tell me what u want out of a man

I know it's too much to ask for but i want him to be honest with me at all times.

hey thats not to much to ask

How is it not finding some1 who's doesn't lie to your face is hard.

I want a guy who realizes that just because I'm a girl, does not mean that I am like every other girl. I think guys assume that all girls, for instance, love shopping. For the record, I hate it, and I don't want to be part of the cliche majority. I like a guy who is intelligent enough to realize that girls can like things other than shoes and clothes and reality tv.

I don't know anymore....
I've been alone too long

That makes two of us!

As for the original question, if anyone ever finds the answer to that question, they would make a fortune. I think the best you can hope for is to be yourself and hope that someday you can find someone that likes who you are. If you try to change yourself into something you're not to get a woman chances are it won't last anyway!

We want a man to see and appreciate us for who we really are! Someone that isn't trying to manipulate our emotions or change us to fit the perfect little idea of a woman in his head.

I think people jump into relationships without clearly understanding who they are with, what their needs are, and what their more difficult to deal with traits may be. I am certainly guilty of doing so and have learned some hard lessons because of this!

My last BF loved me because I am smart, funny , fiery, and trustworthy! He didn't bargain for strongly independent, too smart to believe bs, stubborn, rebellious and at times, down right incorrigible! I can speak sharply when mad, although getting me to that point is difficult, if you do...you'd better have thick skin to deal with it. He was overly insecure and always twisting my words and saying I meant something else, which makes me pretty dang mad!

On my best day, I still can not be the woman my ex needs. I don't waste time worrying over petty "he said, she said" crap that was important for him. I could not stand listening to his whining and complaining about how someone at work didn't like him or boss was being unfair. he apparently can't handle..."that's life so suck it up" too well! Honestly, I am a great listener, but some people just never STFU about how crappy their life is when it really isn't that crappy, they are just unable to let themselves let anything go and will never be happy! However much I enjoy stroking a man's ego, one's like him suck the fun out of it by fussing when your whole world isn't busily revolving around him at every moment. I am too independent to be controlled and not too tolerant of jealousy!

We should have spent more time understanding one another than pushing buttons, but we didn't! Understand what your partner needs!

He needs someone nurturing, dramatic, and hanging on to his every word at every moment...that is not me! I need someone confident, trusting, independent and laid back...that is not him! Lesson learned

honesty can be somtimes a pain in the ***

no it isn't, but seems hard to find

love
fidelity
the courage to share how he feels
and to make things happen
intimacy
to made to feel that I am worth his time
and he isn;t interested in goin' elsewhere

It is hard to find someone who no matter what tells you the truth

I simply will not accept anything less than honesty.
I am honest with myself and actually expect it from whomever
my interest would be.
No, it's not too much to ask.
With honesty, comes the option for acceptance.

i understand what u are sayin i dont belive girls are all about material things some are and some of them want a guy that has money all the time for that and the man has to take care of thyem but a in a good relationship its 50/50 i belive both should work

u will find someone soon i just know u will dont give up cuse ur very pretty and seem to be nice

Absolutey nothing which is exactly what I got was when I was dating.

In general, women like the idea of me, but they come up with the rest of me in their fantasies. They are 99.9% wrong. Later on they get to know the real me and suddenly I crush their fantasy world because I turn out to have a different personality than their fantasy man and they back off.

This happened a few times already. So I would guess, what women want out of a man only exists in their fantasy world.

Someone who respets who I am and realizes that we are individuals and we each have our own thing.....yet we are willing to share our thing with each other whole-heartedly and completely. Sure we will have differences, but that is the best thing about getting to know each other and grow closer.

Stereo typical comments come from both genders and are, many times, unfair. Not all men only want sex. There are men who do want a relationship before sex. I've been seeing a woman for two months and while she kisses passonaltely the subject of sex has not been brough up. Someday, perhaps, but as for me I want someone I care for and who cares for me.

OMG Yes...what she said...you go girl!