Topic: What causes divorce
msharmony's photo
Fri 08/19/11 04:26 PM
cause of divorce is,,,,wait for it


lack of TRUE friendship

True friends look after each other as second nature, dont do things that would harm or hurt the other,etc,,

its easy to be a true friend when we live our own lives, but when our decisions actually will affect one sharing a life with us, its hard to give up or compromise what we 'want' in consideration of what might hurt or harm them



when people loose or never had that type of true friendship, they rarely are able to maintain a marriage or any other relationship beyond the superficial attraction/courtship and fun stage.

Jumper4480's photo
Mon 08/22/11 05:10 PM

cause of divorce is,,,,wait for it


lack of TRUE friendship

True friends look after each other as second nature, dont do things that would harm or hurt the other,etc,,

its easy to be a true friend when we live our own lives, but when our decisions actually will affect one sharing a life with us, its hard to give up or compromise what we 'want' in consideration of what might hurt or harm them



when people loose or never had that type of true friendship, they rarely are able to maintain a marriage or any other relationship beyond the superficial attraction/courtship and fun stage.

sad

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Mon 08/22/11 05:26 PM
I couldn't agree more with your statement, communication Is one of the main tools in any relationship, along with trust and honesty, and all the other things, needed to make it work.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/22/11 05:42 PM

Back on Planet Melmac the #1 cause of divorce was the law against murder. The morticians were jealous of the divorce lawyers.

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Mon 08/22/11 07:11 PM

divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

Jumper4480's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:37 PM


divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

bacon?

Jumper4480's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:37 PM


divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

bacon?

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Mon 08/22/11 07:42 PM



divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

bacon?


wel lif u have to ask twice you have never cooked breakfast with a bacon angry spouse

because I am kind I will warn u

DO NOT EAT THE LAST PIECE

txmomof2's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:43 PM


Divorce is good and bad in its own ways. Every situtation is different. Whatever be the case please take care of the kids.

but father n mother has different role to play in children life


very true but not always is one parent or the other a good parent for the child

Jumper4480's photo
Mon 08/22/11 07:58 PM



Divorce is good and bad in its own ways. Every situtation is different. Whatever be the case please take care of the kids.

but father n mother has different role to play in children life


very true but not always is one parent or the other a good parent for the child

more detail

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:02 PM
I would have to agree with masharmony. I can remember my in laws telling my ex and me early on when everything was working fine that us kids should get married. She had already moved out of her parents house and had her own place. Against her better judgement I sided with her parents and moved into her old room with her. She told me later that it was making her crazy trying to do what her parents wanted and what I wanted. She felt that she was being divided. Later I began to understand that her mother was controlling both houses when we got theoretically our own place. I found out that she hadn't divorced her mother before she married me. I didn't believe in being married to more than one person.

txmomof2's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:02 PM




Divorce is good and bad in its own ways. Every situtation is different. Whatever be the case please take care of the kids.

but father n mother has different role to play in children life


very true but not always is one parent or the other a good parent for the child

more detail


when one parent is abusive either physically or mentally to either the child or the other parent

oldhippie1952's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:08 PM

The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces.

K.


It is hard to forgive finding her in bed with others again and again.

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Mon 08/22/11 08:17 PM


The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces.

K.


It is hard to forgive finding her in bed with others again and again.


hmmm chasing the bacon eh? naughty girl - prolly should never have married in the first place

married means makin bacon with the same porker every time

oldhippie1952's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:22 PM



The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces.

K.


It is hard to forgive finding her in bed with others again and again.


hmmm chasing the bacon eh? naughty girl - prolly should never have married in the first place

married means makin bacon with the same porker every time


We were young and she went wild and wanted to swing. I knew she was like that when we married but love is blind you know.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 08/22/11 08:25 PM
lust and selfishness and inflexibility!

drinker

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Tue 08/23/11 06:53 AM




The inability to forgive one another is the only CAUSE of divorces.

K.


It is hard to forgive finding her in bed with others again and again.


hmmm chasing the bacon eh? naughty girl - prolly should never have married in the first place

married means makin bacon with the same porker every time


We were young and she went wild and wanted to swing. I knew she was like that when we married but love is blind you know.


yes it definitely can be

it's one thing to imagine or fantasize

another entirely to actually go for it

unless ur single of course

then that's the whole point

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Tue 08/23/11 07:13 AM



divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

bacon?


CASE in point-


Gotta watch out for these lil guys-- DANGEROUS homewreckers!! slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

txmomof2's photo
Tue 08/23/11 07:44 AM




divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

bacon?


CASE in point-


Gotta watch out for these lil guys-- DANGEROUS homewreckers!! slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl



slaphead slaphead slaphead scared scared rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Tue 08/23/11 07:38 PM




divorcing direct n indirect are many and it suprising ,do they want to be free to satisfy their selfishness or what is causing this?


bacon

bacon?


CASE in point-


Gotta watch out for these lil guys-- DANGEROUS homewreckers!! slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


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