grew up, I promised myself I would never go through a divorce. So, I never got married. I love being the only person I know who hasn't been through that crap.

krupa's photo
Fri 08/19/11 04:14 PM

The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces.

K.


Gotta respectfully disagree there Kman. Unfortunately alot of people think that being forgiven is a free pass to do the same crap again...cause you are cool with it. Seen it happen too many times to think otherwise. There is an end to forgiveness.

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Fri 08/19/11 04:22 PM



divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


Well from what my many divorced friends tell me a break down in communication, non existant sex life; money problems, and just growing apart as people change so much as they age.

can't this be control?


What are you trying to say? Are you asking if it is a way to control or can this be controled?

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