Topic: Queen Of Impatience
Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 06/08/11 11:13 AM

A big part of patience is replacing negative words with possitive ones. Can't, don't, won't, words like these can be replaced with can, do, will. In speaking I have even replaced cuss words and have noticed a big change in my thinking. Not that cuss words are bad, it's just that I was only using them in a bad way.

Instead of looking at what we hate about a situation we can look at what we like about it, or what we can learn from it.

Ever talk to someone and catch yourself using almost all negative words about a topic, or listening to someone doing the same. Well this has a huge effect on your thinking and actions.

I call this my negative/possitive meter.


Im pretty optimistic actually, i am just not patient, I have three kids, two jobs, i like to get things done, when i want an answer i want it immediately....it's pretty messed up. I have time frames and deadlines and it's hard to have patience and let others be responsible for their own actions at the same time. And this does not just apply to kids either, but friends and co-workers too. If everyone was on MY PAYROLL they would act accordingly, LOL.

flawlessmeans's photo
Wed 06/08/11 11:15 AM
So you could look at it like this, if you decide not to take the time to get where youd like with Who You Like, then you may rush past the things that are most important to you about that person, you may otherwise pass the things you fined most important to yourself withen this rushing. Being a yung adult and still prone to wanting to RUSH or be impatient, I have to remined myself of this bydayly and it truely helps me.ohwell

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 06/08/11 11:36 AM
this is true

soufiehere's photo
Wed 06/08/11 02:15 PM
I am sooo impatient.
When someone is talking, slowly,
I fade into myself and start doing
taxes in my head or something.

I have this rapt look that
covers my azz :-)

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:20 PM

I am sooo impatient.
When someone is talking, slowly,
I fade into myself and start doing
taxes in my head or something.

I have this rapt look that
covers my azz :-)



You said, start doing taxes in your head, laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh oh your hilarious...

no photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:21 PM

Are you Impatient....I struggle with this...

How do we fix it??
yes I am impatient, and I don't know how to fix it frustrated

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:32 PM


Are you Impatient....I struggle with this...

How do we fix it??
yes I am impatient, and I don't know how to fix it frustrated


OH raTz ASZ, me neither :angry: tears whoa

Someone better hurry up and tell us, before we IMPLODE!

no photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:33 PM



Are you Impatient....I struggle with this...

How do we fix it??
yes I am impatient, and I don't know how to fix it frustrated


OH raTz ASZ, me neither :angry: tears whoa

Someone better hurry up and tell us, before we IMPLODE!
that's why people go postal explode

luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:37 PM
I am very impatient...blushing

because...

I want it ALL...:tongue:

and I want it NOW!!bigsmile

Damnit!!pitchfork

no photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:39 PM

I am very impatient...blushing

because...

I want it ALL...:tongue:

and I want it NOW!!bigsmile

Damnit!!pitchfork
now now, be patient :tongue:

luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:40 PM


I am very impatient...blushing

because...

I want it ALL...:tongue:

and I want it NOW!!bigsmile

Damnit!!pitchfork
now now, be patient :tongue:


Not gonna happen.

At least not in this lifetime.

no photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:41 PM



I am very impatient...blushing

because...

I want it ALL...:tongue:

and I want it NOW!!bigsmile

Damnit!!pitchfork
now now, be patient :tongue:


Not gonna happen.

At least not in this lifetime.
po thang flowerforyou

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:44 PM
Ahhh, I finally figured it out, I know where to get patience, From

GUNZ N ROSES!!!!laugh laugh love love laugh laugh

Girl, I think about you every day now
Was a time when I wasn't sure
But you set my mind at ease
There is no doubt you're in my heart now
Said woman take it slow
It'll work itself out fine
All we need is just a little patience
Said sugar make it slow
And we'll come together fine
All we need is just a little patience

luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 06/08/11 03:48 PM

Ahhh, I finally figured it out, I know where to get patience, From

GUNZ N ROSES!!!!laugh laugh love love laugh laugh

Girl, I think about you every day now
Was a time when I wasn't sure
But you set my mind at ease
There is no doubt you're in my heart now
Said woman take it slow
It'll work itself out fine
All we need is just a little patience
Said sugar make it slow
And we'll come together fine
All we need is just a little patience



Isnt that the pediatrician song?

little patients.laugh laugh

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 06/08/11 04:00 PM


Ahhh, I finally figured it out, I know where to get patience, From

GUNZ N ROSES!!!!laugh laugh love love laugh laugh

Girl, I think about you every day now
Was a time when I wasn't sure
But you set my mind at ease
There is no doubt you're in my heart now
Said woman take it slow
It'll work itself out fine
All we need is just a little patience
Said sugar make it slow
And we'll come together fine
All we need is just a little patience



Isnt that the pediatrician song?

little patients.laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh

krupa's photo
Wed 06/08/11 04:13 PM
Actually, I have used my art as an exercize in patience. IT works great because a hobby is some thing that you WANT to do...thereby you are willing to spend more time to do it right. The trick is applying that zen mode to day to day life.


luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 06/08/11 04:51 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Wed 06/08/11 04:52 PM




I am very impatient...blushing

because...

I want it ALL...:tongue:

and I want it NOW!!bigsmile

Damnit!!pitchfork
now now, be patient :tongue:


Not gonna happen.

At least not in this lifetime.
po thang flowerforyou


Im not po!!noway

Just alittle restless!!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Come on!!! YOur laggin!!laugh laugh

lionsbrew's photo
Wed 06/08/11 04:53 PM
I used to be impatient. Then I learned a very awesome bit of slang. "**** it."laugh It works for everything.laugh

luv2roknroll's photo
Wed 06/08/11 04:59 PM

I used to be impatient. Then I learned a very awesome bit of slang. "**** it."laugh It works for everything.laugh


Ummmmmmmmm....surprised

he said ****.shocked

lionsbrew's photo
Wed 06/08/11 05:00 PM


I used to be impatient. Then I learned a very awesome bit of slang. "**** it."laugh It works for everything.laugh


Ummmmmmmmm....surprised

he said ****.shocked

Tattletale!grumble grumble laugh laugh