both bc men like touch but so do women

A marriage counseling site. 91% of married men have affairs with married women because neither party wants a long term relationship and that's what they are looking for.

who cheats more doesn't really matter. It's the repercussions of the cheating that have the long term effect. if a man cheats and never see the woman again nothing is really lost.

But, if a woman cheats there is a risk she's become pregnant. If so what will she do? Have an abortion? Lie and tell her husband it's his child? Tell the truth and risk losing her husband?

DNA studies have shown that about 30% of us (people in all cultures across the globe) have a father different than the one we think he is.

Stating at what age? This wasn't so prevelant 50 years ago.

Man r cheats !

Men are visual beings-that being said-they are more apt to cheat. Women are emotional beings-yes we may have attractions-but are less apt to act on them. At least if you're 40 something or older. The twenty somethings are a different story. Alot of people from that age group don't even consider certain sexual acts-sex. It's all in the interpretation - that's just mine.

Both are same..

To me it is 50/50. But women are tricky in nature.

This is a great way to get misandrist, misogynist, and generally sexist generalized responses...
Most people picking are saying that sex cheats more because it's happened to them... suddenly 3 or 4 guys or girls somehow represent what the whole of men or women do?
Let's just assume both are equally likely to cheat and stop giving others a bad rep.

The one who hasn't matured enough to communicate properly, and figure out what it is they really want. Can be male, female, or whatever. To think one gender cheats more than the other is as ignorant as thinking that a specific race cheats more than another.

its not necessarily ignorant, as the laws of numbers dictates one PROBABLY does do it MORE than the other

its much less likely that the situation is evenly split down the middle

taking into account culture also makes one situation more likely than another

its like saying people in their twenties are more likely to be starting families than people in their thirties,,,because culture promotes promiscuous party style lifestyles for college aged folks more than it does for those who have achieved degrees and responsibilities etc,,,

I think I kinda see your point, but I don't really agree. You're either a good person or not, regardless of culture, age, or anything else.

I agree with that

I just dont think everyone views cheating in the perspective of whether someone is 'good' or not,,,

I don't see how cheating can not be viewed as bad.

its tricky

I would never do it, because I Think it is 'bad'

but many people dont have a connect between sex and emotions, and their version of living is 'live and let live' even in their own relationships

their partner may consider them 'cheating', but they never considered themself to be in a commitment in the first place

or their feelings seem 'complicated' by new feelings for someone else,,,etc,,,

I think circumstances have more to do with it than gender or age. Things like opportunity. Years ago when most women were in the home men really did cheat more in my opinion. They had opportunity far more often than women at home all day with children present and much less opportunity. But I think as our lifestyles equal out as far as working and being independent the opportunities for women are also there

so prolly both genders equally - depending on the person & the circumstances...

Just my own exprience...women are shifty, shady and way dirtier than thier screwed up men.

That bein said...women and men are worthy of trust. Cause there are some good people out there.

My woman has never done me dirty and never will....(this is faith) But, not all of you will get lucky, like I did. I can only hope that everyoneone here gets lucky eough to find a true lover like my Souphie....(That b!tch is a top shelf lover)...I mean that in a good way.

True, but that has nothing to do with gender.

Awww, you are the essence of romantical :-)

I have never cheated, nor been cheated upon.
Of all the people I know who HAVE cheated, to
a person, they were very insecure, always
wanting a better deal.
Validating themselves by what is on their arm.
I would weed them early on.

it is reinforced by cultural norms and expectations though